What is wrong with me?!?

DonJuanit0

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I'm very frustrated at the moment, coming back from a cafeteria I was with some old friends! I kept being stared by beautiful women and I just DON'T do a thing! I've been with many women in my life but they were all either from school, or friends of a friend or something like that! Never a completely strange one! I'm a nice looking guy and I get the attention around me but I JUST DON'T ACT! I don't know what to say! The other day I was walking on the street and there was an 8 HB woman coming my way, we kept staring at each other until we passed one each other! The only thing that happened was that my heart got some kind of an electric shock for a moment, which was great, BUT NOTHING HAPPENED after this! I just don't know what to say! I've read so many things here, done so many things in my life depending on what I have read here, but I still can't win my hesitation to JUST GO AND TALK! I don't even know why I'm writing this, cause I've been here some years and I've read answers, discussion about the same thing, but nothing has really helped me!

So, let's try it some other way!

I'm sitting in a cafeteria with some friends of mine, I get to see a woman staring at me and we have eye contact! She persists on looking at me, what do I do? How would you guys act? Go there and say what? or something else... (she is sitting with some of her friends too)
 

Groovy

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how often do you pet the one eyed snake?
 

DonJuanit0

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ok, I smile! Afterwards? She will either smile back, or feel shy turn her face away and look again later!

Groovy I'm sorry but my English ain't that good enough to understand those phrases!
 

DonJuanit0

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bump!
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

metoo

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Wait until she is looking at you, but not the others

and jerk your head in a motion that means "meet me over there". She may be too embarrassed in front of her friends, or the batch of them might well be gaming you. So get her out of their sight and try for a phone number, or a private meeting someplace else, later.
 
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