What if she looks like she's with someone?

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So I was at the gym today and there was a girl that seemed kinda older than me (early/mid twenties) and I'm 18 turning 19, but I did the whole eye contact thing with her whenever we were around each other, and she reciprocated. However, it seemed like she was with a guy, so I'm wondering what does a DJ do in that situation where it seems like a girl is interested in you and you're interested in her, but she might be there with someone? Haha I'm assuming she was interested because a female friend that I was there with also mentioned that she noticed the girl was "hardcore checking me out" too.
 

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Hi,

If its that hard to tell you make an approach and find out first hand. If shes interested you will get either a # or a date out of the interaction.

Fable said:
So I was at the gym today and there was a girl that seemed kinda older than me (early/mid twenties) and I'm 18 turning 19, but I did the whole eye contact thing with her whenever we were around each other, and she reciprocated. However, it seemed like she was with a guy, so I'm wondering what does a DJ do in that situation where it seems like a girl is interested in you and you're interested in her, but she might be there with someone? Haha I'm assuming she was interested because a female friend that I was there with also mentioned that she noticed the girl was "hardcore checking me out" too.
 

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Fable said:
So I was at the gym today and there was a girl that seemed kinda older than me (early/mid twenties) and I'm 18 turning 19, but I did the whole eye contact thing with her whenever we were around each other, and she reciprocated. However, it seemed like she was with a guy, so I'm wondering what does a DJ do in that situation where it seems like a girl is interested in you and you're interested in her, but she might be there with someone? Haha I'm assuming she was interested because a female friend that I was there with also mentioned that she noticed the girl was "hardcore checking me out" too.
Ever seen the movie "just friends" ? Anyway there's a scene in it in which Ryan Reynolds sees a girl checking him out at the ice rink. She's with another guy.
Basically he confronts her and C/F tells her she should be ashamed of herself checking him out in front of her boyfriend. A bit over the top but I think the right idea. She of course denies that the dude is her BF.
 

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jtlancer said:
Ever seen the movie "just friends" ? Anyway there's a scene in it in which Ryan Reynolds sees a girl checking him out at the ice rink. She's with another guy.
Basically he confronts her and C/F tells her she should be ashamed of herself checking him out in front of her boyfriend. A bit over the top but I think the right idea. She of course denies that the dude is her BF.
Haha. That's brilliant, I'll add it to the repertoire and see if I can get the balls to try it.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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lots of the other PUA -type forums (i dont recal any of this on Sosuave or in DJbible- correct me if im wrong) will have about approaching mixed 2-sets (a boy and girl)
same basic concepts...whatever context...
 

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CaptainJ said:
Haha. That's brilliant, I'll add it to the repertoire and see if I can get the balls to try it.
Haha agreed :p

btw this movie is pretty damn genius so far lmao
 

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yes... that movie hit a few things we see on here. "lunch dates are weak" etc.
 

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yes... that movie hit a few things we see on here. "lunch dates are weak" etc.
 
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