Ive had a few threads and have pmed NorwegianDJ about this a few times before but i have no idea what i should do next, any suggestions? Ill try and keep this short:
I liked this girl for a long time, finally said something to her and she told me that she didnt want to be in a relationship because of a bunch of things. She wasnt just making up an excuse - she had to move away from home as her mums crazy, has a lot of stress from the subjects she is doing at school and will have to move countries at the end of the year to live with her aunt. She was saying her life is moving too fast now, she doesnt want to think about guys atm etc. and that she doesnt think i "deserve her baggage", yet she also said i was interesting and her friends think im cute.
I was at a party and she got a bit drunk (which was actually kind of an accident, wont explain it but she usually wouldnt have got drunk so easily) and was kind of flirty and hugged quite a few guys (and girls) but hugged me quite a bit, she even put her arm around my shoulder when we were inside to sing happy birthday and she may have tried to kiss me on the cheek but missed and i moved a bit (didnt realise -.-) lol. Idk if he heard off her or was just saying stuff but some guy at that party with no prior knowledge of anything between us heard that i liked her and told me that he doesnt think she wants to go out with me "just be **** buddies". Someone also asked her to hook up with me but she said that she didnt want me to think anything would happen afterwards.
Then a few weeks later i was kind of drunk texting her almost haha and in the replies she said i was awesome and "Nawwww you're cute as" so yeah, i think she likes me but idk how i can ask her out or anything. I know i cant have a completely serious relationship with her and i dont mind that - if she just wanted casual sex then id be fine with that. But if i try and ask her out i think she might think that i want a serious relationship. So what should i do? Keep in mind this is the only time i have been at a party with her/practically never see her outside of school, and if im lucky i might only get to be at 2 other parties with her this year - might be none though.
I liked this girl for a long time, finally said something to her and she told me that she didnt want to be in a relationship because of a bunch of things. She wasnt just making up an excuse - she had to move away from home as her mums crazy, has a lot of stress from the subjects she is doing at school and will have to move countries at the end of the year to live with her aunt. She was saying her life is moving too fast now, she doesnt want to think about guys atm etc. and that she doesnt think i "deserve her baggage", yet she also said i was interesting and her friends think im cute.
I was at a party and she got a bit drunk (which was actually kind of an accident, wont explain it but she usually wouldnt have got drunk so easily) and was kind of flirty and hugged quite a few guys (and girls) but hugged me quite a bit, she even put her arm around my shoulder when we were inside to sing happy birthday and she may have tried to kiss me on the cheek but missed and i moved a bit (didnt realise -.-) lol. Idk if he heard off her or was just saying stuff but some guy at that party with no prior knowledge of anything between us heard that i liked her and told me that he doesnt think she wants to go out with me "just be **** buddies". Someone also asked her to hook up with me but she said that she didnt want me to think anything would happen afterwards.
Then a few weeks later i was kind of drunk texting her almost haha and in the replies she said i was awesome and "Nawwww you're cute as" so yeah, i think she likes me but idk how i can ask her out or anything. I know i cant have a completely serious relationship with her and i dont mind that - if she just wanted casual sex then id be fine with that. But if i try and ask her out i think she might think that i want a serious relationship. So what should i do? Keep in mind this is the only time i have been at a party with her/practically never see her outside of school, and if im lucky i might only get to be at 2 other parties with her this year - might be none though.