What kind of advice do women give each other?

[NealIRC]

I don't believe in msging a girl a 2nd time or asking a girl on a date a 2nd time if she said no the 1st time.

So with the 1st case, a girl gives signals that she wants me to msg her a 2nd time, but this happened months after I messaged her.

So what advice do females tell each other - to grow some balls and just message him? Or sit around and wait.

Obama asked Michelle on a 1st date she said no, but when he asked her out a 2nd time, she said yes. What if he doesn't believe in asking someone out a 2nd time, but he did continue to attract the bleep out of her, but still won't ask her out a 2nd time.

 

[Ricky]

Years ago women had something called the Rules. I'm not sure what they are following now. One thing i've noticed is that with younger women, you need to make plans and execute them right way otherwise they don't have the attention span to follow through with them.

I mostly know that from my single friends as i'm still married, but i have had some interactions that made it pretty clear.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Most (not all) women are crazy, illogical, bitter, jaded, alpha-widowed, single moms, misandrists, and past their prime. Most give each other terrible "advice", its more like they sabotage each other through their "advice". If you can stomach the misandry, just take a look at a forum called TheFemaleDatingStrategy.

 

[RangerMIke]

Obama asked Michelle on a 1st date she said no, but when he asked her out a 2nd time, she said yes. What if he doesn't believe in asking someone out a 2nd time, but he did continue to attract the bleep out of her, but still won't ask her out a 2nd time.

The Obama's were married 30 years ago. Back then only a tiny minority of people had cell phones. Everyone used answering machines... the internet was still called ARPENET. Few had e-mail addresses...

Asking out women back then was VERY different. It was hard to get in touch with them, and hard for them to get back with you. Today.... well... women are glued to their phones, if they are not taking 15 seconds to respond to you then you know you don't even have a even a tiny slither of her attention.

For me, in the late 80s, early 90s... it was not uncommon for me to make 3 runs at a chick, depending on how she responded. Today... it's just too easy for women to get back with you and if it doesn't happen within a reasonable amount of time, you should get the message.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

How to get to the bottom of a long thick c0ck without gagging is a much talked about topic.

 

[NealIRC]

The Obama's were married 30 years ago. Back then only a tiny minority of people had cell phones. Everyone used answering machines... the internet was still called ARPENET. Few had e-mail addresses...

Asking out women back then was VERY different. It was hard to get in touch with them, and hard for them to get back with you. Today.... well... women are glued to their phones, if they are not taking 15 seconds to respond to you then you know you don't even have a even a tiny slither of her attention.

Um no, I'm not comparing asking women in person 30 years ago to texting women a date today. I'm comparing asking women in person 30 years ago to asking women in person today.

And by asking on a date, I'm not counting where you already have their #. Meaning, you ask them on a date 1st, not ask for their # 1st.

 

[Gamisch]

Most (not all) women are crazy, illogical, bitter, jaded, alpha-widowed, single moms, misandrists, and past their prime. Most give each other terrible "advice", its more like they sabotage each other through their "advice". If you can stomach the misandry, just take a look at a forum called TheFemaleDatingStrategy.

I agree. Women sabotage one another, and there's a reason why women hate eachother more than anything else.

The problem is that women will also give advice from a emotional pov instead of a rational one. I think men will warn a fellow man when he wants to cheat and jeopardize a good relationship, and eventually even lose respect because a emotional thinking man is a liability. In the same situation women might advice each other to " follow what feels good" , while a better advice might've been to keep the good guy and DON'T live by simple tingles .

Misery wants company . Two single lonely women rather keep each other single than being jealous because her "bff" got a good thing going on.

I don't believe in msging a girl a 2nd time or asking a girl on a date a 2nd time if she said no the 1st time.

So with the 1st case, a girl gives signals that she wants me to msg her a 2nd time, but this happened months after I messaged her.

So what advice do females tell each other - to grow some balls and just message him? Or sit around and wait.

Obama asked Michelle on a 1st date she said no, but when he asked her out a 2nd time, she said yes. What if he doesn't believe in asking someone out a 2nd time, but he did continue to attract the bleep out of her, but still won't ask her out a 2nd time.

Obama has been the highest valued man in the world at some point. Thats like using a billionaire as an example. Before he became a billionaire he was a millionaire and before that he also had tons of money. So its not too difficult to see for a woman that he is ,or will be a HVM at some point.

Give me an example of a man working in factory or as a garbage man .

 

[NealIRC]

Obama has been the highest valued man in the world at some point. Thats like using a billionaire as an example. Before he became a billionaire he was a millionaire and before that he also had tons of money. So its not to difficult to see for a woman that he is ,or will be a HVM at some point.

Give me an example of a man working in factory or as a garbage man .

I believe this happened when they were both in college?

My point was, to find an analogy where men asked a woman out a 2nd time vs. didn't, and if he doesn't, but continues to spit game to her, then the woman has 2 choices, to pursue, or keep waiting / move on. Then, her female friends, would either advise her in either direction.

 

[RangerMIke]

Um no, I'm not comparing asking women in person 30 years ago to texting women a date today. I'm comparing asking women in person 30 years ago to asking women in person today.

So am I. I am only sharing my experience. 30 years ago it was a lot harder to connect and make plans... it was not unusual, back then to call a woman several times before you got her on the phone to make plans. Today... yes I get the idea of one and done... reach out to her once, and when you don't hear back TODAY, it is a safe assumption she isn't attracted to you. That is all I'm saying.

 

[devilkingx2]

I think most women give each other bluepilled advice that only works for hot girls.

And then they go on places like TikTok to get advice from sociopathic women on how to manipulate beta males into buying them a car when their body count is 50+

It's like a direct mirror of the manosphere I think.

 

[Gamisch]

I believe this happened when they were both in college?

My point was, to find an analogy where men asked a woman out a 2nd time vs. didn't, and if he doesn't, but continues to spit game to her, then the woman has 2 choices, to pursue, or keep waiting / move on. Then, her female friends, would either advise her in either direction.

I understand, but in the modern era this doesn't work anymore. This is the story we've heard our entire lifes from our dads, uncles ,grandfathers ect, and that's why it still holds value to us. Its great to hear that your mother or grandma wasn't a easy 304 and your birth is the effect your father venting a good woman rather than simply swiping right .

I get too much romcom vibes from this. Especially when you are a" good guy" this is dangerous territory .If you feel like a woman is worth getting rejected twice or more times she better be REALLY fecking special!

This might work, but only when you are the type of man to actively chase multiple women and actually be fecking a few. Hell,I knew some infamous players that would try over and over and over again untill the woman caved in. But like i say, they did this with countless other women as well. They were like a salesman going through his routine.

 

[NealIRC]

I understand, but in the modern era this doesn't work anymore. This is the story we've heard our entire lifes from our dads, uncles ,grandfathers ect, and that's why it still holds value to us. Its great to hear that your mother or grandma wasn't a easy 304 and your birth is the effect your father venting a good woman rather than simply swiping right .

I get too much romcom vibes from this. Espelly if you are a" good guy" this is dangerous territory .If you feel like a woman is worth getting rejected twice or more times she better be REALLY fecking special!

This might work, but only when you are the type of man to actively chase multiple women and actually be fecking a few. Hell,I knew some infamous players that would try over and over and over again untill the woman caved in. But like i say, they did this with countless other women as well. They were like a salesman going through his routine.

Well, this is the position I like putting women in, including single moms with kids. The "guys I'm not into are hitting on me the most, the guys I'm into are not hitting on me as hard."

 

[SW15]

Asking out women back then was VERY different. It was hard to get in touch with them, and hard for them to get back with you. Today.... well... women are glued to their phones, if they are not taking 15 seconds to respond to you then you know you don't even have a even a tiny slither of her attention.

For me, in the late 80s, early 90s... it was not uncommon for me to make 3 runs at a chick, depending on how she responded. Today... it's just too easy for women to get back with you and if it doesn't happen within a reasonable amount of time, you should get the message.

I am only sharing my experience. 30 years ago it was a lot harder to connect and make plans... it was not unusual, back then to call a woman several times before you got her on the phone to make plans. Today... yes I get the idea of one and done... reach out to her once, and when you don't hear back TODAY, it is a safe assumption she isn't attracted to you. That is all I'm saying.

I was a child in the 1990s. In the era that you describe, landlines and answering machines were a thing. I remember them from childhood.

The average woman in the 1990s had fewer messages on her landline answering machine to deal with as compared to the quantity of messages she has in her cell phones + her quantity of messages in her Instagram DM box + her swipe app messages (if applicable). So even though the technology was less convenient, a woman could actually respond faster due to her lower quantity of options in the landline + answering machine era.

"Phone tag" was an annoying element of the 1990s. Even when I turned 16 in 1999, most of my high school classmates didn't have cell phones then and text messaging wasn't a thing. Computer-based instant messengers were starting to get big around 2000-2001.

I think most women give each other bluepilled advice that only works for hot girls.

And then they go on places like TikTok to get advice from sociopathic women on how to manipulate beta males into buying them a car when their body count is 50+

It's like a direct mirror of the manosphere I think.

This is true. Most people have a blue pill ideology on romantic relationships.

Women's advice to each other is generally bad advice.

 

[shwami_salami]

It depends on where the advice s coming from... for instance all wmn want the top guys so they smtimes sabotage each other w/bad advice to get him. guys do the same thing smtimes, but not as often I dont think lol.

 

[NealIRC]

Does anyone thing ugly girls like hearing rejection stories of hot women? So they would want to advice hot girls to pursue, for the possibility that she got rejected heh.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Yeah one of my LTRs was hearing advice from serial online daters, or actually didn’t because we dated for years quite happily. She said that I serially proved all of her friend’s allegations of me wrong repeatedly. They were ACTIVELY trying to sabotage us because they lost access to one of the girls who had a lot to offer the group -> affluent, vacation homes, etc. now she spent her free time with me.

hoes…

 

[LTG71]

Most (not all) women are crazy, illogical, bitter, jaded, alpha-widowed, single moms, misandrists, and past their prime. Most give each other terrible "advice", its more like they sabotage each other through their "advice". If you can stomach the misandry, just take a look at a forum called TheFemaleDatingStrategy.

Just looked at this site. Lol. If you wanna see what misandry looks like, this is a good place to start. What I find amusing is that women pick azzholes and then later complain that men are azzholes. Very cringeworthy site.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I don't believe in msging a girl a 2nd time or asking a girl on a date a 2nd time if she said no the 1st time.

So with the 1st case, a girl gives signals that she wants me to msg her a 2nd time, but this happened months after I messaged her.

So what advice do females tell each other - to grow some balls and just message him? Or sit around and wait.

Obama asked Michelle on a 1st date she said no, but when he asked her out a 2nd time, she said yes. What if he doesn't believe in asking someone out a 2nd time, but he did continue to attract the bleep out of her, but still won't ask her out a 2nd time.

Michelle's not female you dolt.

 

[LTG71]

Lol #2 oh no they seen us

I’m talking about TheFemaleDatingStrategy site. Chuck full bitter women. I could not give two sh!ts. 2nd highest category is mental health, not a surprise there.

 

[isasda66]

For a small proportion some "great advice" they got was to make the guy double text to confirm interest.