Tao of Steve
Don Juan
i ran a search on this, there 2 general trains of thought. 1 says a) if she has high intrest level, she won't cancel. next any girl that cancels. b) says, if she makes a specific counter offer, give her another chance - things really do come up.
now i met a 20 YO online (im 31), set up a date. she leaves a message just over an hour b4 we r to meet: 'i dont want to stand u up but i cant make it today. i'm wondering if u'd like to re sched? when i see u online, i will give u my # and that sort of thing. i hope to meet you soon'.
now when i set the date, she wouldnt give me her #, but wanted mine. now as some girls are wary about giving the number online, and she lives with parents, i thought it was legit, so i gave her mine (thus, in retrospect, giving her control).
i wont email her, but if she contacts me, and asks to get together, whats the consensus giving the details here? she did not make a specific counter, and still didnt leave her number.
now i met a 20 YO online (im 31), set up a date. she leaves a message just over an hour b4 we r to meet: 'i dont want to stand u up but i cant make it today. i'm wondering if u'd like to re sched? when i see u online, i will give u my # and that sort of thing. i hope to meet you soon'.
now when i set the date, she wouldnt give me her #, but wanted mine. now as some girls are wary about giving the number online, and she lives with parents, i thought it was legit, so i gave her mine (thus, in retrospect, giving her control).
i wont email her, but if she contacts me, and asks to get together, whats the consensus giving the details here? she did not make a specific counter, and still didnt leave her number.