Semtex said:
Did that make you feel better about yourself? I do that from time to time, call people idiots and morons online when I need to blow off steam. Then I started getting laid and wouldnt you know it, I wasnt so easily wound up anymore.
People should get rid of the aggressive tones in their posts...OP's story was awesome, and he shouldnt have to stoop from his standards (asking for seperate bills) because some hispanic 'lady' was acting all uncouth like.
LMAO btw at her attempting to sell home made candles in the middle of your date. That should have been the signal for you to say..."I dont see anymore candle lit dinners in our future, Maria"...and just get up and walk away on that awesome note.
That would have been great to use about the candle light. This site used to have many cool guys on it. I appreciate you liked the story instead of calling me a moron.... which I do not see why I was labeled as such. I wanted to share a true story that these kind of WOMEN exist! I rarely come here for advice, but mostly to see what everyone is doing and to tell a few stories. The people calling me idiots are not out doing either and I would bet that I probably have more experience than they do.
I guess I am an idiot because I spent $10 on a pig at a LUNCH date, whereas a lot of guys could out spend that on drinks easy. So I accept sucker of the day.
As far as dating a woman with kids, I learned in my mid twenties it generally is not a good idea. Dating and getting them horizontal----TWO different things.
Besides, you cannot make my horrible lunch date up. It was worth the price of admission for the humor value.
squirrels said:
Some dates just fail. It's part of the game. There are people who just don't get it.
I've had people from the online scene that look NOTHING like their pics...i.e. using a pic from 7 years ago when they weren't 200#.
It's an ego-buster to have a date not work out, but it's really not something you should take personally.
In my case it was not an ego buster, it was a hard dose of reality that I was way out of here league. I generally go for the classy feminine type. I would be willing to bet the pics I saw were several years old too.
