The Comeback Kid
Master Don Juan
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What's up guys...I have an inner conflict of sorts that you can hopefully help me sort out.
A few weeks ago, a girl came over to a house I commonly hang out at. She is stunningly attractive. The problem...the friend that told her to come over REALLY likes her (I learned this after I told him she was pretty cute). At the time, he was simply speculating about it and even promoted a "competition" between us - our other friends were interested to see how this would play out. He's known her for three years, and I have an impressive physique that drew her attention (I think?). I also think we have more in common (basically we dress similarly and she also works out). I had written a post about this girl a couple weeks back, you all thought he has no chance because he's knwon her for three years and hasn't done anything......
......any you are correct! Tonight, she came over for about ten minutes. My friend at this point is head over heels for her. I told him that if he is really into her, I won't get in the way. I've been on the reverse end of this before, and I was at ease that my friends were not hitting on the girl I liked. However, he conceded that he's 95% sure she is not into him, and is even giving in to the fact my physique alone gives me a better chance! Now I've talked to this girl for a good 30 seconds between the two meetings, so all we've really done is met.
Now my question - how do I go about things? I gave my friend my truthful advice, and that's to make a move before things get to be too much, come hell or high water. Figuring this girl says LJBF to my friend, what do I do? This friend is the only one who can contact her, but if she's single, I'd like to give it a shot . How would this actually work, if it's even possible? I've met her twice, but haven't really had a chance to talk to her much. If I was to add her on Facebook (I know her full name), I could come off as a creep, and that doesn't help. However, I could add her and encourage her to hang out at the house we are at more, thus helping my friend AND myself.
FYI, I may actually have ok odds here, provided I get the chance. For whatever reason, when I saw her tonight, she wanted to know "my life story" lol. That got interrupted by some other friends wanting me to show everyone (there were a few other girls there) my muscles . The first time I met her a few weeks back, I was the only guy (aside from the one that knows and likes her) that she talked to.
A few weeks ago, a girl came over to a house I commonly hang out at. She is stunningly attractive. The problem...the friend that told her to come over REALLY likes her (I learned this after I told him she was pretty cute). At the time, he was simply speculating about it and even promoted a "competition" between us - our other friends were interested to see how this would play out. He's known her for three years, and I have an impressive physique that drew her attention (I think?). I also think we have more in common (basically we dress similarly and she also works out). I had written a post about this girl a couple weeks back, you all thought he has no chance because he's knwon her for three years and hasn't done anything......
......any you are correct! Tonight, she came over for about ten minutes. My friend at this point is head over heels for her. I told him that if he is really into her, I won't get in the way. I've been on the reverse end of this before, and I was at ease that my friends were not hitting on the girl I liked. However, he conceded that he's 95% sure she is not into him, and is even giving in to the fact my physique alone gives me a better chance! Now I've talked to this girl for a good 30 seconds between the two meetings, so all we've really done is met.
Now my question - how do I go about things? I gave my friend my truthful advice, and that's to make a move before things get to be too much, come hell or high water. Figuring this girl says LJBF to my friend, what do I do? This friend is the only one who can contact her, but if she's single, I'd like to give it a shot . How would this actually work, if it's even possible? I've met her twice, but haven't really had a chance to talk to her much. If I was to add her on Facebook (I know her full name), I could come off as a creep, and that doesn't help. However, I could add her and encourage her to hang out at the house we are at more, thus helping my friend AND myself.
FYI, I may actually have ok odds here, provided I get the chance. For whatever reason, when I saw her tonight, she wanted to know "my life story" lol. That got interrupted by some other friends wanting me to show everyone (there were a few other girls there) my muscles . The first time I met her a few weeks back, I was the only guy (aside from the one that knows and likes her) that she talked to.