what if u lost ur girlfriend and ur friends?

[Jay-X]

what if ur girlfriend cheated on you with a friend of yours, makin' u lose all your friends?

 

[CharmaLeo]

The truth in life is that we are all replaceable and some things don't last forever.

Instead of being afraid to lose, embrace the nature of change and go after new friends and hos yourself.

The worst thing you can do is to remind yourself of a failed relationship and use that as an indicator of your value as a man.

 

[DJDamage]

Part of having the title "friend" is making sure that you have some respect and responsibility for the well being of another. If you disrespect someone and your actions end up hurting someone then you are not a friend. Friends should celebrate life with you and not bring you down.

I say good riddance. Kick the girl and the guy out of your life because its obviously they don't care about you and they have broken the trust that was established between the three of you.

 

[catch]

and besides, you, me..

we can make loads of friends, new, beter friends that we can trust and count on, and being a true up and coming DON JAUN, learning, reading the dj bible, attending boot camp, we can learn to be what we want to be..

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Sounds like she wasn't really your girlfriend and those guys were not truly your friends. Don't waste your time feeling sorry about yourself. Take a moment to think about you you you will do things differently next time and then go out and get a real girlfriend and some real friends. You're probably better off without the lot of them...

 

[Jay-X]

this has not happen, it's just my fear, 'cuz a friend of mine stole another friend of mine's girlfriend, then this other guy stole mine... now, i'm really scared that another one of my friends is going to steal my new girlfriend... what can i do to prevent this from happenin'?

 

[Trance]

WTF, how can you call them friends if you cant trust them?

My friends know that their girlfriends are like guys to me, and so is my girlfriend to my real friends.

 

[catch]

if you want to prevent this then ditch the people who go behind your back man.. an i would kick the crap out of a guy who did that to me!!

 

[Jay-X]

i'm very thankful for ur advice, but consider this:

1. i like my friends very much and i don't wanna lose'em
2. in italy, unfortunately, almost everybody is this way... it's a really common thing to steal someone else's girlfriend.

i know it's fùcked up (i can't even think of a friend's girlfriend in a sexual way, it just makes me sick), but what can i do?

 

[DjDreamer]

Originally posted by CharmaLeo
The truth in life is that we are all replaceable and some things don't last forever.

Instead of being afraid to lose, embrace the nature of change and go after new friends and hos yourself.

The worst thing you can do is to remind yourself of a failed relationship and use that as an indicator of your value as a man.

Well put.

 

[Ladiesssman]

Good point, CharmaLeo.