what is up with this weird chick..........plese help

Lost In the Seas

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this girl and i used to have attractions and attachments towards eachother although we didn't offically go out, it all ended a few months ago though, and then we basically stayed being friends, but the zone we are in is still isn't that clear and defined

i went cold to her and we didn't communicate or go out for a month or so, i started going out with her and her friends just recently, and it seems quite obvious that she is always trying to make me jealous and such, like hugging her male friends, playing around with them right in front of me, and i caught her looking back at me while doing the stuff to see what my reactions are

She would also go against me like when i need to borrow money from her, she won't give it to me no matter what, or refuse to share candies or popcorns with me during a movie when she gives them to everyone else........

usually when we hang out, we just tease and neg hit eachother a lot, we would kick and punch eachother, etc.......it's kinda like a pair of primary school boy and girl fighting eachother......

and beside these, she would also do prank calls to me........... =-=
for the last two weeks she would call me, and when i listen to the phone she would go silent and hang up, and lately she is telling her friends to pretend to be other ppl that i know and started calling me, just last night she did 4 prank calls to me in a row.................when i asked her what's going on she would deny the fact that she was behind the calls

and in school she's more weird........when we see eachother in corridor, she would either say nothing to me, or she would call me an idiot in a slightly playing aorund way, or she would hide from me and try not to be seen by me.............once in lunch i heard from her friend that she asked a friend of mine where i was at lunch, and when she found the room i was chilling in she was too scared to go in, instead she dared one of her friends to say something to me and they all ran away.........

what in the world is she doing............
 

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Before I can offer any help to you...

Do you want to go out with her or not?

If you don't, then tell her you're not interested. And that's that.
 

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it's kinda akward to say that im still interested in her although the attraction and attchment between us is gone and suppose to be gone since three months ago
 

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Originally posted by griffon65
Shes immature, nothing more to it.

exactly my sentiments.
 

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uh.... how old is she?
 

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well it figures.

when i was back in high school some of the girls i knew were like that. :p

i guess it's their way of showing affection. strange but very true.

guess the girl's interested in you.

go for it... or don't. simple.

all the best mate
 

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what do i do if i wanna go for her, ignoring her "jealousy provaking appraoches" and pretend i don't care, or simply just go straight for the killer kiss
 

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hmmm. she seems like the really playful sort.

it's the really obvious "i like you" but i'm intentionally being mean to you because i don't want you to think i like you.

so i guess if i were you, i'd skip to the killer kiss.

get her alone with you. then start your usual wrestling tickling punching thing. just be playful with her because she seems to like that sorta thing. get closer to her. then you know the point when everything freezes... right after you supposedly finish tickling her? look into her eyes... and you'll know when the time is right (i hope) to move in and kisser.

that's a tried and true method if the girl has shown interest in you. :p it's worked for me. you might wanna give it a shot.
 

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yup, that's EXACTLY what i think im gonna do, and the perfect place to do it is at her aunts' house, which i used to go every friday for dinner and hang out with her and her best friend before i went cold at her and we didn't see eachother for a month

but how do i ask to be alone with her that friday with the absense of her best friend and without showing my intentions that i like her?
 

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umm... lets see. how do you get rid of the c0ckblock?

is there any chance of the best friend going home before you do?

if there is, then you can just carry on as planned after she leaves.

and, she's supposed to know you like her. if not when you attempt to kiss her she might flip.
 

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and nope, her best friend is like this fcuking annoying shadow of hers, whenever her friend has time she would go wherever she goes
 

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14? huh that explains it. Shes interested in you. Some girls in HS act like that when they like a guy.

Well asking her to be alone at her aunts might be tricky. It would be easier if you could have her over your house.

"Hey whata re your plans this friday?" blah blah ""well I'm going to do ___, you should come with me" if she brings up friends just say you wanted to spend some time alone with her.

"What are your plans for friday?" blah blah I dunno yet "ok then lets me and you hung out, what time is good for me to come over?"

If shes really interested in you it wont really matter what you say, she'll hang out with you.
 

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yup i agree with griff.

though there's a potential problem. if her best friend is an annoying shadow and your girl tells her she's going over to your place on friday, she could insist on tagging along.

its the high school thing. its like best friends are conjoined or something. haha.

hmm.

you could invite her over to your place to watch a DVD.
 

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hmm, so i will call her, or wait of her to call me, start up a convo and then ask her "hey what u doing on friday night, do u mind if i come over."

and maybe if she says her best friend is coming too then i will tell her i want to go alone to her house without her best friend, if she asks why i will say "i have something to talk to you about alone."

what do u think
 

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ask her to come over. don't ask if you can go over. that just sounds as if you've nothing to do on a friday night and want to crash her place.

ask if her conjoined twin is coming. and if she says yes, tell her to saw her off for the night. she'll get the point.
 

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