What is wrong with this chick? Npd bpd or just an idiot?

[captain55]

-Within two weeks of dating she said “your hair,,,it’s thinning”

-First day I dated her we went out on my cousins boat. She demanded to be driven back home to feed her dog. While we were out in the ocean with 8 people.

she met my parents, and within the first hour asked my sister in law if her “boobs were real”
Also Mentioned the boat my parents had was a “cheap boat”

Two key notes-I noticed when I would leave the house, she would often FaceTime me within an hour of leaving after literally being around her all day, lack of object constancy and a borderline I’m guessing ??

Also in the shower sometimes, she would call my name out asking if I was still there (had a fear of me leaving)

I loved banging her....to the point where i had to see her behind my friends back and parents backs because I was so embarrassed.

Really am curious, was I dealing with a narcissist, a borderline, or just a ****ing ****? I’ve dated borderlines before but nobody ever that mean, blunt and rude to other people. Just downright hurtful, but at the same time did so many nice things for me. Which was all out of manipulation to keep me from leaving I guess

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Plate her. Assume that its ending soon times. Charge up your troll radar and spam nudes once the pin is pulled off than grenade.

The insult of your appearance particularly your hair or insulting your family's boat is beyond grounds for dismissal. When she bitched about being taken back i would have told her that she should swim & & & needs the exercise.

Trolling as a hobby. Revenge porn ftw. Wait wut?

 

[captain55]

Plate her. Assume that its ending soon times. Charge up your troll radar and spam nudes once the pin is pulled off than grenade.

The insult of your appearance particularly your hair or insulting your family's boat is beyond grounds for dismissal. When she bitched about being taken back i would have told her that she should swim & & & needs the exercise.

Trolling as a hobby. Revenge porn ftw. Wait wut?

i already ghosted her. After I ghosted, Thanks to being in a small town....She followed me around for weeks and ended up stalking me at a bar so I finally gave in because that Ass looked good. We Tried to work it out for a week but she refused to sleep with me because she couldn’t get over me leaving her and she found out about me being with another chick. So I said if you can’t move past it I’m gone and I threw in the towel.

Great in bed, but I don’t think I had the mental sanity to keep her around as a plate even if I tried. I feel sorry for her. I’ve been with npd and bpd but never a woman that was so mean and rude to others. She literally had no filter. Everyone I brought her into contact with couldn’t stand her.

 

[Romanemp22]

Don't stick your d1ck inside crazy. I've made that mistake before. It always starts with her being over you doing best things you couldn't even imagine but the moment you stop being the perfect guy in her crazy head, when you reject to do something retarded,she will become your worst enemy. These types of girls are really hard to break up with . I dumped my BDP ex 10 months ago and until july, she was calling me, creating fake profiles texting me. Also, I dumped her because the b1tch tried to kill herself, throwing herself down the stairs. So take it from me man you don't need that sh1t in your life.

 

[bat soup]

she met my parents, and within the first hour asked my sister in law if her “boobs were real”
Also Mentioned the boat my parents had was a “cheap boat”

I loved banging her....

Tell your parents to get a better boat.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

i already ghosted her. After I ghosted, Thanks to being in a small town....She followed me around for weeks and ended up stalking me at a bar so I finally gave in because that Ass looked good. We Tried to work it out for a week but she refused to sleep with me because she couldn’t get over me leaving her and she found out about me being with another chick. So I said if you can’t move past it I’m gone and I threw in the towel.

Not doing it right. No free attention. She can get attention after you piped her. Anything but dtf means #next.

Great in bed, but I don’t think I had the mental sanity to keep her around as a plate even if I tried. I feel sorry for her. I’ve been with npd and bpd but never a woman that was so mean and rude to others. She literally had no filter. Everyone I brought her into contact with couldn’t stand her.

Become more ruthless in your co quests. I find lulz when girls hit the wall, single mom and or fat. Life trolls women harder than you or i ever could. You win by moving on.

Comply or bye.

 

[dark god]

-Within two weeks of dating she said “your hair,,,it’s thinning”

-First day I dated her we went out on my cousins boat. She demanded to be driven back home to feed her dog. While we were out in the ocean with 8 people.

she met my parents, and within the first hour asked my sister in law if her “boobs were real”
Also Mentioned the boat my parents had was a “cheap boat”

Two key notes-I noticed when I would leave the house, she would often FaceTime me within an hour of leaving after literally being around her all day, lack of object constancy and a borderline I’m guessing ??

Also in the shower sometimes, she would call my name out asking if I was still there (had a fear of me leaving)

I loved banging her....to the point where i had to see her behind my friends back and parents backs because I was so embarrassed.

Really am curious, was I dealing with a narcissist, a borderline, or just a ****ing ****? I’ve dated borderlines before but nobody ever that mean, blunt and rude to other people. Just downright hurtful, but at the same time did so many nice things for me. Which was all out of manipulation to keep me from leaving I guess

What are you doing with my exwife!

 

[backseatjuan]

So you are old, and not rich enough, but hot enough to fck. Make her your plate.

 

[Atom Smasher]

BPD for sure.

 

[Blacksheep]

-Within two weeks of dating she said “your hair,,,it’s thinning”

-First day I dated her we went out on my cousins boat. She demanded to be driven back home to feed her dog. While we were out in the ocean with 8 people.

she met my parents, and within the first hour asked my sister in law if her “boobs were real”
Also Mentioned the boat my parents had was a “cheap boat”

Two key notes-I noticed when I would leave the house, she would often FaceTime me within an hour of leaving after literally being around her all day, lack of object constancy and a borderline I’m guessing ??

Also in the shower sometimes, she would call my name out asking if I was still there (had a fear of me leaving)

I loved banging her....to the point where i had to see her behind my friends back and parents backs because I was so embarrassed.

Really am curious, was I dealing with a narcissist, a borderline, or just a ****ing ****? I’ve dated borderlines before but nobody ever that mean, blunt and rude to other people. Just downright hurtful, but at the same time did so many nice things for me. Which was all out of manipulation to keep me from leaving I guess

I think she just had some bad experiences with ex boyfriends and became a bit paranoid with some fears. And of course, some stuffs she done and said is a bit nonsense.

Maybe its better if you don't try to diagnose her... Just observe her actions and ask yourself... Do you want to stay around a person like her with such behaviors? Can you handle those things? How much energy are you wasting on that? And is is worth?

It doesn't matter so much if she is borderline or narcissist... What really matters is how she is impacting your life. On a positive way or on a negative way?

Also this link have some good information about npd, bpd and other stuffs: https://www.reddit.com/r/raisedbynarcissists/wiki/helpfullinks

 

[Blacksheep]

Don't stick your d1ck inside crazy. I've made that mistake before. It always starts with her being over you doing best things you couldn't even imagine but the moment you stop being the perfect guy in her crazy head, when you reject to do something retarded,she will become your worst enemy. These types of girls are really hard to break up with . I dumped my BDP ex 10 months ago and until july, she was calling me, creating fake profiles texting me. Also, I dumped her because the b1tch tried to kill herself, throwing herself down the stairs. So take it from me man you don't need that sh1t in your life.

Had some similar experiences... It's very difficult and it literally drains our energies.

Doesn't worth at all.

 

[Kotaix]

Sounds to me like she has some level of asperger's.

I've known one woman who has it and she had the same propensity to blurt out things that shouldn't be said. She was kinda hot and I did think about banging her, but when she came out and proposed we have sex I blew her off because you don't stick your d!ck in crazy, because they follow you around and do general crazy sh!t.

 

[captain55]

So you are old, and not rich enough, but hot enough to fck. Make her your plate.

that only works for so long...

Im 28. I moved to a new city and met her the first day she showed me around everywhere. Started hanging out every day, but saw all the women out here and two weeks into it was like damn I need to end this so I ghosted. She found out I got with another girl the night I left her..

3 weeks later I ran into her and had a moment of weakness after she followed me around. We started talking again for about a week. Started going over her house for dinner she would cook. We would hold hands kiss etc but she wouldn’t let me bang her until she was ready to trust me again not to leave her. I said fine I’ll be patient as long as you don’t hold a grudge against me for what I did. things were good, I started realizing this girl really was good to me and maybe I didn’t need to tuck around.

Took her out for a $180 dinner and shes making plans to cook for me the next day and invited me out with her friends that weekend I said ok great. Things were finally feeling normal I was starting to slowly get comfortable with her...

As I’m waking about the door..the chick says she nervous about me catching feelings and that she wants to be friends..because she said she couldn’t get passed what I did to her every time she looked at me.

I cursed her out and said friends don’t go to romantic places like this and Sleep together where I’m from.

Her dumbass says “you’ve never had a good friend you have sex with? My ex and I didn’t have a title for 3 years” We started arguing and she kicked me out of her house and that was Thats


So maybe Asperger’s ...maybe she’s just a mean person and wanted to get back at me since I ghosted her.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

that only works for so long...

Im 28. I moved to a new city and met her the first day she showed me around everywhere. Started hanging out every day, but saw all the women out here and two weeks into it was like damn I need to end this so I ghosted. She found out I got with another girl the night I left her..

Hanging out everyday, but fvcking or not fvcking? We remember your history. Some years ago, you thought you had to show this incredible effort or come deep out of your pockets...

3 weeks later I ran into her and had a moment of weakness after she followed me around. We started talking again for about a week. Started going over her house for dinner she would cook. We would hold hands kiss etc but she wouldn’t let me bang her until she was ready to trust me again not to leave her. I said fine I’ll be patient as long as you don’t hold a grudge against me for what I did. things were good, I started realizing this girl really was good to me and maybe I didn’t need to tuck around.

She has to have the moment of weakness. She's controlling you on the "won't let you bang until she trust you again".

Took her out for a $180 dinner and shes making plans to cook for me the next day and invited me out with her friends that weekend I said ok great. Things were finally feeling normal I was starting to slowly get comfortable with her...

You STILL didn't fvck?

As I’m waking about the door..the chick says she nervous about me catching feelings and that she wants to be friends..because she said she couldn’t get passed what I did to her every time she looked at me.

Nervous about YOU catching feelings? She's acting in the superior position.

I cursed her out and said friends don’t go to romantic places like this and Sleep together where I’m from.

So you fvcked her?

Her dumbass says “you’ve never had a good friend you have sex with? My ex and I didn’t have a title for 3 years” We started arguing and she kicked me out of her house and that was Thats


So maybe Asperger’s ...maybe she’s just a mean person and wanted to get back at me since I ghosted her.

Made that fool wait 3 yrs? For some pity pvssy. She got "use" out of him all that time.

 

[Lookatu]

We would hold hands kiss etc but she wouldn’t let me bang her until she was ready to trust me again not to leave her. I said fine I’ll be patient as long as you don’t hold a grudge against me for what I did.

Took her out for a $180 dinner

You've made 2 mistakes. Please don't do that in the future.

 

[captain55]

Hanging out everyday, but fvcking or not fvcking? We remember your history. Some years ago, you thought you had to show this incredible effort or come deep out of your pockets...



She has to have the moment of weakness. She's controlling you on the "won't let you bang until she trust you again".



You STILL didn't fvck?



Nervous about YOU catching feelings? She's acting in the superior position.



So you fvcked her?



Made that fool wait 3 yrs? For some pity pvssy. She got "use" out of him all that time.

I’ll explain the whole story.

I ****ed her the first night I got with her. We went out for 3 weeks and had sex all the time it was great I had a good thing going but she started asking for exclusivity and talking about a future....she said she didn’t want me ****ing anyone else....she was rude to my friends and family so I just ghosted her. Blocked her. No explanation.

Ran into her two weeks after the breakup and she followed me around I dodged her successfully. Fast forward another two weeks and Ran into her a third time ....she followed me around again at the bar And asked me to buy her a drink ...and said “I see the way you look at me”

I had a moment of weakness when I saw how good her ass looked and gave in. Spent the night at her place and she gave me head but wouldn’t let me ****. She saw a girl texting me and and asked me about I just said idk.

I figured she would let the past go and we would just have a casual thing but she would always bring up how I left her and it just caused fights. She said “I should do exactly what you did to me” lol.

She only lives five minutes from me but I haven’t been over since. Don’t plan on going either. The sex was good but I think it was more for companionship given the fact that I literally moved 3000 miles away and had no friends here and only knew my cousin.

She showed me around the city and all the cool spots, helped me find an apartment, showed me the cool bars etc. I’m not the most social guy really so it was nice to have that I guess. Sad she’s so messed up because she did have a genuine sweet side to her. She would cook, do my laundry, revolve her entire day around my life literally ....but she would also be so nasty and hurtful sometimes. She called my cousin fat right in front of me and made fun of him

 

[17 shots]

U guys will put up with anything for some good tail... it's fun to read, but sad

 

[dude99]

-Within two weeks of dating she said “your hair,,,it’s thinning”

-First day I dated her we went out on my cousins boat. She demanded to be driven back home to feed her dog. While we were out in the ocean with 8 people.

she met my parents, and within the first hour asked my sister in law if her “boobs were real”
Also Mentioned the boat my parents had was a “cheap boat”

Two key notes-I noticed when I would leave the house, she would often FaceTime me within an hour of leaving after literally being around her all day, lack of object constancy and a borderline I’m guessing ??

Also in the shower sometimes, she would call my name out asking if I was still there (had a fear of me leaving)

I loved banging her....to the point where i had to see her behind my friends back and parents backs because I was so embarrassed.

Really am curious, was I dealing with a narcissist, a borderline, or just a ****ing ****? I’ve dated borderlines before but nobody ever that mean, blunt and rude to other people. Just downright hurtful, but at the same time did so many nice things for me. Which was all out of manipulation to keep me from leaving I guess

She sounds like a spoiled 13 year old. Zero social skills.
Hope you have a lot of patients because if her mouth has no filter on the first outing, you can imagine how she will test your patients in the months to come