I think being a Don Juan means having a handle on all aspects of your life. Everything from your family, to your job, to your girlfriend, to strangers, to anyone and everything.
A Don Juan is in control over his life. The greatest feat of man is to overcome ALL of his self-imposed limitations. That is what I think in essence a Don Juan is.
Any problems, no matter how large or how daunting, he overcomes. He looks at it, and takes it head on.
A Don Juan never gives up, and never settles for being "average". He excels in life. He takes nothing lying down and always fights for his dreams and passions.
I think one of the most important aspects is to be able to see where you need to improve on. Before I found this site, I just accepted the way I was. I accepted that I was just mediocre. But something in the back of my mind new I was destined to be something greater.
This site opened my eyes to new outlets of the world and gave me a guide to what it is to be a MAN. But what you must know that this is only a guide. You have to take the steps, and most importantly you have to take a hard look at your life and really think about who you want to be. Not who others want you be. Not your ma, not your pa, but you. The only thing holding you back is YOU. All your limitations can be overcome.
The biggest problem that I see, and I face, is that people get so caught up in... life. They get so caught up with their jobs, their friends, and their enviroment that they get comfortable or "used to" their lives and they forget to examine their own lifes. Socrates says "The unexamined life is not worth living" and I couldn't agree more.
Stop, and think about your life. Where are you heading? Are you having fun? Are you happy?
Seek and you shall find.
