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Let me start by saying that I absolutely detest simping, and I have never or never will send money to a girl for nudes or chat. However, I'm not against paying for actual, physical intimacy/sex with a really hot girl.

I know that women on onlyfans say they are there only to sell nudes for simps, but is it just to keep their reputation? What % of onlyfans models do you think actually meet "fans" in real world, i.e. are prostitutes?

I've come across a few perfect 10s lookswise who have onlyfans accounts. They are not celebrities or porn stars, just 20-somethings who have uploaded full nude videos online for free viewing. They have absolute perfect 10 bodies and a cute face too. So I'm thinking, since they already give away full nude videos of themselves for free, what's the onlyfans account for?

With 99.99% of women, I would not be considering this, but the girls I'm talking about are absolutely perfect (with video proof). I would gladly pay to spend a few hours with them in a hotel room. I'd say this is equivalent to seeing a rare supercar and wanting to test drive it.

What are your thoughts on this compared to seeing escorts? Are you more likely to get scammed? Potential problems you see?
 

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IMO, onlyFans allows a girl to make money very easily and conveniently. She will only actually see the rich dudes that can make it worth her while or ones SHE finds attractive enough to fvck. Otherwise, it's pretty much a no brainer for a girl to be lazy within the comfort of her own home pulling in a few thousand a month or week while still staying safe and STD free.

The only ones on social media platforms like onlyFans meeting guys are ones that will be getting paid a lot(more than they can make online) or the ones that don't know how to effectively market themselves online.

If you're gonna try to see a "10" that's on onlyFans, be prepared to spend quite a bit on her.

A better alternative IMO is to look through the sugar daddy sites where you'll have better success in actually meeting them, plus if you catch the newbies when they start, might have less mileage on them too.
 

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IMO, onlyFans allows a girl to make money very easily and conveniently. She will only actually see the rich dudes that can make it worth her while or ones SHE finds attractive enough to fvck. Otherwise, it's pretty much a no brainer for a girl to be lazy within the comfort of her own home pulling in a few thousand a month or week while still staying safe and STD free.

The only ones on social media platforms like onlyFans meeting guys are ones that will be getting paid a lot(more than they can make online) or the ones that don't know how to effectively market themselves online.

If you're gonna try to see a "10" that's on onlyFans, be prepared to spend quite a bit on her.
This sums up my thoughts. I've never tried onlyfans, is it possible to message a girl there without subscribing?

A better alternative IMO is to look through the sugar daddy sites where you'll have better success in actually meeting them, plus if you catch the newbies when they start, might have less mileage on them too.
Perhaps, but the important difference for me is that I've seen videos of the girl before even contacting her. I don't think they do that on dating sites or sugar sites.
 

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Perhaps, but the important difference for me is that I've seen videos of the girl before even contacting her. I don't think they do that on dating sites or sugar sites.
Videos don't mean jack squat. Aren't you trying to get physically laid?
I've been on sugar sites and girls there will send you pics, videos, live cams, etc. It's just that they don't broadcast it to the public.
 

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Videos don't mean jack squat. Aren't you trying to get physically laid?
I've been on sugar sites and girls there will send you pics, videos, live cams, etc. It's just that they don't broadcast it to the public.
They send you those without you paying anything or you sending pics first? I haven't tried sugar dating, so genuinely interested.

I don't know, for me, full nude videos are pretty much the only reliable/worthwhile evidence of what you are going to get if you meet them. Even escort agencies often don't have videos up, only photos.
 

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They send you those without you paying anything or you sending pics first? I haven't tried sugar dating, so genuinely interested.

I don't know, for me, full nude videos are pretty much the only reliable/worthwhile evidence of what you are going to get if you meet them. Even escort agencies often don't have videos up, only photos.
I've never paid for photos or vids. If you have good game, they will send it. Also there is what's known as Salt Daddy's(opposite of sugar daddys) where they pretend but in the end, the girl doesn't get paid.

I've gotten plenty of numbers off sugar sites and girls are more than willing to facetime with you so you can verify they are legit. You gotta remember, there is a lot of variety of girls on these sugar sites: amateurs, newbies, semi-pro's, professional sex workers, bored housewives, broke students, girls that have cheap bf, etc. They all have different reasons of being on there.
 

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Women who are hot enough do not need to have sex with men to earn absolute buttloads of money. Why expose yourself to STDs.

Also, literal prostitution for sex is illegal in most places.

Onlyfans is just a way to monetize beta thirst. It's actually rather genius.
 

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Let me start by saying that I absolutely detest simping, and I have never or never will send money to a girl for nudes or chat. However, I'm not against paying for actual, physical intimacy/sex with a really hot girl.

I know that women on onlyfans say they are there only to sell nudes for simps, but is it just to keep their reputation? What % of onlyfans models do you think actually meet "fans" in real world, i.e. are prostitutes?

I've come across a few perfect 10s lookswise who have onlyfans accounts. They are not celebrities or porn stars, just 20-somethings who have uploaded full nude videos online for free viewing. They have absolute perfect 10 bodies and a cute face too. So I'm thinking, since they already give away full nude videos of themselves for free, what's the onlyfans account for?

With 99.99% of women, I would not be considering this, but the girls I'm talking about are absolutely perfect (with video proof). I would gladly pay to spend a few hours with them in a hotel room. I'd say this is equivalent to seeing a rare supercar and wanting to test drive it.

What are your thoughts on this compared to seeing escorts? Are you more likely to get scammed? Potential problems you see?
To me, women on onlyfans are exactly the same as prostitutes. They want money and they're willing to do pretty much anything to get it. The same with so-called sugar babies. Those are nothing more than a bunch of overpriced lazy hos.
 

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So I'm thinking, since they already give away full nude videos of themselves for free, what's the onlyfans account for?
That's for all the content that isn't free. Porn does this too. The studios put videos on pornhub that are usually cut down a lot, but contains all or most of the most explicit parts. For the thirsty simps this isn't enough, they want more and so they pay to see more.

You'd think nobody would pay when they already get to see some of the best action for free, but clearly it works or they wouldn't do it. These simps basically get a crush and want to see ALL of their favorite slut, their obsession is so strong they'll pay for it.

Hard to believe, but sadly that's how depraved these guys are.
 

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It is the new self-employed "work from home" version of prostitution & peep-showing. The guy no longer has to drive to the adult book store, sit in a grimy booth and drop quarters in a slot. The woman no longer has to "get hired" by anyone.
With the amount of free porn readily available on the internet, it's hard to understand what would motive a guy to subscribe for something one can get free of charge.
 

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With the amount of free porn readily available on the internet, it's hard to understand what would motive a guy to subscribe for something one can get free of charge.
Two way interaction. You don't get that with porn and the geniuses found that guys need and will pay for personal interaction.

History repeats itself in the digital age. Same for when I was growing up pre-internet. There were porn magazines but then their were 1 (900) phone chat numbers where you got billed$2-3/min to talk to a female(real or not) for that interaction.
 

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Two way interaction. You don't get that with porn and the geniuses found that guys need and will pay for personal interaction.

History repeats itself in the digital age. Same for when I was growing up pre-internet. There were porn magazines but then their were 1 (900) phone chat numbers where you got billed$2-3/min to talk to a female(real or not) for that interaction.
That makes sense, I suppose. What kind of "interaction" do you get when you subscribe to see someone pics or videos on only fans?
 

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That makes sense, I suppose. What kind of "interaction" do you get when you subscribe to see someone pics or videos on only fans?
I don't have an account but I've read articles and watched Youtube on this phenomenon. You can basically talk to them like if they were your girlfriend. Talk about all sorts of stuff and you can request various pics from them.

It's the same psychology that happens when some sugar daddies pay to have dinner dates with some sugar babies. They want interaction, not necessarily sex. Yeah I know it's totally mind blowing but it does happen.

As they say, time is money. It doesn't matter what you're doing but you are paying for someone's time regardless.
 

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Let me start by saying that I absolutely detest simping, and I have never or never will send money to a girl for nudes or chat. However, I'm not against paying for actual, physical intimacy/sex with a really hot girl.

I know that women on onlyfans say they are there only to sell nudes for simps, but is it just to keep their reputation? What % of onlyfans models do you think actually meet "fans" in real world, i.e. are prostitutes?

I've come across a few perfect 10s lookswise who have onlyfans accounts. They are not celebrities or porn stars, just 20-somethings who have uploaded full nude videos online for free viewing. They have absolute perfect 10 bodies and a cute face too. So I'm thinking, since they already give away full nude videos of themselves for free, what's the onlyfans account for?

With 99.99% of women, I would not be considering this, but the girls I'm talking about are absolutely perfect (with video proof). I would gladly pay to spend a few hours with them in a hotel room. I'd say this is equivalent to seeing a rare supercar and wanting to test drive it.

What are your thoughts on this compared to seeing escorts? Are you more likely to get scammed? Potential problems you see?
Allot of escorts have onlyfans sites. I usually (in the past) go on an escort site and check their onlyfans. I have not subscribed to any except one free site. With me if there was an escort I was craving or itching to see then onlyfans sounds like a better idea. No risk of stds from the escort and you dont have to bother leaving your home. Sounds like another good thing from the pandemic. You probably save allot of money compared to meeting them and the experience is better if you dont like dealing with strangers. In fact if you see her site enough times then she feels less like a blind gamble right?
 

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With the amount of free porn readily available on the internet, it's hard to understand what would motive a guy to subscribe for something one can get free of charge.
Like have been mentioned, it's the thrill of interacting with someone they desire. Twitch streamers (I watch some gamers occasionally) use the same psychology, the streamer acknowledging the viewer gives the viewer a sense of importance that they may not otherwise experience in life. The higher the number of followers/viewers, the more important a viewer feels when acknowledged by the streamer.

So it is for porn, but instead of being in general it's focused around attention from women in particular. The simp might feel a sense of importance being acknowledged by a woman who has lots of other guys drooling over her. This is not like a cuck, he wants her for himself and is deluded into thinking he's special in her eyes, more special than the other guys. The game for these sluts is to convince as many as possible of these paying customers that they're special, that they might stand a real chance of getting her, these women are selling hope.

Many men driven by their primal urges and putting aside their critical thinking take the bait, they pay for a dream they are convinced will become true, but the truth is that it will only ever remain a dream or less if they take to their senses and let it go.

I totally get the psychology behind it and see how it works, but I am sooooooo far away from it personally. In a way it's hard to understand ME being in that position, but knowing what I know about the inner workings of the mind I'm not at all surprised about the fact that this is so widespread. I can't help but give credit to these women for coming up with a way to sell their pvssy without even letting a d!ck into it, as a business idea for the oldest profession on earth this is actually fairly clever.

I want good bang for my buck (which is no bucks) so I'm not biting though, but I do understand how it works on men in our increasingly asocial environment.
 

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Allot of escorts have onlyfans sites. I usually (in the past) go on an escort site and check their onlyfans. I have not subscribed to any except one free site. With me if there was an escort I was craving or itching to see then onlyfans sounds like a better idea. No risk of stds from the escort and you dont have to bother leaving your home. Sounds like another good thing from the pandemic. You probably save allot of money compared to meeting them and the experience is better if you dont like dealing with strangers. In fact if you see her site enough times then she feels less like a blind gamble right?
I'm interested in actually having sex with the girl, not just looking at her pics or videos online. I've met high-end escorts every now and then, but some (very few) of the onlyfans girls are on another level in terms of their looks.

This is probably the top 0.01% of women. For me, this is kind of comparable to eating at a 3-star michelin restaurant, or like driving a rare supercar. It's a life experience I would like to have.
 

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With the amount of free porn readily available on the internet, it's hard to understand what would motive a guy to subscribe for something one can get free of charge.
It is the Non-proessional, amateur aspect of it. It makes them seem more like a "real person" than the superstar or model. OnlyFans also creates the illusion that the customer is personally chatting with them. So these guys imagine and start to believe they have some kind of "connection" to her. It is all crap of course,...the woman has no respect for those guys. They see them as desperate SIMPS. But it is the allusion created by the situation and what the customers begin to imagine in their minds.
 

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i know a chick on Everquest, shes in my guild and we got to chatting, she has a Fansonly page and was telling me about the money she makes. On average 5k a week, up to 50k on really good weeks. One guy paid her 5k once for some pics and videos of 3 dildos stuffed up her **** and another paid 20k to see her gf stick her foot up her ****. I guess foot fetish pics are good money makers too. Now she could be full of crap i suppose but i kind of believe her. She sent me a picture of herself, shes a hot 40 yr old redhead.
I just dont understand paying a woman that kind of money for pictures and video when the net is full of free porn. I see why the women do it but i dont see why the men pay, just blows me away.
 
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