What is game?

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''applied charisma'' was a definition I heard a long time back

But over the years i've kind of cared less and less about 'game' though and decided it's really somewhat irrelevant (and I studied and tested everything! from mystery to DiCarlo to yareally to NLP and everything in between lol!)

By that I mean, if a girl is attracted to you, the amount of 'game' you need to get her in bed is more or less 'don't be a COMPLETE autist'. It's honestly quite hard to screw it up with a girl is attracted to you as long as you are even remotely normal.

And if you are not her type and she's not attracted to you (you're way too old and fat and bald for her) then all of the 'game' in the world simply won't cut any ice at all. We've seen this proven so many times over the years with infields from the apparent best there is at 'game'.

In practical terms it's essentially flirting, dealing with small obstacles, having the balls to make a move etc. It's something to help you be more efficient at banging the girls who like you.

it's not, and has never been, what PUA marketing wants you to think it is. E.g techniques and verbals to brainwash/force attraction in any girl and making her want to bang you lol.
 
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Game is understanding social dynamics and the ability to identify social cues, and then use that knowledge to apply in social interactions.
The seduction game only applies to Males. Female game is a total myth.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I define 'game' as the ability to successfully approach, seduce, date or hook up with women.

I'm not into PUA style indirect game, though. I am all about the direct approach.
 

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Another buzzword which has performed a rather remarkable feat: Creating more confusion among the general public than corporate claptrap like "change agent" and "synergy" ever did
 

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The seduction game only applies to Males. Female game is a total myth.
If this were true, every gal who arrives in Hollywood each year from Bootlick, USA would become a sex symbol. The 2% who achieve It Girl status are the ones who put in the effort
 

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Game is the ability to :
-trigger responses from women
- when the trigger set in, the ability to actually act upon it . So you might LOOK like yiugit game but once you open your mouth you might show you DON'T got game
- the ability to adjust accordingly to the situation. E.g two or more women might need to be "played " at once.

It's about having that total package. Even though there are levels to it. Sometimes you just need looks game and you can have a air matras on the ground and a woman still wants to bang you. Other times you gonna need clean sheets and clean towels in order to impress a woman.
So game is also depending on whose your "opponent ".

A man with NO GAME might as well be "not ugly" but lacking social skills to execute any form of game. It's about positioning yourself, maintaining the spark at will. .

Game is such a complicated matter that most men simply deny It's existence. It's untouchable for those who can't see it, while it's there in abundance for the man who gets it.
 

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Game is the ability to :
-trigger responses from women
- when the trigger set in, the ability to actually act upon it . So you might LOOK like yiugit game but once you open your mouth you might show you DON'T got game
- the ability to adjust accordingly to the situation. E.g two or more women might need to be "played " at once.

It's about having that total package. Even though there are levels to it. Sometimes you just need looks game and you can have a air matras on the ground and a woman still wants to bang you. Other times you gonna need clean sheets and clean towels in order to impress a woman.
So game is also depending on whose your "opponent ".

A man with NO GAME might as well be "not ugly" but lacking social skills to execute any form of game. It's about positioning yourself, maintaining the spark at will. .

Game is such a complicated matter that most men simply deny It's existence. It's untouchable for those who can't see it, while it's there in abundance for the man who gets it.
Eloquently said.

It ultimately boils down to experience. There's no quick fix; you can read everything you need to know, but you have to develop a callous over your heart before you are ready to deal with women honestly.

The sad thing is it's taken me 20 years to truly not give a fvck. Wisdom is wasted on the old
 
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