What interest level keeps you interested?

What interest Level keeps you interested

  • Low. Give me the challenge, baby!

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Medium. Keeps her cards to her chest but throws you a line every now and then

    Votes: 16 51.6%
  • High. Whats the point in the persuit if shes an ice queen?

    Votes: 14 45.2%
  • Other, please explain in your post

    Votes: 1 3.2%

  • Total voters
    31

Jasmine

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Hi All,

Just wondering... What interest level keeps you interested? Please vote and post any comments you have. Do you like a challenge? Or do you back off if the IL is low?

Thanks!

Jas
 

thegamedontwait

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homesickness

This has actually got nothing to do with DJing, but I was wondering if anybody on this board has had experiences with homesickness while staying at another country for example.
I havent stayed at another place for over a week or so...Actually I havent left home for over a week in my whole life I guess. When I was away from home tho sometimes I experienced a feeling of homesickness and sometimes I didnt. Most of the time I did though. Is this common and does it change after a while?(cause that would be my guess) If so how long did it take for you to overcome homesickness or whatever u wanna call it?
I really wanna travel and see the world you know...and getting homesick might be a pretty big problem if I wanna do that.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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Won't give mer her phone number the first time i ask for it=next.

Wont kiss me at the end of the first date or second date at the most=next.
 

legolas

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Actually I wouldn't mind a good challenge as long as she plays it smart and gives me indications that I'm on the right path. A challenge combined with unpredicatibilty is quite a turn off.
 

SamePendo

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Im dumb, I want high interest, im not going to spend my valious time and brain cells (I do spend them trying to figure out why it gets darker-shinier with the daylight saving time, I havent figured it out yet!).. looking for interest signs. She has to send clear signs of interest. Clear, if not, she isnt interested enough.
 

Man2000

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I like it when they show high interest.

Except when it's wierd. One girl would call me these wierd names like "my dark master". I didn't judge her, and still hooked up. But, at first I almost walked away from it.

Since women give hints, rather than direct words, it's hard to decipher what they mean. But, this website is good for figuring out ********.
 

Kineti[C]harm

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Both the easy and the hard keeps me interested aslong as they are hot... I normally just do onenightstands so it's usually just going out to clubs then find a hottie and end in bed that evening... But at the same time I always have alot of stocks out and dates lined up. I don't care if they are hard or not, as long as they are good looking.
 

THA REALNESS

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High IL and girls that have high IL and play stupid.The ones that take it to the extreme also piss me off however.

I don't chase ***** and i don't think that playing hard to get is cute or erotic.
 

bp1974

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Nothing beats high IL in a chick you dig.

Yes, I belong in the sixties. I know.
 

Dark Nimbus

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High interest for LTR's is crucial, but low interest can be fun any other time if you like a challenge.
 

So pimp its scary

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Untill a short while ago, I was dating multiple women at the same time... then school got crazy on me.

Anyway, I had one project that was a COMPLETE challenge, like hall of fame type challenge (dumped the girl for no sex, and have been trying to get back with her... we went on one date, and I realized that she wasn't worth the effort anymore)

I like to have a couple girls that are like the teases, they are interested, but they make you work for it...

and a couple girls that were fairly high IL or better. These girls are still fairyl high IL, I just haven`t dated in a while due to school... and the lack of cash, but the girls don`t need to know that part :D.
 

PRMoon

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I gotta go medium, just because high is pretty much a lay up and and If I nail a girl and haven't spoken to her that much or don't know alot about her previously, then I typically don't call them or want to do anything with them afterwards. Medium is good becasue I like that element of shyness and unsureity that girls who could be interested put out. I love thinking of what could be going through their head like; "Where could this relationship go if I give in to him?" or "My friends told me he was trouble and he parties alot... but still he's got that suager about him that's just..." you get the picture. I like to get them thinking about it starting off small then having me be all they think about after I've built mysel up sufficiently.
 
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