ArtVandelay
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If a girl calls you a creep or creeper, it simply means that she finds you physically unattractive and your advances aren't welcome.
azanon said:Again, sometimes they're actually the weird or quirky one. To a stuck-up, sheltered, bible-thumping, daddy's girl, I'll always be a creep in her mind.
Usually's too strong a word, IMO. "creep" is misused by the accuser approximately half the time in my estimation.
No, you're right, I'm not as introverted/shy/quiet when with family or close friends. But just about any other time I am...SinJester said:Let me ask you this, are you always introverted/shy/quiet or just in large groups? Do you act the same around your close friends or family?
What was your horrible experiance that made you feel like a creep?
Exactly - I'm the same way. And I think a lot of people perceive me as arrogant, aloof, unfriendly, etc. Hey, I'm an introvert, that's all. It takes a lot of energy for me to talk to someone, all the more so because I'm hard-of-hearing and have to focus on their face/lips in order to "lip-read" and really try to fill in the blanks (words I miss) in order to understand the person w/out constantly asking "what was that?"jigga23 said:ive been called a creep or weird. but then ive been called ****y and arrogant. so i got both ends of the spectrum. to me when i go out i will only talk to someone if im in the mood. if i dont it means im tired, bored and just dont care about the person and dont like putting in the effort.
Haha - I hear you.azanon said:The accusation most DJs should get from time-to-time is a$$hole. In fact, I'd go so far as to say if you've never been called that at least once or twice, you're probably still too much of a "nice guy".
Now, THAT is a very interesting definition. That's exactly how that girl made me feel with the expression on her face.... "you should not be a sexual creature". Or maybe just "I'm shocked that you are interested in me".ketostix said:What being a creep essentially means is someone doesn't like/understand you and it's their contention you should not be a sexual creature. Why they don't like you usually centers around you being quiet and not friendly and personable to them. The fact that "creep" means a hundred different things and it's not universally clear is just evidence that it really isn't based upon anything of substance.
Haha - good attitude. But my case is more serious than that - nobody actually called me anything - but they made me feel like a creep by the way they looked at me. I felt it in my heart for months....it seriously hurt.Enryu said:how can you have fun when you dont get called freak or weird or stupid at least twice a day?
Thanks man - that will be very helpful for me to keep in mind.ketostix said:As long as you're not a creep to all the people all the time, just being a creep to some of the people all the time is about par for the course .
Congratulations. I think this is a true inspiring success story. If you had Aspergers syndrom and are able to make cold approaches and have conversations -- wow - that's all I can say -- you got out of the psychological jail.MascaraSnake said:Dating I eased into slowly but surely (started to approach people online to sharpen my conversation skills), and I've almost mastered the cold approach now. Last month a girl I cold approached at a live show told me within a few minutes of talking to me that I came across as really confident and pleasant. A distinct improvement over what I got sophomore year, I can tell you that.
The only thing I still have trouble with is eye contact...it's a really hard thing to master and I still need tips on it from time to time.Luke Skywalker said:Congratulations. I think this is a true inspiring success story. If you had Aspergers syndrom and are able to make cold approaches and have conversations -- wow - that's all I can say -- you got out of the psychological jail.