blackhatter
Don Juan
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I know you've all seen posts almost EXACTLY like these, but bear with me here and just explain to me what's going on.
Dated my ex 2 years. I took several breaks with her (I couldn't remain loyal) and then towards the 1.5 year mark she took a break with me (she found another dude on vacation). At first I was like.. um what? And then I got my head straight and told her that it was fine and that I wouldn't mind a break.
Now, she found another dude but he was long distance, so of course she came running back to me. I didn't take her back.. actually boned a few of her friends. After 3 or 4 months, I made a habit of sleeping with her every night or so late night. Nothing too emotional, just sex and some joking around. I never asked her about this dude (I hate to be jealous infront of women), but she kept saying to me that she didn't have sex with him and just kissed him and swore on her life and her whole family.. eh I don't know how much I still trust it.
This has been going on for awhile now. I started getting my feelings back for the girl, but before I really got back into her I caught her texting the same exact guy. He was saying like "oh i'd come down if i could" and she replied "yeah i wish"
This didn't surprise me, but pissed me off a bit. She'd been pretty much ****ing me every night and was still talking to this dude (why?). The only thing I can think of is that this dude's dad is like president of mastercard or w/e (but we are both good looking).
Then to take it to another level, her birthday is coming up in a few weeks. She invited all her girl friends, but not me. No problem. I wasn't too happy about how much I spent taking her out last year anyways. BUT then I find out she asked this dude to come. Now wtf?
Is she just using me for the sex and hoping that this guy falls in love with her? Or is she just a giant slut and wants to get ****ed by everyone?
I know I should let her go, but it's just so convenient to have a sex slave every night and I do admit I still have some feelings vested in her. When shes around here (at school) I know she's only sleeping with me, but I'm not going to lie this talk of her with this past dude hurts and pisses me off.
What's going on?
Dated my ex 2 years. I took several breaks with her (I couldn't remain loyal) and then towards the 1.5 year mark she took a break with me (she found another dude on vacation). At first I was like.. um what? And then I got my head straight and told her that it was fine and that I wouldn't mind a break.
Now, she found another dude but he was long distance, so of course she came running back to me. I didn't take her back.. actually boned a few of her friends. After 3 or 4 months, I made a habit of sleeping with her every night or so late night. Nothing too emotional, just sex and some joking around. I never asked her about this dude (I hate to be jealous infront of women), but she kept saying to me that she didn't have sex with him and just kissed him and swore on her life and her whole family.. eh I don't know how much I still trust it.
This has been going on for awhile now. I started getting my feelings back for the girl, but before I really got back into her I caught her texting the same exact guy. He was saying like "oh i'd come down if i could" and she replied "yeah i wish"
This didn't surprise me, but pissed me off a bit. She'd been pretty much ****ing me every night and was still talking to this dude (why?). The only thing I can think of is that this dude's dad is like president of mastercard or w/e (but we are both good looking).
Then to take it to another level, her birthday is coming up in a few weeks. She invited all her girl friends, but not me. No problem. I wasn't too happy about how much I spent taking her out last year anyways. BUT then I find out she asked this dude to come. Now wtf?
Is she just using me for the sex and hoping that this guy falls in love with her? Or is she just a giant slut and wants to get ****ed by everyone?
I know I should let her go, but it's just so convenient to have a sex slave every night and I do admit I still have some feelings vested in her. When shes around here (at school) I know she's only sleeping with me, but I'm not going to lie this talk of her with this past dude hurts and pisses me off.
What's going on?