What should I do with a girl that just stops responding to my messages?

[nismo-4]

This should really sum up your situation. I consider 13 a lucky number.

1. Delete her #. It's for your own good. You won't make the AFC move of texting her again only to get another IOD.

2. Try meeting other babes BKA spin more plates.

3. Remember that she probably found someone else better than you (or richer) and totally forgot about you. Otherwise you would have posted a field report about this wonderful girl.

4. I laughed hard when you stated that the girl could fall off the face of the planet. :crackup: :crackup:

5. If the girl flakes on you, she did you a favor by saying that she just wasn't that into you. It saved you a lot of time that you would've otherwise spent trying to chase her.

6. Texting sucks ass. That's why I don't do it. Get a real phone convo or a face to face meeting.

7. For every sexy babe you're hitting on, there are typically about 100 other guys going after her too. Remember that NBC game show 1 vs. 100? You're the 1 and you'd better be able to beat that mob.

8. Set up a date on a Tuesday or Wednesday night. Sunday afternoons are pretty good too, at least you'll have a date. Not a lot of pressure BTW.

9. The most beautiful of women (these days it those 6+) will always have a date on Friday or Saturday night. If you try setting up a date on those nights and you're not rich, you're like the banker from Deal Or No Deal, making an offer. Not good cuz the ball is in her court and she has the power to say Deal or No Deal.

10. Maybe you did some AFC sh*t in the beginning. I don't know if you did or didn't. I do know that you only get one first impression, and that's the lasting impression.

11. This girl would've responded if there was an iota of interest. IOI's are not something you can totally trust, despite the fact that IOD's can be trusted. There are no definitive IOI's. Not even if she holds up a goddamn Neon Sign that says "F**K ME NOW!"

12. Most girls nowadays are attention wh0res, this case being one of them. She wanted to have sex with another guy while getting her ego inflated by you. She apparently succeeded in that effort by giving you false hope.

13. Finally, most women these days are shallow, flakes like this. Accept this fact. Let it marinate. Move on.

And there you have it. Case closed.

 

[TizZle]

I'm kinda in the same situation. You gotta disappear. The chick i was messing around with (actually banging/hanging out) said to me yesterday that she is acting the way she is because she might be prego, but i know she's out partying with god knows who trying to have as much fun as possible
'without me"...

DISAPPEAR, she might come back but dont get your hopes up and do not make it easy for her if she does come crawling back.

 

[COD]

BUYERS REMORSE........the keywords chics use "I'll think about it, let me get back to you, call me later, we should hang out sometime, etc".

Loosly translate to not really interested.

The solution is to CARPE DIUM.......seize the moment........HEY WHAT ARE YOU DOING RIGHT NOW............then make an instant date.

 

[Kal0051]

Just from reading your posts you come off as extremely needy. I find it hard to believe this didn't seep through in your interactions with this girl.

nah, I was never needy with this girl. But whatever, I already deleted her number, now I gotta think of places to meet other girls since I don't have any girls on the go right now (and don't have time for club game; plus I hate club game).

 

[Kal0051]

BUYERS REMORSE........the keywords chics use "I'll think about it, let me get back to you, call me later, we should hang out sometime, etc".

never got those this this particular girl, here's our convo:

Me: You around next week? If so let's do something.
Her: Ya, I'll be around! I have sat and sun nights off!
Me: Well, I'm working on sat night but how bout sun night?
Her: Ya, sounds good!
Me: Cool, call you later this week
Her: sounds good!

And then no answer when I call or text. But I like I said previously, I deleted her number already, don't have time for attention *****s like her.

 

[Energizer]

Just from reading your posts you come off as extremely needy. I find it hard to believe this didn't seep through in your interactions with this girl.

I agree.

And what is worse that he will still be friendly to a girl who has strung him along. I wouldn't even acknowledge her, if I was Kal. I'd ignore her and keep on walking.

Don't let women cr*p on you from a great height and go back for of the same punishment. Accept she is a moron who isn't worth your time and find someone else who is worthy of your time.

 

[youbaby11]

I agree.

And what is worse that he will still be friendly to a girl who has strung him along. I wouldn't even acknowledge her, if I was Kal. I'd ignore her and keep on walking.

Don't let women cr*p on you from a great height and go back for of the same punishment. Accept she is a moron who isn't worth your time and find someone else who is worthy of your time.

:rockon:

 

[razkay]

1. Delete her #. It's for your own good. You won't make the AFC move of texting her again only to get another IOD.

2. Try meeting other babes BKA spin more plates.

3. Remember that she probably found someone else better than you (or richer) and totally forgot about you. Otherwise you would have posted a field report about this wonderful girl.

4. I laughed hard when you stated that the girl could fall off the face of the planet. :crackup: :crackup:

5. If the girl flakes on you, she did you a favor by saying that she just wasn't that into you. It saved you a lot of time that you would've otherwise spent trying to chase her.

6. Texting sucks ass. That's why I don't do it. Get a real phone convo or a face to face meeting.

7. For every sexy babe you're hitting on, there are typically about 100 other guys going after her too. Remember that NBC game show 1 vs. 100? You're the 1 and you'd better be able to beat that mob.

8. Set up a date on a Tuesday or Wednesday night. Sunday afternoons are pretty good too, at least you'll have a date. Not a lot of pressure BTW.

9. The most beautiful of women (these days it those 6+) will always have a date on Friday or Saturday night. If you try setting up a date on those nights and you're not rich, you're like the banker from Deal Or No Deal, making an offer. Not good cuz the ball is in her court and she has the power to say Deal or No Deal.

10. Maybe you did some AFC sh*t in the beginning. I don't know if you did or didn't. I do know that you only get one first impression, and that's the lasting impression.

11. This girl would've responded if there was an iota of interest. IOI's are not something you can totally trust, despite the fact that IOD's can be trusted. There are no definitive IOI's. Not even if she holds up a goddamn Neon Sign that says "F**K ME NOW!"

12. Most girls nowadays are attention wh0res, this case being one of them. She wanted to have sex with another guy while getting her ego inflated by you. She apparently succeeded in that effort by giving you false hope.

13. Finally, most women these days are shallow, flakes like this. Accept this fact. Let it marinate. Move on.

And there you have it. Case closed.

You're just a glass half empty guy aren't you?

 

[virginat40]

most women are this way, even after several dates, they frickin disappear on you, you call em and no answer

 

[penkitten]

lol, I think I'd prefer a girl shut me down hard then pull this ****. Just boggles my mind how girls can act interested then drop off the face of the planet.

she responds to you when you say hi, because she either doesn't want to hurt your feelings or she just wants to be your friend.
she does not respond when you ask her to do stuff, because she doesn't want to, but she also doesn't want to hurt your feelings.

she doesn't realize that it wastes your time, that it may hurt your feelings, and that she is being mean by just not responding. she "thinks" it is the only way to come out of this and be seen as being a nice chick.
she doesn't know it's cruel.

one day, she will have cruel things happen to her. some guy will tell her that he will call her soon and then never ever call. and she will call him, and he will either not answer or be too busy to talk .
that's karma .

 

[nismo-4]

You're just a glass half empty guy aren't you?

You obviously can't handle the truth. I already said what I had to say to solve this case.

 

[virginat40]

You obviously can't handle the truth. I already said what I had to say to solve this case.

your both losers

 

[Kal0051]

she responds to you when you say hi, because she either doesn't want to hurt your feelings or she just wants to be your friend.
she does not respond when you ask her to do stuff, because she doesn't want to, but she also doesn't want to hurt your feelings.

she doesn't realize that it wastes your time, that it may hurt your feelings, and that she is being mean by just not responding. she "thinks" it is the only way to come out of this and be seen as being a nice chick.
she doesn't know it's cruel.

one day, she will have cruel things happen to her. some guy will tell her that he will call her soon and then never ever call. and she will call him, and he will either not answer or be too busy to talk .
that's karma .

apparently she came up with an excuse to why she didn't contact me (left it at a friend's place, uhuh, sure). And to make matters more annoying she sent the excuse as a 6 text message long message (thought I was living with ****ing r2d2 with all the beeping my phone was making). Told her to meet up with me on a certain day, if she can't make it then peace (left the peace part out though, instead said good luck with whatever).

 

[Energizer]

apparently she came up with an excuse to why she didn't contact me (left it at a friend's place, uhuh, sure). And to make matters more annoying she sent the excuse as a 6 text message long message (thought I was living with ****ing r2d2 with all the beeping my phone was making). Told her to meet up with me on a certain day, if she can't make it then peace (left the peace part out though, instead said good luck with whatever).

Why did you do this?

There was absolutely no need for you to do this.

You should have ignored her text, deleted it and left it at that.

Now, you have given off the impression to her that all she has to do is send you a text or several making up excuses and you'll be putty in the palm of her hand.

 

[TheBaconator]

Why did you do this?

There was absolutely no need for you to do this.

You should have ignored her text, deleted it and left it at that.

Now, you have given off the impression to her that all she has to do is send you a text or several making up excuses and you'll be putty in the palm of her hand.

I agree, and to elaborate further, I think he came off pretty bitter and desperate. I'd bet the house she doesn't call or text you again, because your attitude towards her makes it look like your entire weekend was revolving around her getting back to you and her flaking ruined it all.

And although her flaking wasn't right, she might have been telling the truth. Or another dude may have turned her down and she was gonna give you a crack at it. But I doubt it now.

 

[Kal0051]

whatever guys, I really don't give a flying ****. I'm not bitter and my weekend wasn't revolving around her (in fact I made other plans for it when I didn't hear back from her). All I told her was that I had no idea what happened to her and that it would be great if we could meet up on a certain day (my only day off this week), but if she couldn't make it then good luck to her (she's going away again, not sure what she's going away for though).

If she calls back then ok, I'll go meet up with her. But if she doesn't then I'll just do something with my friends.

 

[Energizer]

Isn't this an oxymoron?

Here we have Kal a good man with a seemingly good head on his shoulders, does something an AFC would do and then asks for advice and when he gets constructively criticized, plays the wide-boy and doesn't give a f*ck. Why ask for advice or post on an advice forum, if you do not care about the perspectives you are given?

It's okay to make mistakes, I made a big mistake with this girl I liked. I was drunk on Jagermeister and grabbed her ass to which my right cheek on my face was met with a stinging right slap from the palm of her hand.

The difference between me and you is, I don't care about women etc. If I fail with one or mess up, I learn from it and move onto my next victim.

Life is so much better when you don't take things too seriously.

 

[Joe Stud]

Now sit back and be indifferent. let her come to you. for some reason I suspect she just may. if so, dont say "lets do something"... invite her out for drinks at a cool club during the week. get some drinks in her, and kino escalate. smile alot, look good, smell good, and be cool. keep us informed

 

[Kal0051]

Now sit back and be indifferent. let her come to you. for some reason I suspect she just may. if so, dont say "lets do something"... invite her out for drinks at a cool club during the week. get some drinks in her, and kino escalate. smile alot, look good, smell good, and be cool. keep us informed

Don't expect anything to hear anything else about this chick. I only had one day off this week, invited her out. She can't make it, said she was going away for a few weeks and needed time to get ready. I told her ok, have fun, give me a call when she gets back and we'll get together (not expecting, doubt she'll even remember).

After that I deleted any instance of her number from my phone (her contact info, and any and all text messages). So done with this one, trying to see if this other girl I know wants to hang this week (haven;t seen this one for a month and half, she got back from vacation late last week).

Peace guys :rockon:

 

[penkitten]

good for you kal.
next!!!