What goes on in my head when picking up girls.

[Skyline]

Field report and after thoughts.

Happy New Years everyone, I have a lot of goals this year and I hope you guys do as well!

So why not start out with a small field report? I never really post field reports anymore simply because I've studied the DJ Bible to the point that I can be the Teacher and the Student... So here's how that works when I'm gaming a girl(s).

I spent the majority of my New Year's with my family so I didn't really have that much time to hit the life of the parties. As a last second type of thing, I went to one that died down at around midnight. There was a bunch of old friends so that was nice to catch up and kick back. Then there was the women.

There were four girls, 3 of which were taken or unavailable. I may have been a bit tipsy so some of these ratings might be skewed.

Girl1: HB:7, little bit taller than me, nice non-work out body, her hair was dyed black, and the only girl that wasn't glued to her 3-4 friends. I actually went to high-school with her and it was nice seeing her again. She was seeing this other guy that was there and there were actually super friendly and fun to be around. I ended up having a dance off with him and got the girl's snapchat and that was it. I would honestly talk to her again just because she didn't seem to have her head up her *ss.

Girl2: HB:6.5, really short(like 5'1 or something), really dark black hair, 100x eye liner, a lot of make up, was glued to her other 2-3 friends, something seemed odd with her don't know what, and red flags everywhere else. She seemed nice but...

I introduced myself and that was pretty much it with her.

Girl3: HB: 6.5, my height, thin long brown hair, brown eyes, decent figure(you could tell she doesn't work out but you would still bang type of figure), was really friendly.

So here's how I met this one. I was inside my friends room checking out his computer and she wandered in with me looking at his cat. She ended up grabbing the cat and before leaving I decided to stay and get some small talk in. Here's what I learned:

- Her name
- She has 4 cats
- She loves cats (Possibly red flag)
- Divorced - (Red Flag)
- Little female friends except the crazy looking Girl1 that she's known from middle school. - (Red flag)
- Wants to be a sound technician
- Had a pet snake that bit her
- Is moving and going to college out of state
- Has a little brother and he got a new puppy
- Listens to rap, some heavy metal, and possibly alternative.
- Lived in my state all her life
- Lives in "x" city
- Doesn't really like it here
- She met my buddies through her friend
- She knows a little sign language
- Played a little bit of guitar
- Saw Eminem live

Here's what she learned from me:

- My name
- Where I went to high school
- How long I've lived here
- If I have any pets
- How I met/known my buddies

Pretty sure that's it. I had a nice 70/30 thing going on. It first started out with me sitting down sort of far away to pet the cat but as I started talking to her I got closer and closer to the point I was directly in front of her. Yes, that's where I got some good kino in. She didn't seem to mind it so I kept escalating further and further... The friend that I came in with walked in and started playing guitar for us. I switched sides from in front of her to the side of her and told her to come closer... That's when I put my arm around her and pulled her in close but then her friend barged in and she lunged away. After a few minutes of my friend playing guitar I signal her to come back closer and she does. I re-escalate and the same result happens. This is where Nismo-4 randomly popped into my head saying: "She ain't interested, NEXT!" So with that note, I then had the intention of leaving for a bit and then coming back. Push and pull kind of thing since she was showing some-what interest. Another one of her friends then barged in again and that's when we all left.

Everyone was wrapping it up going to sleep and all that. I got tired and there weren't really any other viable options to talk to so I didn't really interact with her again after that before leaving. So I lost this one fellas!

Here's what I think happened:

- I showed too much interest. I WAS there talking to her for a while and I should have stopped after about 5 or so questions, walked around and talked to other people, and THEN came back to her. That would of made her mind run a little. Plus jealously factor with a divorced girl is like x5 more effective.

- She was talking to someone else. Every now and then she would browse her phone. This only happened twice though so it's highly unlikely but the possibility of her responding to orbiters is likely.

- Her friends c0ck-blocked me. We were interrupted twice by her friends and twice by my guitar playing friend, he was going in to get the guitar and going back in to put it back. At one point, she got up and used the bathroom for an unusual amount of time. She might of been texting her friends in the other room which lead to that 2nd interruption. Her friends were glued to each other so this possibility is actually practical.

Girl4: HB:7.5, around my height, thin long brown hair, looked around my age, nice physique for a girl who doesn't work out, and she basically looked like your normal 7-7.5 girl. See, if she had not opened her mouth I would have never known her weird twisted mind but here's what happened...

This girl was basically glued to my buddy. He's 6'1, handsome McGee, got a new BMW, every white girls dream basically. So I obviously picked up on that and gave them their space when everyone had left the living room and was just me and my other buddy. I grabbed some sh*tty champagne and left outside with my buddy. After about ten minutes my buddy walks back in and I follow along. He was saying he was getting tired and was telling the 6'1 guy that me and him were gonna leave. Then the girl opens her mouth, she basically started ordering him to go to bed and to not stay up. Then I blurt out to him: "You just let her boss you around like that?" in a joking manner and before he could reply she was just like: "Yes." with a cold stare to me to which I replied coldly and slowly: "That's cute" then her stare drifted to him. Then she continued. So I'm like sure okay maybe she's expecting him to "Take her." So I play along and I'm like: "Come on man, take her and go fvck her already." I was expecting her to be silent but she immediately coldly declared that "It was never gonna happen." So realizing the situation, I remained quiet and declared that she was crazy with her actions saying she wants him but her words saying she would never do that in a serious tone... I later on over hear her being a heavy drinker in all of high-school. All it takes is a few words/actions and you can literally crack her little code and I could tell she wasn't too fond of me for being so straight forward like that. So watch out guys, this girl was a 7 maybe 7.5 and she's already pulling some strings.

As for the crazy girl, I feel bad for my buddy but that's how it is. He's got looks, height, car, but chooses to waste all of those bonus' because of a sh*tty frame... The little short girl can go get taller or something- I don't really care about her. The girl that I was talking to can go eat a carrot or something- don't really care since I got some good banter and kino practice. The outcome with her may have been different if she wasn't glued to her friends and If I hadn't spent so much time talking with her all at once.

And Nismo-4 regardless of the reasons she wasn't interested so... NEXT!

 

[Tictac]

Your head is a bad neighborhood.

Stay out of it.

Over-thinking everything will do nothing but make you miserable.

 

[Skyline]

Your head is a bad neighborhood.

Stay out of it.

Over-thinking everything will do nothing but make you miserable.

Maybe it is.

It felt pretty natural when I was doing it and I only really point out my rights and wrongs after.

 

[Eternal_water]

What goes on in mine is "how come everyone can do this except me?"

 

[Skyline]

Frayzer, you may have seen me write this before on these here forums, but just for you, my friend....

The only thing you should be thinking when talking to a woman is

"She has no idea how hard she's going to be cvmming in 2 hours."

When I started talking to her the only thing I thought was :" I wanna hold you up against the wall in the bathroom and fvck you."

 

[Skyline]

you should not analyse bro. your prolly playing out the scenario's in your head. This is the danger of reading all the material. People get so sucked up into it, they actually forget that they need to be fun and laid back and not follow a sertan step by step system to get with a person.

may seem natural to you, but it creeps people the **** out when your this analysing machine who knows exactly what to do and say at the exact right time.

beeing a DJ is about going for what you want. WHEN YOU WANT. its not about following rules and steps and ****. seems to me like you're doing that: She showed intrest=wrap my arm around her.(she recjeted that the first time) why in the world do it a second time?

just my 2 cents. stop analyzing so much. if she shows intrest, shes interested. thats all there is 2 it, have fun with her instead of gaming her.

I analysis after. There was no way I was thinking this during or I think my head would explode.. Maybe I should rename the title of this thread... Can't really explain it but the only reason why I remember so much of our conversation and interaction is because I was genuinely trying to get to know her and get into her pants. I'm more of say/do something and face whatever happens next when it comes to women. She might of been drunk too but who knows.

The reason why I did a second attempt is because we were literally interrupted at the moment I tried the first time. I'll admit that I'm a bit hard headed as well as a lot of other stuff.