What should I do? Give up??

[Strickland]

I was wondering if anyone could make me understand this better or simply give me some advice. It's driving me crazy.

During the past year I met a girl for whom I developed a huge crush. We started to talk and to get involved so much with each other. We had such great chemistry and I felt like she felt something for me. So I decided to ask her out. She declined and did not really give me any reasons. She does like me and she made it obvious before I asked her out. She doesn't date or anything, so I don't understand. Whenever I talk to her she still is nice to me and gives me those 'puppy eyes' that tell me she feels something for me. Even when other girls approach me, she makes it obvious that she's jealous.

Does anyone have any idea why she might've rejected me? Should I ask her out again, or should I just move on? Please help me...

 

[Pimpster]

Either she thinks she's really good friends with you, and doesn't realize the signals she's really giving, or she doesn't want to ruin the friendship that you guys have by becoming exclusive.

 

[PiHiPlaya]

Yeah it sounds like she's just a jealous friend.

I think you might have gotten in the friends zone.

BTW, Welcome! You should Read the Bible.

 

[DarkfalconIV]

I have the same problem. MY view on things.

First listen to how she introduces you...

This is my good friend. THis is my boyfriend, ect.

Sencond. What I did and you should not do.. Ask her stright out. She will decline. I asked her one day "blank do you wanna be friends or.. do you wanna be more" she'll say friends.

So if it seems like your firends you have to options.

Accept it.

Or fight it. Very hard ot do but here's how.

ONe push her. DOn't ask her out on a date. Ask her if she ants to 'hang out' sometime. Make sure its you and her a lone just hanging out. When your in private and you and her are leaned in and have the puppy eyes we all know and love. Kiss her. Read up on kisses here. IF she dons't kiss you back. Congrats your just frineds. never more never less. I don't know its a hard relationship man. Tats the best I know. I'm struggling with it right now.

Slim chances you'll ever make it more. So i'd recomend reading up on Speed Seduction seducing her and trying to make it as romantic as possible and kiss her.You must kiss her to find out. Its the only way you'll know. Is if she kisses back.

Good luck

 

[DarkfalconIV]

For more information look up Queen Bee.

YOu can get her. THe dedication it will take will destroy you. If you truly love her its possible. BUt My recomendation will still be Find someone knew.

I had the exact same problem above. My solution was

"Hey how you doing. "
"Fine"
"I have two questions I really need ot ask you"
"um.. okay"
"Do you want to be just friend like we are... or do you wanna be more"
"I don't know"
"Its a simple question just yes or no"
"Well I don't know what do you wanna be. I never really though about it (really distressed her spell is broken)"
"You know what I want"
"NOt really you never told me(tryig to change subject)"
"I want ot be more. ow you"
"well...(pissing her pants)"
"yes or no"
"I now realize I just wanna be friends"
"OK. Now that girls sitting next ot you in class her names Kelly right."
"Yeah why?"
"No reason Bye"

I snet a E-mail to her that night explaining how enthusiatic I was we woulnd't have to be sexual with each other. How we could focuse on our friendship and not how we both get a warm felling inside when we see each othe(notice reverse syco.)

Next day I blew her off for the girl sitting next to her in class. I really do miss her and our relationships still their. but now its more of a sister brother relationship. We watch out for each other. I'm happy with how it turned out. II now realize i never saw her in a sexual way anyway it was more of a brother;y way anyway. Were the type of couple that would get married anyway.
Anyway Its up to you.

Also accept this girl may be having troubles with boys right now.

I know the girl I liked used to like me. She even arranged for me to ask her out. But... Well make up your own mind. DO what feels right.

And look up Queen Bees. It sounds like thats what you have

 

[Double_Diamonds]

Welcome
But yo read the damn bible!
She's either a jealous friend or she's playin you like a fiddle!

 

[MoAF]

Hey!
This is the best advice ANYONE can/will give you when it comes to girls words won't convince... TAKE ACTION. You asked her out... she declined [thats conversation for ya]. But she sends PHYSICAL signals that she wants you, give her a physical yes, KISS HER.

Seduction is a game, a game women frequent, and sadly enough are often our superiors. Play her game, just play it better. She doesn't want words of effection but she wants to sit and give you puppydog eyes? Kiss her. She introduced you as her boyfriend but won't even play 2nd base? Tell her you're hers.

 

[DarkfalconIV]

Report bck though

 

[Superman X]

But she sends PHYSICAL signals that she wants you, give her a physical yes, KISS HER.

Word. But if she doesn't go for it, next her.

 

[DarkfalconIV]

If she dosn't kiss you back try reading this post of mine

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=36653

Good luck man