What is your view on your girlfriend hanging out with untrustworthy guys?

[TheLazy]

If your gf knows some guy who seems to want to move it to the relationship/sexual stage with your gf and he is constantly wanting to ask your gf to hang out with him, what would you do?

I've already witnessed an 8 page thread similar to this on this site:
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=1041921

what do you guys think?

 

[Thomas94305]

1) No double standards in a relationship. If she gets to do this, then you do too. They'll nag and act jealous if you talk to a gal, when they are trying to have "dates" with a guy they know wants in their pants. I had that happen. I called her on acting jealous, and she denied it. Today, I'd handle it differently, perhaps bust on her more, etc. But, no double standard stays.
2) To answer your question.. no. If the guy's a threat to the relationship, what's she saying to allow someone to come between you two? She has a responsibility to remember you're the man in her life, just like she's the woman in your life. If she wants these other guys in her life, then perhaps you can break up and she can do whatever she wants.

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

Unfortunately there are too many dudes doing this, I suggest you (1) stand up to the dude and tell him to fvck off, or, (2) next the b!tch and find another babe. :yes:

 

[Doc Dogg]

Unfortunately there are too many dudes doing this

Yeah, I'm one of them

But seriously, I don't have a problem with any of the girls I'm seeing hanging out with guys or girls who are attracted to them, I mean they are attractive after all.

I usually combat it by making sure my gf is totally in love with me and absolutely satisfied in the bedroom (or the kitchen bench, lounge room floor, discarded shopping trolley...you get the idea) That way I know that there is no way that another person will be able to even come close to stealing her or making her cheat, there is just no way they can be as good as me.

However this does come with problems when it is time to break up with them...stalkers aren't fun guys, use with caution.

 

[Climax]

What type of girl do you have?

I see it this way:

If you have a girlfriend and some guy is hitting on her and is making it clear that he wants her, then in order to avoid temptation (we ARE all human and as strong as we think we are, we are often tempted into things.. some people take short, some longer, but the temptation is always there). Anyways, if he is making it clear that he wants to get sexual with her / wants something more than just her friendship, then she should not have to even be told what is right, she should naturally tell him that she is not interested and try and avoid him.

If your girl is an attention wh0re, then she will probably enjoy this other guys attention and go with it. Most immature women love attention and will get as much of it as possible. And if your chick is that type of girl, then I would recommend preparing yourself for heartache and to find someone else.

Guys are always going to flirt with your girl, especially if she is hot, there is nothing you will ever be able to do to stop that. It is how your girl reacts to these guys that matters and will show what type of woman she is. Either she is an attention seeking wh0re, or she is loyal to you and ONLY you. There is no such thing as being in-between. This is where you need to stand up and decide for yourself what type of woman you are with, and if she is worth any more of your time.


Laterz...

 

[the pokemaster]

if your not happy about it, then talk to her about it, if she carries on and its bugging you that much with worry, finish with her quick. trust me i had a girl like that, as soon as she sees you feel vulnerable, (ie; you get jealous, worried, mad) when she's with other guys she'll take advantage it sooner or later. ESPECIALLY IF SHES AN ATTENTION *****.