What is a Good Response to "How Are You?"
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Vanilla
Senior Don Juan
"If I was any better, there would be two of me"
Come on dudes, she is just asking "HOW YOU ARE". You reply by saying "im always good thanks, how are you feeling?". You dont gotta come out with some c+f reply or something. You guys are taking it too far. GEEZ, get some conversational skills will ya!
It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Maximus Rex
Banned
Why would you need a c&f response to this?
doctorj
Don Juan
"Never better"
If it is an normal question, RESPOND WITH AN NORMAL ANSWER. I damn near imagine myself cringing and continuously face palming myself upon the thought of a girl saying in a normal tone: "How are you" and some dude responding "in sex? great". Yes, it is funny, but it depends on much on HOW she asks you. This has the potential to fail B.I.G time! That would probably be fine if she was asking you in an flirty manner or whatever, but I prefer the Conan o brien response. 
The most important thing is not WHAT YOU SAY, but HOW YOU SAY IT. Or, people don't remember what you said, but how you made them feel. So hang around with DJ's, that stuff will slowly get into your head, the next thing you know it, you will naturally be saying neat stuff... Or if you don't know any, you have to develop yourself and these things will come naturally, but I think it's gonna be harder alone, when you see others doing it, you get an good idea of how to act... PS: The more you socialize, the easier and more natural these things are!! Good luck, good thread BTW.
The most important thing is not WHAT YOU SAY, but HOW YOU SAY IT. Or, people don't remember what you said, but how you made them feel. So hang around with DJ's, that stuff will slowly get into your head, the next thing you know it, you will naturally be saying neat stuff... Or if you don't know any, you have to develop yourself and these things will come naturally, but I think it's gonna be harder alone, when you see others doing it, you get an good idea of how to act... PS: The more you socialize, the easier and more natural these things are!! Good luck, good thread BTW.
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d!ckmojo
Senior Don Juan
I always say slowly with a dead pan face "Tremendous", really emphasizing the word but not smiling at all.
I also like that previous poster's suggestion of "Outstanding" as well. I think if you can create a dichotomy between the power of the word you use, but having a serious expression when saying it, without any fake emotion in it, it lights up the chick's broca's region and triggers fascination in her.
It also creates the impression that high states of well-being are pretty much normal for you, and no big deal.
I don't think that manic happiness impresses potential pick ups, unless everyone is feeling the same way and its kind of like a group vibe that everyone partakes of. But on the other hand I don't think a standard response like "not bad" or "pretty good" does anything to ramp up her attraction response either.
Perhaps the word "Superb" would work as well, the key is to say it slowly with a low, smooth voice, while making intense, smouldering eye contact with her.
I also like that previous poster's suggestion of "Outstanding" as well. I think if you can create a dichotomy between the power of the word you use, but having a serious expression when saying it, without any fake emotion in it, it lights up the chick's broca's region and triggers fascination in her.
It also creates the impression that high states of well-being are pretty much normal for you, and no big deal.
I don't think that manic happiness impresses potential pick ups, unless everyone is feeling the same way and its kind of like a group vibe that everyone partakes of. But on the other hand I don't think a standard response like "not bad" or "pretty good" does anything to ramp up her attraction response either.
Perhaps the word "Superb" would work as well, the key is to say it slowly with a low, smooth voice, while making intense, smouldering eye contact with her.