What is your start time for going out?

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I usually hit the clubs and bars right at around 9:00. Most puas/djs whatever say that it takes at least 4 hours to seduce a woman to bed (with 7 hours being average and 10 being max). Most of the bars and clubs in MY area close at 1:30 AM. Others in places like LA, NY etc. close at 4:00 AM or greater. So when I plan my night to attack as many women as I can as possible with all that I've got in my arsenal, I will allow for 1-2 hours of mental preparation (watch a movie, go over some new material, look at a photo of an ex that I fell really hard for one time i.e. THE type of woman that I still look for out there - facial features, frame, honesty etc. while listening to music to pump me up and get into a loving state of mind - soft eyes and ready to roll).

What time do you leave out to hit the town? And how many nights a week do you sarge? I only do Fridays and Saturdays currently because my job leaves me pretty drained at the end of the day on weekdays, plus I've always had a hunch that there will not be as many people out Sun-Thu. What are the ideal days to hit it besides Fri/Sat? And will women be willing on nights besides Fri/Sat?

For me, the ideal job would be one in which I had to travel as like an auditor or something and get greatest exposure or crossection of people to run/bump into. Currently my job is pretty local, but not constrained by any means (I meet women All the time in my job, but only locally :()

There are soooo many types of women (loosy-goosier) out there that I haven't had the ability to meet due to lack of travel. I can tell you one thing though from my experience, I don't like southern women. I prefer western US women and everything in between. The southern ones (where I was born and raised and never had much luck) are kind of lazy and don't see very well.
 

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Poonani Maker said:
What time do you leave out to hit the town?
Sometimes as early as 4pm (happy hour), sometimes as late as midnight (weekends). Last call around here is 2am.

And how many nights a week do you sarge?
I try to game a little bit most every day. Plant the seeds in girls minds. But going out to the bars to game? Maybe once a week. Drinks at the bars are expensive.

I've always had a hunch that there will not be as many people out Sun-Thu. What are the ideal days to hit it besides Fri/Sat?
Yeah, there's quite a bit less people out on late weeknights. The kinds of girls you usually come across are girls with weird schedules like maids, students, nurses, waitresses, nannies, retail workers. Seems to be a lot of people at happy hours from 4-6. Pay attention to your local bars for when ladies nights are, they seem to usually be on Tuesdays or Thursdays for some reason. Also, if you're in a college town, a lot of students party on Thursday nights, because they have no Friday classes.
 

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Thanks dude. Yes, I am in a college town and 30 miles from another one, and Never have gone on a Thursday; therefore, I have been missing opportunities here for the past 2 years. That will change ASAP. I can't drink on a Thursday though, because my job requires upmost awareness and concentration. I haven't been to a happy hour in years in another state and I don't get off of work until 7 PM so that won't work.
 

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Thanks Amante Silvestre, I do goto church and attend collegiate house parties and know how important that "Who was that guy you were with here the other night?" question is to a woman that you've made a good first impression on (especially before the party at some other place and time) and maybe even her little sister on that first impression before her driving 500 miles or so back to her hometown for a brief visit (they talk in the car). The main thing is to get circulating and when you innocuously run into a woman (maybe not even saying anything to her on some encounters) on several occasions (maybe 3 or 4), then before you know it, she's got the attraction bug for you (and you don't even know it's happening during the downtime that you're away - and she just becomes another potential mate - another one to consider choosing) and that can be a VERY powerful pull on a woman. I'm currently experiencing this DHV from a woman in front of me to get me to bite her bait, but I don't want to get married just yet and I have a hunch that this is her intentions. She's really not my type, but she's certainly hot by Any man's standards (body and face). She's working to prove herself to me and she would be a great mother. I still have affection for a previous type of woman who I think/thought would make me most happy in the end is why I'm holding out.
 

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I hang and pregame with my crew and we bounce to the fun whenever we get around to it. Don't think so much about this. Just get girls.
 

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I'm only 17 so can't really go to clubs/bars, but i do work at a few bars/clubs. I'm in NY where last call is 4am every night. At one club we do not even open the doors until 11pm, and another are open all day, and at night converts to a night club. It seems from my observations that where we open at 11, most people come in around 12:30-2:00, and at the other place at like 9:00-12:00 we get the largest influx.

I would reccommend possibly pregaming, or just come in 30 mins to an hour before most people, and establish a place near the bar.
My first time going to a club i was told
"If you stay at one place, and make eye contact with the girls they know where you are, and if you see a girl who you connected with before come back near you, give her the little wave over to get her isolated. Do not do laps around, or give up your spot unless you go to the bathroom, because it makes you look lost, confused and desperate. Establish a location, so she knows where to find you, and you look better when you are just relaxed, chilling out without looking desperate for a girl."
 

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Thanks for sharing that, Amante and others. The one I want is the kind that you almost Have-to Chase because she's so elusive. She exhibits all the marriable traits and attraction attributes, flirting style, that I desire. She's like a light to my pathway when I need motivation. I've read coming from an expert marketeer, that there are four types of women: Fire, Ice, Light, and Earth. I've identified the one I know I want based on past experience as the Light type; therefore, I have to exceed her morality (honesty) in order to attract her. I have to go above and beyond her displays of light (honesty), and I've done that away from her as well as with her. She said one time that she felt darkness when in my presence and I just smiled and said, "Yeah, the darkness" as if she didn't know what she was talking about. I believe that I've flirted with her more than any other woman or girl in my life. Our flirting is natural, if not dumb to some people, but we didn't care because we knew that we were very similar in our very unique background and mentality. I know her two sisters (one, like I've said, almost indentical to her) and I know where they work. Soon, I will attempt to get to know the one who resembles her most. Wish me luck (I do not think about the impossibilities, but the possibilities with a no-matter-what and any-means-possible attitude to get what I want). I've been told at least thousand times that I'm crazy (and I welcome people to tell me that they think I'm that). Crazy is not living by your intuition, instincts, and not being able to think on your feet (living in the past, living in the future, but not living in the moment, not knowing what you want).
 

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Poonani Maker said:
I've read coming from an expert marketeer, that there are four types of women: Fire, Ice, Light, and Earth.
Expand on this, if you don't mind. What are these types of women?
 

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Expand on this, if you don't mind. What are these types of women?
Well, I don't want to plagerize, so I'll be brief. The Fire woman is passionate, emotional etc. You have one-up her (be a brighter flame, or outdo her in order to play with her). The Ice woman is intellectual, reserved, and analytical. She'll nitpick and judge Every little nook and cranny about you and ask a slew of questions. You have to answer casually and get her focus back on herself so that she can warm up to you or Feel something for you. So the goal with this type is to do whatever you can to throw her attention back on herself and off of you and she'll thank you for it (not out loud but through her change in body language from ice to warm). You have to be prepared for this one.

Light is sweet, loving, kind etc. You have to love children, people, animals, be a leader for the good, and led her further into the light than she can go on her own. Bask in the sunshine of this one.

The Earth one is the yoga, health-food, big-dog owner type. You have to show her that you're more in tune with nature than she is. It's all about leading her into your bigger physical world. You do things bigger and better than her in nature and she'll follow.

The key to the four types is to lead them further into their inclinations or direction, more than any other man has, but especially more than they themselves can on their own. You have to become an expansion on her values.
 

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At least 4 hours? Seems kinda long to me. But the clubs here close 2 AM and I usually go out somewhere around 11-midnight.
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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Well, thanks Isiman84, I've read (starting with Mystery) that over and over 4 hours to bang a one night stand with the potential of her coming back for more (phone #).

I thought that I was not giving myself enough time by starting at 9 (consider that you approach 20 women in one night - I usually only get around to 10 in multiple places downtown, then some will just waste your time that could be used to seduce one that's willing and ready to ****). Nothing makes me angrier than when a woman wastes my time giving me all the signals, but never really intending to **** (It's like real estate where you show the house get a lot of commitments and then the person backs out - you're not paid by the hour, but by commission, so you end up with nothing for all that hard work and wasted time).
 

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I'm usually up by 4:30-5am to go to CC, so I'm in bed by 11ish pm more times tha not, so on days when I work if I go out, it's usually in the early evening and I am home by 10ish
 

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Well, thanks Isiman84, I've read (starting with Mystery) that over and over 4 hours to bang a one night stand with the potential of her coming back for more (phone #).
I don't know if my methods might be different than most, but I guess it really depends on the setting too. I've gotten with girls who were friends of friends, or even random girls who I might have sent a message or two to online and then met up with and done stuff with, so it's possible some seeds were already planted. I do know for a fact I made out with one girl within a couple hours of meeting her. But even though we didn't go all the way she came back for more a couple of times, then told me she had a b/f and said it was cool to mess around but wouldn't go all the way. So I cut that shít off like a dead limb. Regardless, far less than 4 hours if you play all your cards right.
 

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"kind of lazy and don't see very well."
yeah those blind southern girls are a killer eh
 
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