What is my enemy. Enemy, Ennerme, INNER ME

[moneyisking]

I had a brief "aha" moment today and want to write about it partly b/c I want to share it with my fellow DJs, but mainly b/c I want to remember the incident and LEARN from it in every ways.

I was walking to class really groggy and tired, not motivated to do anything much. Then this blondie friend that I know was coming from opposite direction.

She: Oh hey you, omg this is so hot (as in day)

Me: (CF came out naturally) Pointing at my body, Oh, Thank you.

I gave her good laugh. But then, I was too tired to deal with anyone and just walked away. But hey, if I think about it, I could have gave her a hug and just flirt and fvck around. I thought about it; what is holding me back from being SEXUAL? What is subconsciously holding me back from being a HAPPY successful and attractive man that I am?

Like Kimbo said, the Enemy is Inner Me. As for now, I still fight this Inner Me that turn me into lazy wussy that locks my sexual monster in a cage, but like a fvcking leader I am, I will free that monster. I know this thread is more of a statement than question, but advices are still welcome from successful DJs. I eternally crave development, and I will excel day by day. Thank you all.

 

[whipgameproper22]

i agree with you on this.

 

[metronome]

Sounds like you got your sh1t together, keep up the good work chief.

 

[cola]

I gave her good laugh. But then, I was too tired to deal with anyone and just walked away. But hey, if I think about it, I could have gave her a hug and just flirt and fvck around. I thought about it; what is holding me back from being SEXUAL? What is subconsciously holding me back from being a HAPPY successful and attractive man that I am?

Repeated brainwashing by society constantly telling you that being sexual with females you find attractive is somehow perverse or inane, when in fact it is human nature, thus societies foolish programming has brainwashed you of your animal-istic impulses to send sexual ques, which once were natural.. Even a dog when he wants to get laid just walks behind a b!tch and starts smelling her cooch.

Thus, those men who "get laid" the elite among us as you will, realize that being blunt about sexual interest is quite normal .. Thus they get laid.

The principles apply to more than just sex though.
Example, some men who feel threatened naturally fight or flight, others hesitate to do either and die..
We were much better when we were in the wilderness butt-naked eating berries than we are now.. Trust me.

 

[moneyisking]

I agree you on that one cola. That's why I despise routines and techniques and modern so-called gurus and PUAs. Everything's got to be natural.

 

[omega05]

but is it profitable to be thinking sexually all the time? this guy is talking about how he's in the middle of the street on his way to class and how he should have been sexual towards this female. why not just do what's comfortable?