What if I'm a sensitive & feminine man?

[merlinthe]

Guys,
I get the whole "nice guys get rejected" thing, and so on.

Which doesn't change a fact, that I am a bit on the sensitive side (everyone around tells me that), and I am a bit feminine (wouldn't mind wearing pink if not for the society).

Which doesn't change a fact that I want to f... brains out of some girls.

Any advice anyone?

 

[ubercat]

...then even yr hand will cheat on u eventually.

k so assuming yr really not gay..use it to yr advantage... Pickup at gallery openings book clubs craft fairs etc. The ratio will b insane.

 

[Darth]

You simply need to change. Sensitive and feminine...what the hell are you talking about?

1. Be loving.
2. Be a MAN-that means a MASCULINE man.

 

[YawataNoKami]

Alpha fvcks , beta bucks.

 

[backbreaker]

I'm not the most masculine mother****cer on the face of the earth myself at least in the traditional sense.


It really all just comes down to if a girl is into you or not. If you're hot you're affectionate. If you're not hot you're a faggot lol.

 

[backbreaker]

I'm not the most masculine mother****cer on the face of the earth myself at least in the traditional sense.


It really all just comes down to if a girl is into you or not. If you're hot you're affectionate. If you're not hot you're a faggot lol.

 

[speed dawg]

Guys,
I get the whole "nice guys get rejected" thing, and so on.

Which doesn't change a fact, that I am a bit on the sensitive side (everyone around tells me that), and I am a bit feminine (wouldn't mind wearing pink if not for the society).

Which doesn't change a fact that I want to f... brains out of some girls.

Any advice anyone?

Get used to beating your meat.

 

[zekko]

Game comes in many forms. You still have to swallow the red pill and learn techniques, but you can accommodate your "sensitive" personality to make it work if you do it right.

Yeah, I mean many PUA gurus have said that they get mistaken for being gay frequently. Is it any more feminine to wear pink than it is to paint your fingernails black like Mystery did? MeHow comes off as completely feminine. I think there is probably a form of game where a guy might come in under the radar by the girl thinking he'd make a great gay friend type.

Guys here have been conditioned to have such narrow vision, I think they'd be surprised at some of the out of the box things that might actually work. They might not have the highest success rate, but in the right situation I think almost anything might work. However, since it doesn't sound like the OP is having any success, that suggests he isn't doing it right.

 

[Slickster]

One of my best friends (who passed away several years ago) was a sensitive and feminine man. A lot of people just assumed he was gay just based on his mannerisms etc. His chosen profession was to be a nurse.

Anyhow that guy did VERY well with the ladies. He wasn't even a good looking guy at all. I had many women actually tell me he was quite homely. However that guy could charm the pants off the chicks and he always had hot girlfriends.

He was able to combine his sensitive/feminine side with a very subtle rugged and masculine side. He did this perfectly. He knew all the methods and tricks for gaming women and knew when to show each side of his personality at the right times. It worked so well that women would go absolutely crazy for him. I had to talk several of his girlfriends off the ledge.

Point of this story is don't think you need to change your natural personality just to get chicks. Read the DJ Bible and learn. Incorporate the lessons you learn here and you will succeed.

 

[merlinthe]

Thanks for all the replies, everyone!

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Girls judge you on your opinion of yourself more than anything else.

It's all about frame control. Hold a strong frame around whoever you are, and stick to that, and you'll be fine. Never apologize for who you are.

Now, if your sensitivity is really you being AFRAID to express your true self, now that's something to work on.

Only YOU know the answer to that.

 

[mangotot]

You need to realise you are a fvcking wuss and give yourself a real kick up the backside.