donjuan matteo
Don Juan
Allright guys, I'm hoping someone can analyze this situation and tell me what the fu@k she is thinking...
So this chick finds me on a website, and she's 19, and a solid 8. A cute petite blonde, with really big titties.
She e-mails ME saying, "your the most handsome man I've even seen...blah blah" I give her a short response and she hits me back with ALLL her contact info, and keeps sending messages to see if I'm still there. Her interest level is mad high. I e-mail her back a few times and make her qualify to me ie. "why should I get to know you, etc..." So 2 nights ago I give her a ring on her phone after she begs me to call her cause she's sad over her ex, and I seem "sweet". So I call her, and she's like halfway crying, telling stories of how abusive her ex was, how he's gonna kill her if he finds her (red flag city already) and that right now she NEEDS someone to be nice to her and treat her right, etc. etc.
Well I do a pretty good job figuring out that this chick has ULTRA low self esteem, and I need to just focus on making her feel good, so that's what I do. I tell her she deserves so much more, I run some light patterns, and I compliment her when she says something nice to deserve it. She is eating it up, and says, "I'm free all day tomorrow". but I don't ask her out, I tell her I'm very busy, and I'll try to give her a call when I can. (my interest level was very high at this point, but I was just playing it cool)
So we talk about meeting up the nexxt day at her resturant and she says, "how do you want my hair, wavy or straight?" and I'm like, "well I'm only interested in really hot chicks" and she's like, "oh, I can look like that, give me a chance!" totally and completely qualifying herself to me and I am loving every minute of it. We settle on a time, and she's going to wait on my table.
I show up to her resturant, I ask the hostess if HB8 is working today, and she gives that "*I know who you must be* smirk, and seats me in her section. I'm pretty nervous at this point, cause I haven't met her yet, and for all I know these pictures could still be fake! I'm sitting at the table, trying to play it cool with a menu in 1 hand, cell phone in the other, sitting there all by my 1 and only.
She walks over and says to me, "hello, what can I start you off with", acting as if she has no fu@king clue who I am. I hate liars, but I just go along with it. I fu@k with her a bit though, asking what she reccomends and why, and tell her that if I don't like it I'm going to blame her and report it to the manager. She gets this serious and confused look on her face, and then I grab her hand and say her name slowly, "HB8, I'm so just fu@king with you" She smiles and shakes her finger at me, "oh! you must be dj matteo" I'm thinking yeah yeah *****, act like you weren't expecting me.
Here's where the tables turn around COMPLETELY. I start to feel attracted to her. She's petite, very pretty smile, stylish medium length blonde hair, HUGE rack, no ass though :/ She is working hard, and is BUSY. I motion for her to come over and talk to me a few times. It was akward, casue she had tables. I could tell she was into me though. My body language was ok, but could have been better, I may have come across too needy, moving in so she could hear me over the loud music. Throughout my brief half hour lunch there I discover some things about her I don't really like, such as cigarettes in her pocket, her appetite for mcDonalds, and little things that just irritated me. Still, she would be an awsome hookup if I can manage to hold my damn frame which was slowly slipping away.
I ask her if she wants to hang out after her shift, but her boss is making her work a double, so she doesn't get off till midnight...damn! Ok, well she says she'll probably do something afterwards, and I ask, "do you want to do something with me?" (still kicking myself that I asked that) but she says, "yeah that would be awsome". At this point in the lunch I'm finally getting solid EC from her so I reach out, take her hand, and we're just looking at each other and have a real nice warm moment of truth despite our chaotic surroundings. I later give her a very awkward hug as I'm leaving. I might have gone overboard with kino at her work, but felt I had to risk it for the reward. I tell her I'm really looking forward to seeing her (wish I didn't say that, but she's insecure so I said it), and I'll give her a call around 11 tonight.
I call her at 11:15 and leave her a message on voice mail. 12:15 and no contact. I see her online at 12:30, message her, no response. I sign off. I sign back on at 1:30 and after like 3 IM's she finally responds with very little to say. Was she ignoring me the whole time? I think she was chatting with lots of people online cause I heard it in the background the other night. I tell her I would have appreciated a call back, and that she F'd up my plans for the night, but I don't push the issue to hard. She apologizes and says she's tired and is going to sleep, and I should call her sometime. She signs off.
It seems like her interest level went from 10,000 to 1. It just really bothers me she didn't call, and acted un-interested online. I guess it's possible she genuinely was tired and didn't feel like she could talk much, but she was practically jumping with excitement to meet me the night before. I also wonder if my game slipped up, or if she wasn't as into me in person. I've f'd up situatons like this before with girls just getting out of a LTR by me seducing too fast. It's like they can tell that if they keep talking to me they are gonna get seduced when they aren't ready to go there yet.
What do you guys think. Not call her at all anymore right?
So this chick finds me on a website, and she's 19, and a solid 8. A cute petite blonde, with really big titties.
She e-mails ME saying, "your the most handsome man I've even seen...blah blah" I give her a short response and she hits me back with ALLL her contact info, and keeps sending messages to see if I'm still there. Her interest level is mad high. I e-mail her back a few times and make her qualify to me ie. "why should I get to know you, etc..." So 2 nights ago I give her a ring on her phone after she begs me to call her cause she's sad over her ex, and I seem "sweet". So I call her, and she's like halfway crying, telling stories of how abusive her ex was, how he's gonna kill her if he finds her (red flag city already) and that right now she NEEDS someone to be nice to her and treat her right, etc. etc.
Well I do a pretty good job figuring out that this chick has ULTRA low self esteem, and I need to just focus on making her feel good, so that's what I do. I tell her she deserves so much more, I run some light patterns, and I compliment her when she says something nice to deserve it. She is eating it up, and says, "I'm free all day tomorrow". but I don't ask her out, I tell her I'm very busy, and I'll try to give her a call when I can. (my interest level was very high at this point, but I was just playing it cool)
So we talk about meeting up the nexxt day at her resturant and she says, "how do you want my hair, wavy or straight?" and I'm like, "well I'm only interested in really hot chicks" and she's like, "oh, I can look like that, give me a chance!" totally and completely qualifying herself to me and I am loving every minute of it. We settle on a time, and she's going to wait on my table.
I show up to her resturant, I ask the hostess if HB8 is working today, and she gives that "*I know who you must be* smirk, and seats me in her section. I'm pretty nervous at this point, cause I haven't met her yet, and for all I know these pictures could still be fake! I'm sitting at the table, trying to play it cool with a menu in 1 hand, cell phone in the other, sitting there all by my 1 and only.
She walks over and says to me, "hello, what can I start you off with", acting as if she has no fu@king clue who I am. I hate liars, but I just go along with it. I fu@k with her a bit though, asking what she reccomends and why, and tell her that if I don't like it I'm going to blame her and report it to the manager. She gets this serious and confused look on her face, and then I grab her hand and say her name slowly, "HB8, I'm so just fu@king with you" She smiles and shakes her finger at me, "oh! you must be dj matteo" I'm thinking yeah yeah *****, act like you weren't expecting me.
Here's where the tables turn around COMPLETELY. I start to feel attracted to her. She's petite, very pretty smile, stylish medium length blonde hair, HUGE rack, no ass though :/ She is working hard, and is BUSY. I motion for her to come over and talk to me a few times. It was akward, casue she had tables. I could tell she was into me though. My body language was ok, but could have been better, I may have come across too needy, moving in so she could hear me over the loud music. Throughout my brief half hour lunch there I discover some things about her I don't really like, such as cigarettes in her pocket, her appetite for mcDonalds, and little things that just irritated me. Still, she would be an awsome hookup if I can manage to hold my damn frame which was slowly slipping away.
I ask her if she wants to hang out after her shift, but her boss is making her work a double, so she doesn't get off till midnight...damn! Ok, well she says she'll probably do something afterwards, and I ask, "do you want to do something with me?" (still kicking myself that I asked that) but she says, "yeah that would be awsome". At this point in the lunch I'm finally getting solid EC from her so I reach out, take her hand, and we're just looking at each other and have a real nice warm moment of truth despite our chaotic surroundings. I later give her a very awkward hug as I'm leaving. I might have gone overboard with kino at her work, but felt I had to risk it for the reward. I tell her I'm really looking forward to seeing her (wish I didn't say that, but she's insecure so I said it), and I'll give her a call around 11 tonight.
I call her at 11:15 and leave her a message on voice mail. 12:15 and no contact. I see her online at 12:30, message her, no response. I sign off. I sign back on at 1:30 and after like 3 IM's she finally responds with very little to say. Was she ignoring me the whole time? I think she was chatting with lots of people online cause I heard it in the background the other night. I tell her I would have appreciated a call back, and that she F'd up my plans for the night, but I don't push the issue to hard. She apologizes and says she's tired and is going to sleep, and I should call her sometime. She signs off.
It seems like her interest level went from 10,000 to 1. It just really bothers me she didn't call, and acted un-interested online. I guess it's possible she genuinely was tired and didn't feel like she could talk much, but she was practically jumping with excitement to meet me the night before. I also wonder if my game slipped up, or if she wasn't as into me in person. I've f'd up situatons like this before with girls just getting out of a LTR by me seducing too fast. It's like they can tell that if they keep talking to me they are gonna get seduced when they aren't ready to go there yet.
What do you guys think. Not call her at all anymore right?
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