What is having a GF really like?

[BlackDragon]

This may sound stupid, but I think this might be my problem with girls. Im not much of a social person, but over the past few years I gotten better. I have alot of acquaintances and a few friends that I might hang out with a few times a month, but other than that Im usually alone. I like being alone, but sometimes I do feel depress b/c I dont have a gf. I kind of afraid what it will be like to have a gf. I think this is holding me back from dating. Somtimes I feel like a fool b/c girls will show intrest in me and I will play dumb and do nothing. :/

 

[Dukester]

solution-- do something!

forget about that brain of yours, b/c it's only fvcking you up. kick those depressing thoughts, and start acting on something that comes your way!

 

[Avsguy01]

You have to decide if you want to randomly date women for one thing.......(a piece of ass) or if you want more than that. Having a girlfriend IMO is very fulfilling. Ive been dating my significant other for 8 months now.

 

[SDFUandDie]

Dude dont be depressed you dont have a g/f...... Feel sorry that the females dont have ur azz...

I am pretty sure your still young and have plenty of time for g/f's.

Live life to the fullest.. you know you only have ONE!

Good luck!

Someone out there will go out with you j/k

 

[BigWillyStyle]

What is having a GF really like?

Well it has it's pros and cons like everything in life really. It's great when you find a chick that is hot and has the personality to match, unfortunately, I think I got a better chance of winning the lottery then finding the above breed. This is what I've found when I had a GF:

Pro's: *Constant supply of sex(well, usually anyway)
*Good company(at times)
*She'll usually boost your ego
*She'll look after you when your sick
*Cooks you meals(sometimes)
*Girls love neatness, most of my GF's at one time or another have cleaned up my house
*Good to bond with a GF that has the same passions as you
*Feels nice to wake up in the morning next to someone you think is hot and care for(not necessarily LOVE)
* Feel like they know the 'real' you


Cons: *Wallet gets lighter
*When fights occur one can get pretty fumed
*GF's can get on your nerves at times
*Run there mouths and talk to much when you just want peace and quite
*Often feel like your interrogated by the CIA with some GF's, the overly paranoid ones
* Sometimes you gotta be careful with what you say or these feminist types will make a big deal out of it

On the whole I think everyone is looking for a partner, it's in our biological make up. Getting the right type of girl is hard though. One thing that is pathetic is when I read about on this site, young guys who haven't ever had a GF and are willing to commit suicide because of it Sure, nobody likes to be lonely, but you have hobbies, interests, friends and family that should come before any chick. Blackdragon having a GF won't change your life and make you happy. They are more hassle then they're worth at times. If you're not happy by yourself, you can't make anyone else happy.

 

[Desdinova]

I kind of afraid what it will be like to have a gf.

It's like having a female best friend - with sex as a bonus. Keep things simple in your mind. Women are nothing more than humans with different physical features than men. Keep this in mind and you'll be able to handle them much better.

 

[chancer]

don't be afraid... You can always break things off or limit the amount of time the girl see's you; After all, you do have your own life. If it's something you want to try, then try it.

 

[thefonz]

depends, sometimes its a ball and chain.....sometimes it's pure joy

 

[DeathDealer]

It really depends.

Some girlfriends act like dominant mothers, some act like dominant princesses, some act like the passive hurt girl... They're all different. I tend to get along with girls that are independent, tomboyish but still maintain feminity passivity.

 

[Alpine]

We always want what we haven't got, and when you get it you realise you were better off without it.

 

[DJ24SEVEN]

The 3 main bonuses of having a girlfriend is:

1. Sex
2. A female actually loves you
3. An ego booster

 

[Mack Bishop]

its kinda like having a tumor

 

[Alpine]

Originally posted by DJ24SEVEN
The 3 main bonuses of having a girlfriend is:

1. Sex
2. A female actually loves you
3. An ego booster

1 not always

2 not always

3 definately not always

 

[mahon83050]

Originally posted by BlackDragon
This may sound stupid, but I think this might be my problem with girls. Im not much of a social person, but over the past few years I gotten better. I have alot of acquaintances and a few friends that I might hang out with a few times a month, but other than that Im usually alone. I like being alone, but sometimes I do feel depress b/c I dont have a gf. I kind of afraid what it will be like to have a gf. I think this is holding me back from dating. Somtimes I feel like a fool b/c girls will show intrest in me and I will play dumb and do nothing. :/

I am 27, almost 28 and never had a serious girlfriend...how do you think I feel...you are only 19 BRO!! I have to admit, not having one has seriously fukked up my sense of self-worth. However, the future looks bright and I am moving out of state with no parents to hassle me,,,,my confidfence will soar!!