What is a quality woman?

DonJuanabe

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Ultimately I think that is what is important - finding a quality woman. What does that mean?

Personally, I like interesting/quirky girls. The last girl I dated described herself as being weird, but after learning what I did about her (both from observation and her directly telling me) I don't think weird is the right word -- dysfunctional is the right word. Others might call it f'ed up, crazy, etc.

So, for me, an element of a quality woman conerns issues. All women have issues, the question is how many and to what degree/intensity? Ideally you want a woman who has few issues in number and the issues she has should be very low in intensity. Plot quantity on the x axis and intensity on the y. A quality woman will be found in the lower left corner; the more you move toward the upper right corner the more dyfunctional -- and lower quality -- she is.

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Physically attractive, mentally/emotionally stable, fleshed out personality.

If she's lacking in any of those areas she's not worth my time.
 

Eternal_water

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Should be able to hold up her own side of a conversation instead of you having to try and get blood out of a stone.

Be funny. A llot of guys describe girls they like as funny when they actually aren't, saying it is just a tool to get into their pants.

very few girls really are funny (they have never needed to be) but when they are you can build electrifying chemistry between yourselves with ease.

w,h,o,r,e in the bedroom ;)

loyal

doesn't waste time with mind games


can make a good sandwich
 

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A quality woman is however the man or boy in the mirror defines it. To each his own. :yes:

Case closed.
 

BigSmooth

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A good quality girl is a girl you probably won't find often in a club.

She is someone that challenges you...your pursuit of a relationship with her makes you forget about all those bar s!uts.

She's someone that gets your humor, but also has her own sense of humor, and is witty enough to hold a teasing/bantering back-and-forth battle.

She's someone that makes you toss and turn at night, making you unable to think of other girls.

She's someone that is smart, knows what her career is, has passions that don't just involve going to clubs and getting sh!t-faced.

She is someone you can bring home to meet your parents, and your dad will actually praise you on your taste, and not say, "that girl looks like a skank".

She's someone that you wouldn't mind spending time with, all the time. There never is a boring moment with her.

She is someone you never want to hurt.

She is someone you'd go and shoot up a 100 person gang for because they kidnapped her.

She is someone that respects you and realizes who you truly are.

She is someone that doesn't play hard to get, but instead plays hard to forget.



What I described is probably a near "perfect" girl for some of you. Hell, some of you were probably brought to this web-site BECAUSE of a girl similar to this one.

However, that girl that brought you here because you developed severe one-itis and was permanently friendzoned was NEVER this type of girl. You only THOUGHT she was. You were naive and ignorant and an amateur back then, and built her up in your mind for her to be something that she was not. Then, you were heartbroken, and acknowledged you had to change for the better.

Now, you've been on this website, slowly improving into the man of your dreams. Only when you become the man of your dreams, you will meet the woman of your dreams. For some of you, that moment will be near. For others, it'll be a while, and you will go through a lot more bar s!uts in the process.

When you meet a good, quality girl after you have become a complete DJ, you will know if she is the right one for you, and if she is, go get her.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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BigSmooth said:
that girl that brought you here because you developed severe one-itis and was permanently friendzoned was NEVER this type of girl. You only THOUGHT she was. You were naive and ignorant and an amateur back then, and built her up in your mind for her to be something that she was not. Then, you were heartbroken, and acknowledged you had to change for the better.

Now, you've been on this website, slowly improving into the man of your dreams. Only when you become the man of your dreams, you will meet the woman of your dreams. For some of you, that moment will be near. For others, it'll be a while, and you will go through a lot more bar s!uts in the process.
such wise words man!
:rockon:
 

DonJuanabe

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Disagree with you Sam. Examples of not quality that you should avoid (which I didn't): hates her father; believes all men treat her badly; always serious never light-hearted; conversation always feels like an interview rather than easy as though she is always suspicious.
 
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A quality woman is a woman who shares my moral and ethical outlook in life.
 

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perseverance said:
A quality woman is a woman who shares my moral and ethical outlook in life.
That's a pretty good answer.
 

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A quality woman is someone you can spend quality time with.

If your moments with her feel like the best moments of your life, then she is a quality woman.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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