What makes a guy high status in a cool and sexually appealing way?

[Urbanyst]

lol so you can't answer my question

I did answer your question. Its just not the answer you wanted.

You're being stupid. Until you write me a check for all your money, you really have no valid point here.

 

[Trainwreck]

For starters, do you think high status males type (laugh out loud)? Hint: high status males don't act like 13 year old black girls.


So you're extrapolating someone who might be lying (and isn't) into a bitter, Spartan, rotting scrooge? By the same token, couldn't you assume I have even more than I said and that I'm sitting by the pool with four supermodels? See how you are playing a losing game?

And wait, you'd rather see someone with a big house who is up to his eyeballs in debt than see that someone else who can prove they made $200,000 in the past 6 months and has zero debt? Train wreck is right.

Oh, and you're feigning ignorance now on my salary?

Question: how do you know if anyone is lying online?
Answer: you don't - so spare us your dynamic ability to play dumb with those who are of higher status than you.

If you're willing to bet $1000 I'll prove my income BTW. Otherwise, STFU and get a job.

Idk they could be up to their eyeballs in debt or just have different priorities. Y'all always want to assume the worst case scenario in other people to compensate for your ***** lifestyles. You sound a lot like Aaron Clarey. Some burned out over entitled cynical male that thinks he's the prime example of life because he's a off-grid conservative. I don't care if you make a lot of money or not because I don't envy your lifestyle at all based on your sad bitter posts on this site. Nobody on this site wakes up every morning wishing they were bigneil. Nobody on this site works their ass off everyday so they can become bigneil one day. I know plenty of wealthy successful people and none of them act like you, so your definitely not going to fool me lol.

 

[Trainwreck]

I did answer your question. Its just not the answer you wanted.

You're being stupid. Until you write me a check for all your money, you really have no valid point here.

AGAIN, I can easily get pictures of me having a rich lifestyle without being rich. This was not a valid answer to my question. How would me having a million dollars in my bank account give me more matches on tinder. We are using the same pictures I have and everything. Just explain that!

 

[Urbanyst]

AGAIN, I can easily get pictures of me having a rich lifestyle without being rich. This was not a valid answer to my question. How would me having a million dollars in my bank account give me more matches on tinder. We are using the same pictures I have and everything. Just explain that!

It won't give you more matches on Tinder. But it will elevate your dating options in a way that you won't need Tinder.

Are you really this dense? That's probably why you're broke in the first place lol.

 

[bigneil]

AGAIN, I can easily get pictures of me having a rich lifestyle without being rich. This was not a valid answer to my question. How would me having a million dollars in my bank account give me more matches on tinder. Just explain that!

Moron: if you were the real deal instead of faking it, you'd be better. And you wouldn't be on Tinder to begin with, you'd be at the boat club.

The fact you don't get that explains a LOT! Like the fact you were raised by a single mom on welfare, for example. You entitled piece of sh!t. I've paid to raise you, you ungrateful loser.

Nobody on this site wakes up every morning wishing they were bigneil....lol.

Hmmm.... nobody wishes they made about $300,000 per year for the past 2 years? Nobody wishes they took home $200,000 in the past 6 months?

Nobody wishes they were dating a girl this hot when they are 46 years old?

I sure do! So tell you what, Brainwreck, you stay in the ghetto, I'll keep this girl and the money and we'll both be happy!

 

[Trainwreck]

It won't give you more matches on Tinder. But it will elevate your dating options in a way that you won't need Tinder.

Are you really this dense? That's probably why you're broke in the first place lol.

I did not want to have to do this, but looks like I have no choice. I'm a financial analyst at a fortune 10 company, I live in the wealthiest area in my state, I drive a nice new car, and my tinder pictures include me on a yacht in the Hamptons, me in my car, and me hiking in Glacier National Park. Guess what, I get **** from dating apps and I'm not swimming in pvssy. Now, can you please answer my question on how having a million dollars in my bank account will suddenly get me more matches with these pictures?!?

 

[Trainwreck]

Moron: if you were the real deal instead of faking it, you'd be better. And you wouldn't be on Tinder to begin with, you'd be at the boat club.

The fact you don't get that explains a LOT! Like the fact you were raised by a single mom on welfare, for example. You entitled piece of sh!t. I've paid to raise you, you ungrateful loser.



Hmmm.... nobody wishes they made about $300,000 per year for the past 2 years? Nobody wishes they took home $200,000 in the past 6 months?

Nobody wishes they were dating a girl this hot when they are 46 years old?

I sure do! So tell you what, Brainwreck, you stay in the ghetto, I'll keep this girl and the money and we'll both be happy!

lmao you do you

 

[Dingo]

I think it has to do a lot with the way you carry yourself.
To touch on that further, if you ever read the
48 laws of power there is a law that says
Be royal in your own fashion act like a king to be treated like a king.

So in my opinion some king like qualities are:

• Not being belligerent or foul mouthed.
• Always presenting in a neat way. Iron your clothes, invest in cologne.
• Work out. For numerous reasons, posture being the most relatable to your topic
• Walk with your head high.
• Lead. When everyone in the group is wondering where to go, be the one to stand up and proclaim "we are going to this location, and begin walking without waiting for input
• Kings aren't rude to the help. Be kind to waiters, waitresses and customer service workers.
• Keep your head high. Don't slouch.
• Don't be perverse. Its ok to make an occasional sly sexual comment but not constantly. Don't ask girls for nudes or send them etc.
• Have morals and live by them.
• Have reasonable demands of courteous behavior from women and men alike and if they don't uphold them have no qualms about not associating with them.
• Talk and move slowly.
• Enjoy an occasional drink or 2,3. But never get sloppy drunk to the point your stumbling about like a fool or slurring words.
• Try not to appear visibly upset or throw tantrums. If a woman flakes or cancels stay polite and regal, and simply tell her you'll attempt another meeting in the future, and wish her a good day.
• Have a purpose each day. Set 2 or 3 realistic, totally doable goals.
• Read voraciously. Seek wisdom. Wisdom is the application of knowledge but you must aquire knowledge to apply it.

Basically try to live your life to a higher standard than the common man.

Getting a woman's attraction is child's play. What the real end game should be is to get people's admiration.

And you get that by being uncommon. Living in a way the average man does not.

Furthermore, your finances and your sexual history should be private. She may can guestimate your income based on where you live or the car you drive but really a woman should never know what you make.
If you are flaunting money around like a kid with a new toy showing off to his classmates you are only going to attract immoral women. Not to say that they won't be beautiful, but your a king right? Beauty shouldn't be enough to woo you. Thats a trap for the common man.



Excuse the length I wanted to give you a good answer because it was an amazing question.


Good day, sir.

This... /thread...

 

[bigneil]

Here's something that "makes a guy high status in a cool and sexually appealing way" - winning the love of the most beautiful woman he knows. Just ask the 2nd to 10th most beautiful girls he knows what they think.



Quick! Someone on welfare say she's not that hot!

So how do you win the love of the most beautiful woman you know? By having a good career that you are confident enough can support a family. But what do I know? I only did it. Listen to Trainwreck instead. After all, s/he's got her EBT card.

 

[cola]

I don't understand how women you are dating, not in a relationship with but dating would know if you're well off financially or not..

Regardless if you make 400,000 a year or 20,000 surely you aren't taking girls to 5 star restaurants that you haven't even slept with yet.. Right?

I mean when they ask what you do, your answer should be very broad.
"Im in sales".. That could be anything from pharmaceutical sales to best buy electronics department.

You keep a bit of mystery about yourself. Don't tell women everything.

 

[bigneil]

I don't understand how women you are dating, not in a relationship with but dating would know if you're well off financially or not..

Regardless if you make 400,000 a year or 20,000 surely you aren't taking girls to 5 star restaurants that you haven't even slept with yet.. Right?

I mean when they ask what you do, your answer should be very broad.
"Im in sales".. That could be anything from pharmaceutical sales to best buy electronics department.

You keep a bit of mystery about yourself. Don't tell women everything.

You're in sales? She's not buying it. A real salesman would sell himself better than that. That's why the call it game. The game is making her think you have money when you 90% likely don't.

It's only people who A) Have little money or B) Were handed money that want to keep the whole "how much do you make" thing private. Men who are successful in business are happy to share ideas and strategies.

And for the record, my contract ends within a month so I'm trying to find my next contract. I promise I won't try to say "You know what? Having no job and no income is actually where it's at!".

Find ONE person who was broke and now makes over $100K who says being broke is better. Boys raised by women: spare us your dormitory food stamp circle jerk please.

 

[bigneil]

I did not want to have to do this, but looks like I have no choice. I'm a financial analyst at a fortune 10 company, I live in the wealthiest area in my state, I drive a nice new car, and my tinder pictures include me on a yacht in the Hamptons, me in my car, and me hiking in Glacier National Park. Guess what, I get **** from dating apps and I'm not swimming in pvssy. Now, can you please answer my question on how having a million dollars in my bank account will suddenly get me more matches with these pictures?!?

You didn't want to lie, you mean?

You mean you are an intern or janitor at a Fortune 10 company (I work for Apple btw). How much do you make per year?

Maybe you're saying "I already pretend to be rich but it doesn't help because I'm a chunky, balding Muslim man?"

"War is Peace. Freedom is Slavery. Ignorance is Strength. These are the three slogans of the Party, Ingsoc"

- George Orwell, Nineteen Eighty Four (1947)

 

[bigneil]

I did not want to have to do this, but looks like I have no choice. I'm a financial analyst at a fortune 10 company, I live in the wealthiest area in my state, I drive a nice new car, and my tinder pictures include me on a yacht in the Hamptons.

If there is one thing you made ABUNDANTLY clear: you have absolutely no problem lying or misrepresenting truth to create whatever illusion suits you.

But seeing that I published photos, I'm asking you to PROVE IT: how about you publish a portion of one of your yacht photos (with you blacked out) just to humor us - and seeing that it's 3000 miles away, how about one from Glacier National Park (we know you live in Louisiana btw) - and have it be dated so we know you didn't just make this up, seeing you have no problem making sh!t up to pretend to make a point, because you're a second place trophy winning, welfare-mom-raised illegal immigrant.

 

[cola]

I don't understand how women you are dating, not in a relationship with but dating would know if your well off financially or not..

Regardless if you make 400,000 a year or 20,000 surely you aren't taking girls to 5 restaurants that you haven't even slept with yet.. Right?

You're in sales? She's not buying it. A real salesman would sell himself better than that. That's why the call it game. The game is making her think you have money when you 90% likely don't.

It's only people who A) Have little money or B) Were handed money that want to keep the whole "how much do you make" thing private. Men who are successful in business are happy to share ideas and strategies.

I respectfully disagree. Someone who bases their value as a human being on Money & Career would be obliged to discuss such topics.

But it's so much more to being a decent person .. You mean to tell me a public school teacher in a rough inner city making 45,000 and buying school supplies for the kids because he feels called to try to be a change in troubled lives isn't worthy of an attractive woman? But a sleazy pharmaceutical rep making 300,000 a year peddaling drugs he knows won't work is?

It's not about money. We all know a slacker who makes barely enough to survive and has his pick of the liter, I live with one now.

I also know a 25 year old engineer who makes 6 figures and recently lost 150 pounds! However the thought of talking to a woman above a 5 literally sends him into a panic attack.

So don't say it's all about money when it comes to women because it's not. That's what you use to get YOUR women. And if you sleep well at night with her beside you, knowing subconsciously if you were broke she wouldn't be there .. Well thats fine as well. However me personally, I'd much rather her not be there than have that troubling thought.
Once again,
with all due respect. I do admire your business acumen and financial success.

 

[Trainwreck]

If there is one thing you made ABUNDANTLY clear: you have absolutely no problem lying or misrepresenting truth to create whatever illusion suits you.

But seeing that I published photos, I'm asking you to PROVE IT: how about you publish a portion of one of your yacht photos (with you blacked out) just to humor us - and seeing that it's 3000 miles away, how about one from Glacier National Park (we know you live in Louisiana btw) - and have it be dated so we know you didn't just make this up, seeing you have no problem making sh!t up to pretend to make a point, because you're a second place trophy winning, welfare-mom-raised illegal immigrant.

I don't live in Louisiana lmao. You can't help being called out on your bullshvt Internet personality I see hmmm

 

[Urbanyst]

I did not want to have to do this, but looks like I have no choice. I'm a financial analyst at a fortune 10 company, I live in the wealthiest area in my state, I drive a nice new car, and my tinder pictures include me on a yacht in the Hamptons, me in my car, and me hiking in Glacier National Park. Guess what, I get **** from dating apps and I'm not swimming in pvssy. Now, can you please answer my question on how having a million dollars in my bank account will suddenly get me more matches with these pictures?!?

You would get even LESS matches if you had worse pictures.

You don't seem that bright. This conversation is getting boring.

 

[bigneil]

We know you live in Louisiana btw (and) you have no problem making sh!t up to pretend to make a point, because you're a second place trophy winning, welfare-mom-raised illegal immigrant.

I don't live in Louisiana lmao.

Enough said!

Here is what we KNOW:

1) Trainwreck does NOT live in Louisiana.
2) Trainwreck does NOT work for a Fortune 10 company.
3) Trainwreck does NOT live in the wealthiest area of his state.
4) Trainwreck does NOT drive a nice new car or have any photos of him in a nice car.
5) Trainwreck does NOT have photos of himself on a yacht in the Hamptons.
6) Trainwreck does NOT vacation in Glacier National Park (but saw an Ansel Adams in the dorm once).
7) Trainwreck does NOT understand how having a million dollars would improve his success in the dating scene.
8) Trainwreck does NOT have a job.
9) Trainwreck does NOT get laid - ever.
10) Trainwreck does NOT find this amusing.

 

[Trainwreck]

You would get even LESS matches if you had worse pictures.

You don't seem that bright. This conversation is getting boring.

no I should get more likes because women know my bank account reads 1 million dollars. I just threw you a bone dear boy.

 

[Trainwreck]

Since you don't like tinder, I'll give you this question. I am about to go out to eat. Please tell me how my female server will know I have 1 million dollars in my bank account? Please tell me how all the women in the restaurant will know I have 1 million dollars in my bank account?

 

[SmooveMooves]

Probably just not as attractive as you think you are.