1- be mysterious towards hbs
In some context being mysterious makes sense in others it's misunderstood and largely misapplied on this forum. I am open and sharing of myself more than I am a "mystery".
2- call 2-7 days after the first meeting
Doesn't matter that much. If you work on your rapport and attraction skills and get good enough at that then everything else will take care of itself and she'll be happy to hear from you WHENEVER you call. IMO anything beyond 4 days is just too long.
3-act ****y and funny
If C&F is part of you MO it's cool but it's not mandatory and many skilled guys hardly use it at all, including myself. If the girl is playing along it's fine, but otherwise it's lame and doesn't get you anywhere.
4-kino- touching non sexually
Agreed.
5-don't act like a fvcking wuss, be a MAN! and don't be a AFC
(this is what women want!)
Agreed.
6- Act confident and relax towards hbs
Agreed.
7- use neg. hit's -works only on hbs- 9's and 10's
If what gets posted here is the only seduction material you have ever read I can almost guarantee you have NO FRIGGIN CLUE what a neg hit is or how it is supposed to be used. If you don't understand MM and Mystery's ideas of social dynamics forget you ever learned about ANY notion of a neg hit and DON'T use it because you don't know what you are doing. If you want to learn what it really is all about and the method of the guy who originated the concept then read the Mystery archive over at fastseduction.com and read what he has to say about neg hits and try to understand it within the context of his overall game plan.
8-pickup lines don't work PERIOD!
Agreed.
9-just have fun with women
Agreed.
10-ask opened-end questions that doesn't answer a yes or a no
Early on in the interactions ask NO questions if possible. Make all statements. As the interaction goes on it's okay to ask some more questions and at that point I would say that open-ended questions are definitely good.
11-make statements in surrounding area's in the environment your in
If I understand this sentence correctly it sounds okay. As long as you don't look like you are talking to yourself. lol.
make compliments to women(not on there looks or body of hb's 8 and up)
Good idea, compliments degrade rapport unless delivered with confidence and sincerity and to the RIGHT TARGET (which you don't always know right away if she is). Good advice for most guys and I don't use many compliments myself. I do use SOI's though.
13-always smile and make eye contact with the women you want to flirt with
Good.
14-remember women are everywhere-bars, nightclubs, on the street, bookstores, coffee shop, at the gym, etc.
Absolutely.
15-always take that RISKS, RISKS with women
Yep.
16-use 3 second rule, don't hesitate or else you will regret it later on
3s is a good rule to get over fear of approaching with but as time goes on it's not something you have to always do.
17-Play hard to get with women
Be careful with this one. If you have strong rapport going you don't want to get her thinking you are really not into her. Girls don't always know you like them and sometimes they have to be convinced you really do or else they will think there is NO WAY you are REALLY into them. When done correctly though, playing hard to get can be good.
18-be direct with women when going for the fvck close to get the e-mail address and/or phone number
Never get an e-mail address, the phone is where you want to be for rapport. Other than that, good stuff.
19-making the first call-don't have long conversation with the hb, just plan on getting the date with her. ( The Place, time and when)
Disagree. This is only good advice for guys who are TERRIBLE on the phone and it doesn't help them to improve if they simply avoid it. Rebuild and strengthen rapport on the phone. If you have a hard time with this then work on your phone game.
Today I had a girl who I #closed last week call me who I left a message with while she was out of town. This was our first phone conversation ever. I could tell she wasn't a "phone girl" so it was a little harder than it normally is but I got her into an enjoyable free-flowing dialogue and I let HER set up a meeting for us tomorrow. Not that you HAVE to let her do it but THAT is how good you want to be.
20-don't act desperate, be more of a challenge with women
Being a challenge is fine as long as you don't misunderstand the idea. "Don't be desparate" is actually a more useful way to say it that is less likely to be misunderstood.
21-body language-getting the different signs to see if the hb is interested in you or not
I am not a big conscious reader of body language myself but I know guys who are and it can be useful. For me it's more an intuitive thing at this point but I have read a lot about it and am fairly field-experienced by now so maybe I am just subconsciously looking for all the things I already know about that were going by me in the past.
23-date more than one woman at a time
Don't "date" any women you are not sleeping with. Dating more than one woman at a time is good thing though, you are right.
24-always Practice, Practice from this game and learn from your mistakes
Best one of these you have given so far!!!
25- be a badboy, NOT a nice guy- acting like a jerk in a nice way,don't be a total jerk
I don't really come off as a badboy. Girls usually think I am more of a "sweetheart". Works for me.
26-don't be imtimidated or nervous around women
Agreed.
27-make a first impression
Yep.
