What is she up to?

[Bkg247]

Ok...here's the situation...About a year ago I lost my virginity to this girl...we were an item for a little bit but along came an older guy one her age (im 19 now shes 22) and they started goin out. Well that was that and even though we go to school together we didnt really talk and things were def not the same. I did my thing and didnt give her much attention. About a week ago...she starts talking to me online out of nowhere asking why we dont talk anymore and all that. So we start talking a bit this week nd she starts talking about the boyfriend and how things are ending...We wind up drinking together with a couple friends and shes very flirty the whole time...we talk at night and shes like you looked so cute today and all that stuff..Ive been playin it cool and doin the whole ****y bit and making fun of her. Most of our conversations have been pretty sexual in nature... and i never contact her first. Then last night she starts the converstation with shes not messaging me first anymore and that shes been doing all the work..then she gets into asking me if i regreted losing my virginity to her and if ive had sex with any other girls. I told her i didnt regret it and that yes i have had sex with other girls. She seemed interested in this and asked a bunch of questions. She then mentioned something about the boyfriend and that they dont have sex much and that to her it was a sign that things were ending...I told her that was too bad for her and acted uninterested....
my question: what is she up to??
and should i bother goin for her??

 

[girlsarecrazy]

Does her fvcking another guy right now make you feel uneasy?

 

[Bkg247]

no it doesn't bother me and hasn't for the past year...im just trying to guage what i should do with her

 

[JC9]

What do you want to do with her? There is your real answer.

If you are trying to analyze ever conversation to figure out what you _should_ do, your going about it the wrong way.

 

[Bkg247]

well if i know that she wants it and im not being used as a shoulder to cry on then...yeah id get with her...but im not sure

 

[MaverickBow]

Sounds to me like she is testing you. First she dumps you just for a guy her age then she tell you just 'cos they not having sex as much, she thinks its ending with them and she is all flirty with you. Then when you don't fall for that trick she changes tactic by saying she's not going to do all the work anymore and its your turn.

Don't fall for the shyt tests!

Next she will be saying something like "I really enjoyed our sex" or "I miss what we had" (sex wise, not emotionally). Then she will pull back and put it all on you again, and if you fall for it she will have you exactly where she wants you then will dump you again when she wants somone else...

Don't be used !!