What Ive Learned...

[Industry]

The best revenge is for an LTR ex to find out how successful/outgoing/happy you've become after she left you. It makes her wonder if she had made a mistake or just didn't give you enough of a chance. :-D

I'm experiencing this first hand. I got left for HER ex and I became all AFC... desperate, needy, whining, crying, etc. Well I got some balls, moved on, and bettered myself.... I sobered up, got a better job, got a personal trainer, took up flying lessons, booked a trip to Belize, worked on my game, got a new car and I've been dating hotter women than her... She's found out along the way (through a mutual friend and myspace) and is now curious about me again. I guess things didn't work out so well with your ex now did they?

Hahahahah! Don't even think about trying to start **** up with me again. It aint happenin.

 

[DJohnson]

Awesome bro. This is THE number one piece of advice I give men who have lost the power in the relationship or been dumped, LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULL, and you did this EXTREMELY WELL..Hell I am even a tad jealous

 

[Industry]

Originally posted by DJohnson
Awesome bro. This is THE number one piece of advice I give men who have lost the power in the relationship or been dumped, LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULL, and you did this EXTREMELY WELL..Hell I am even a tad jealous

I hear ya! After I calmed down and accepted the fact that we weren't going to be together that's exactly what I told myself. I was going to do the things I had always wanted to do but for some reason found an excuse not to do them. It was very uncomfortable at first but it quickly became a feeling I wanted over and over again. I've all but forgotten about her. All of this has made her go "Whoa! What happened to that drunk loser I dumped awhile back?" She said I'd never change... well guess what sweetheart? Surprise!

 

[almost perfect]

never stop bettering yourself either. you've definitely learn an important lesson. besides, how can you expect to pull amazing quality women when inside you're a mess.

life is much better when you're doing what you want and bettering yourself. women are such a secondary thought to all of that. once you have your inner game down then outer game is MUCH easier and MUCH more natural.