As you can tell, this is my first post to this community, although I've been lurking here for a while. I've read some of the DJ Bible and will continue reading, but in the mean time I step forward and ask for advice with the situation briefly described below.
- I met her at a social dance class (don't laugh), I enjoy it.
- Attracted her enough that she accepted and she showed up for our first date. Great. I felt it went well, light kino, hi and bye hugs, no attempt to kiss.
- By necessity I cut the date short without giving her many details, but before that I made tentative plans with her for date two. Date two did'nt happen. She claimed work got in the way, but gave me approx 24h notice.
- I called her on a Sunday (did not leave a message) she called me right back saying she had a customer and could'nt answer phone. OK np. I tried to set up something with her for that very afternoon after work...she declined, but offered to get together during the next week. She asked me to send her an email specifying three time slots that would work for me.
- I constructed the email in such a way that in reality she only had one choice (the time I wanted with her). She replied two days later, with availability on a day that I had specified as "unavailable". I had previous plans for that day. I believe this was a s**t test, so I did not reply. She called to get an answer....my answer was "can't do".
So now, we're at a stand still. There's a good chance she'll be at this dance event tomorrow night, so how do I proceed from here?
A) Do I ignore her totaly, not even saying "hi", and have a great time with other women?
B) Do I kidd around?? Bust on her and pretend that "Have we met before...?? etc etc
C) Do I try to seduce her with attention and escelation.?
D) What are my other options?
Damn, this got long. Looking forward to reading your advice. TIA.
- I met her at a social dance class (don't laugh), I enjoy it.
- Attracted her enough that she accepted and she showed up for our first date. Great. I felt it went well, light kino, hi and bye hugs, no attempt to kiss.
- By necessity I cut the date short without giving her many details, but before that I made tentative plans with her for date two. Date two did'nt happen. She claimed work got in the way, but gave me approx 24h notice.
- I called her on a Sunday (did not leave a message) she called me right back saying she had a customer and could'nt answer phone. OK np. I tried to set up something with her for that very afternoon after work...she declined, but offered to get together during the next week. She asked me to send her an email specifying three time slots that would work for me.
- I constructed the email in such a way that in reality she only had one choice (the time I wanted with her). She replied two days later, with availability on a day that I had specified as "unavailable". I had previous plans for that day. I believe this was a s**t test, so I did not reply. She called to get an answer....my answer was "can't do".
So now, we're at a stand still. There's a good chance she'll be at this dance event tomorrow night, so how do I proceed from here?
A) Do I ignore her totaly, not even saying "hi", and have a great time with other women?
B) Do I kidd around?? Bust on her and pretend that "Have we met before...?? etc etc
C) Do I try to seduce her with attention and escelation.?
D) What are my other options?
Damn, this got long. Looking forward to reading your advice. TIA.