What i see as the biggest challenge in day game

[Ricky]

I think the biggest challenge in daygame is closing quickly. You don't want to lose the opportunity if thats the only time you will see them, but you also want to build enough attraction and interest in the conversation that following up will be natural and the odds of going out with her are higher.

 

[Slowhandluke]

The biggest challenge in daygame is being the top 10% of guys. Being in the 10% of guys that women find attractive, and your day game will improve ;-P

 

[corrector]

Or, you might be made famous on a Tik Tok video of how some women complained that a creep approached them and that somehow finds itself to your workspace. That is a bigger challenge than closing. It's no longer "the worst she can say is no".

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Just give them your IG.

This Italian tourist was filming me (in Amsterdam) when I was waiting on my bicycle at the traffic light and I noticed and told her to send me the film through IG. She did and we hooked up after the weekend.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

The biggest challenge in daygame is being the top 10% of guys. Being in the 10% of guys that women find attractive

If you're day/night gaming then you can never be in the 10% you're talking about, here is why and please let me explain the reason:

The top 10% to the 1% of the guys don't have any time for day/night game, so you won't find them doing that at all.
They are too busy building themselves, their business and their future.

So if you day game or night game girls will intuitively know that you are definitely not one of the 10% >>> 1% club, but more one of the plebs desperate for pu$$y.

Now please don't get me wrong; I'm not saying gaming girls in the street is a bad thing. It's not and it does yield some result, especially in the field of personal development e.g. building your own confidence and being more comfortable talking to girls.. (and a few numbers/dates here and there too.), which is a very good thing. Every guy should at least have done it once or a few times in their life and experience it for that reason.
But if you are truly on your purpose you would not be doing that.

Like I said many times before here SS (and many other smarter guys before me):
Don't chase girls, chase your own excellence.

 

[SW15]

The biggest challenge in daygame is not closing. The biggest challenge in daygame is finding the right audience who will be open and receptive to an approach. Most women in outdoor venues (parks, paths, the street), indoor retail venues (grocery stores, malls, etc), or the gym are not open to being approach.

Many are some combination of AT LEAST ONE the following......

• wearing earbuds/headphones to discourage approaches
• already in some sort of relationship and not open to fielding mostly anyone's approach
• not interested in you specifically

This is why approaching in non-bar venues is often time consuming and unrewarding.

Being a top tier guy on looks will open up more women willing to field an approach.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

The biggest challenge in daygame is not closing. The biggest challenge in daygame is finding the right audience who will be open and receptive to an approach. Most women in outdoor venues (parks, paths, the street), indoor retail venues (grocery stores, malls, etc), or the gym are not open to being approach.

And how do you deal with that challenge?

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

I think the biggest challenge in daygame is closing quickly. You don't want to lose the opportunity if thats the only time you will see them, but you also want to build enough attraction and interest in the conversation that following up will be natural and the odds of going out with her are higher.

The biggest challenge in day game is finding a target that you consider attractive while you also have what she considers attractive.

When there is mutual attraction things come fast and smooth with minimal effort.

It's 90% preparation and 10% execution.

 

[Bingo-Player]

The best way to approach it is with

" hey I don't normally do this but I had to stop you because I like your outfit , hair , smile , fashion sense , shoes"

whatever ,

there's not much else she can say other than " thank you " but it breaks the ice and gives you an opportunity to move the conversation forward " what have you got on today " blah blah

Again if she's interested she will be enthusiastic and engage in conversation if she isn't she will be short and sweet

Your job as the male is to be calm and make her feel comfortable

 

[pipeman84]

The best way to approach it is with

" hey I don't normally do this but I had to stop you because I like your outfit , hair , smile , fashion sense , shoes"

whatever ,

there's not much else she can say other than " thank you " but it breaks the ice and gives you an opportunity to move the conversation forward " what have you got on today " blah blah

Again if she's interested she will be enthusiastic and engage in conversation if she isn't she will be short and sweet

Your job as the male is to be calm and make her feel comfortable

Why not start with: Hi, and then " what have you got on today " blah blah and skip that compliment?
If you vibe, then by the end of the conversation, if you feel so inclined, you can compliment her on something. If you don't vibe, for whatever reason, beginning the interaction with a compliment won't change it.
I feel that complimenting her right from the outset is making you look thirsty or manipulative. I don't see how that would benefit you, not with a sane girl anyway.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Why do you think its a challenge though? As someone who does not and has never found daygame challenging , I've mostly encountered 2 scenarios:

1) Running game on a chick working (mall/department store)
2) Running game on a chick whos just hanging out

In instance 1) I've had chats that lasted around 15-20 minutes before I closed, and multiple times where I exited the set early just to see her a 2nd and 3rd time before asking her number. Why? Just because I didn't feel any urgency (abundance/already having options helps).. Mostly though because I'm just a social person. Sometimes im jsut talking to a chick just to shoot the **** while I'm out shopping.. I'm not thinking about getting into her pants half the time unless shes got some outstanding qualities that arouse me. But also because not getting her contact is what creates desire and anticipation. She might feel like she'll never see me again, and when she does, they're usually surprised and happy. The rapport just becomes much stronger by the 2nd or 3rd time-- so when I actually hang out with them, panties drop pretty quick.

2) Second instance, I usually close within the first minute or two of chatting with her because I'm not trying to take much of her time or my own... I Just want to create interest and then anticipation before we meet again where I can do what I want to ... The rest is unstated . She knows why im gettin her number, and so do I.. -- Sometimes if they make it clear they got nothing to do , I'll turn it into an insta-date which routes back to my place.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Why not start with: Hi, and then " what have you got on today " blah blah and skip that compliment?
If you vibe, then by the end of the conversation, if you feel so inclined, you can compliment her on something. If you don't vibe, for whatever reason, beginning the interaction with a compliment won't change it.
I feel that complimenting her right from the outset is making you look thirsty or manipulative. I don't see how that would benefit you, not with a sane girl anyway.

Because you can't just stop a stranger on the street with absolutely zero context to it

If someone came up to me and was like " YO WHAT YOU GOT ON TODAY " I would be like WHAT THE FVCKK who is this lunatic

And its the same for women except for women are naturally paranoid asf so its even worse for them

You have to have some sort of context to talk to her compliments aren't thirsty or manipultative if they are sincere

Be genuinely interested in her and she will relax around you and open the door

Trust me ive tried charging up to women like a bull in a china shop being "direct" it rarely if ever pans out well , the walls go straight up and you get creepzoned

She needs a bit of time to build rapport with you , then you can be direct

 

[Dash Riprock]

Or, you might be made famous on a Tik Tok video of how some women complained that a creep approached them and that somehow finds itself to your workspace. That is a bigger challenge than closing. It's no longer "the worst she can say is no".

This is one of the main reasons guys don't do cold approach much anymore. Ending up on Tik Tok, getting screamed at, or humiliated as women seem to take pride in doing these days. Many dating coaches cite these reasons too.