What qualifies you to give advice on this forum?

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I live in my mom's basement, and eat frozen pizzas all day while watching porn. Stay as far away from my advice as you can.
 

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I have felt everything. And more importantly, I have a few times become the person I had always dreamed of becoming. And everything I wanted to do I did, everything I wanted to happen, I made happen.

I don't always try to give advice though because no matter how much you may think you know, you can still always learn. And every situation is different and specific to that person/persons.
 

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What if all those women were fatties?
What about good looking but crazy as fvck? If crazy counts I'm a man hor. If it dont count I may be a born again virgin and gonna eBay my virginity and make some cashola..
 

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I'm qualified because of green dots LOL. Ok not really. I'm not a guru of any sort. I just give my opinion based on what I've seen and experienced.

Qualifications? Umm...

1. I went from a hopeless 28 yo virgin who never kissed a girl to eight lays, 23+ makeouts, and a few BJs. Those aren't big numbers by any stretch, but decent for such a very late start.

2. Many hours in the club

3. Many wasted $ on PUA stuff in the beginning.

4. I try to be one of the most honest posters who calls it as I see it. When I talk about looks, I am definitely speaking from experience. I went from a total nerd who was a like a 5.5 in looks to a very handsome low 8 in looks at my peak to a balding low 6 (optimistic lol) these days. I went from being ignored and friendzoned by women, to cute women approaching ME, and now back to being ignored plus a few eyerolls for good measure lol.

5. I don't give LTR advice because I'm not experienced at all in that area. I only comment on pickup and general interactions with women.

6. I'm retired from the game. Dance class and dances are my only interaction with women these days. I'm just here on SS for camaraderie, interesting discussions, and to share some stuff I learned along the way.
 

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I'm no expert! F*ck no. Analyst by profession, yes. Since I was kid I've always been intrigued oh how things work. My brain is an info sponge, if something sparks my interest I research it until I'm bored. I've been around the block & survied some crazy sh*t.

I've warned enough friends & they ignored my advice and got burned. Oh well.
 

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2005-2014 I slept with 15 women. All from sarging. Not a big number. But I think It's still not bad.
 

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sylvester the cat said:
This place can be quite intimidating for noobs what with all the advice being given. But how much of this advice is worth listening to and how much is it just for benefit of the advice-giver (reputation, ego, etc)

For my part i'm in my forties, had experience in relationships some serious, some not so serious. I've lived with two long term partners, been engaged but never married and had sexual encounters with over thirty women.

Given the advice we give can have life changing consequences What is your experience That qualifies you to tell others how it is?
I don't think experience matters that much. You could have tons of experience and have slept with over 40 women and still not give applicable and solid advice. You could just be flying by on your looks and bank account.

There are guys here that can sleep with hot women in 5 min, I personally don't like the advice they give the new guys. There are other guys here that don't have much experience yet they give solid advice.

It all depends on the person asking and seeking it. If the advice given connects on a personal and emotional level so you can make changes for the better, that's all that matters.
 

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Someone who bangs hookers is more qualified than a guy who has slept with 50 average looking women.
 

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mustfirstregister said:
2005-2014 I slept with 15 women. All from sarging. Not a big number. But I think It's still not bad.
At age 100 damn old man you spend all your AARP money on Viagra or get it up el naturale?! Lmfao!! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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Eternal_water said:
Well if you've had sex with over 30 women then I'd say your "qualified" to give advice.
I honestly don't think this qualifies. I have had sex with over 30 women as well, I'm 22 and I don't consider myself a PUA. I think it goes deeper than that. A close friend of mine has had sex with two women and he could get women a whole lot easier than I, but he's extremely picky. No doubt though he's a womanizer, has the looks, the attitude, "swagger". I have more of the social circle, I get the lay, she tells her friend who then wants it, move on down the line, etc.
 

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Trump said:
I don't think experience matters that much. You could have tons of experience and have slept with over 40 women and still not give applicable and solid advice. You could just be flying by on your looks and bank account.
^ This. You can't "teach" rich or good looking lol. There's obviously nothing wrong with encouraging guys to improve their looks/money/status, but please don't think that the guy with 100 lays knows some magic trick that he can "teach" to an average guy so he can get the same results. It doesn't work that way. Yes, you can definitely learn something from those guys, but understand the limitations and be realistic.

Notwithstanding, I still think it is important for some guys with large lay counts to post because every guy needs to know how the other reality works and how even the most "difficult" women can be easy for the "right" guy.
 
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