What gives?

Werman

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Ok... I recently became reacquainted with a girl that I knew when I was a kid and she was a much younger kid (toddler-preschooler... she's currently 25) because her parents lived next door. This of course occurred through facebook. We did the IM chat thing getting caught up on what each other had been up to all these years, and started to get really flirty, especially after I checked out her pics and saw pretty quickly that she was a 9. She also liked what she saw with my little portfolio.

She had a bf, but I got the vibe that she wasn't too happy with the guy, especially when I asked her to meet me for a drink after she got off work in the evening. She agreed, and the date went very well. A lot of great eye contact, kino, the works. She even told me that when she was in junior high and I was a senior (small town -- football players are mini-gods!) that she had a huge crush on me. A few days later, she called me and told me that she had ended everything with her bf.

I wasn't able to get anything together with her for a couple of weeks due to being busy around here, and she does live 2 hours away from me. I spoke with her about a week and half later and she was all excited about getting back together with her high school bf. Here's where it all gets weird. This guy is currently 21. They went out when she was 18 and he was 14. I figured, "Damn, he must be a frikkin adonis and have major game!" Wanting to see for myself, I tell her to meet up with me at a bar in her city to see a band. I tell her to bring him, figuring I can outgame a 21 year old any day. I also have another girl meet me there that I've been chatting up, figuring I can play them against each other.

I get to the bar and meet the guy. He is a full inch shorter than the 9 (She's about 5'9''.) And rail-thin. Not exceptionally good looking. This caused me to raise an eyebrow. I watched them quite a bit, he is a TOTAL AFC! He waits on her hand and foot, tells her how beautiful she is, basically all the classic AFC behaviors (except maybe poetry... I didn't hear any of that!) So I figure, maybe he's loaded. WRONG! She actually BRAGGED on him because he is so successful at his job at TARGET despite not having a college degree! Why, he has even been able to buy a pre-fab home and move it onto his parents' land! WOW!

You would think a girl as hot as this would have an eye on upgrading. Not this one! Not only was I getting nowhere fast with her, but other guys that were there that were better looking, better dressed, and probably had more game than me were also getting nowhere. She was completely, 100% into this chump.

So what gives? You guys ever encountered a situation like this? What kind of weird personality disorder does this chick have? Granted, I'm kind of glad I saw this unfold before me without getting involved, because if she wants her guy to be her manservant, I'll pass on that job.

By the way, the night wasn't a total loss. The girl I invited along to play against her turned out to be a lot more fun anyway. She is driving down to see me this weekend.
 

Radharc

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I cant really give an answer, but that reminds me of this chick i used to know, she was a 10, the kind all guys would talk about but most would be too intimidated to pursue, she was an art student, so i describe her kind of like a Indie-barbie type, lol, she also worked at a bar, so lots of guys hitting on her all the time. Anyways, she had this bf, a short guy, average looking, a very quiet guy who almost never talked to anyone and was not impressive in any department, he was a DJ (as in disc jockey, lol) but not a particular good one (as in, not famous or anything), she was really into this guy, the guy seemed to be insecure - from what i heard from ppl that knew him better - about being with her, so one day this chick makes a video for him, telling him how much she loves him and stuff like that and plays the video in the bar one night with the bar full of ppl - i wasnt there when it happened but thats what ppl described to me.

I was baffled, if you reversed the roles, and a guy did this even if the girl was kinda insecure it would probably send here running to hills in no time.
This still puzzles me to this day... maybe there some different chicks out there that actually play a different game. Or she has some mental condition, I dont know tbh, I would also like to hear some more experienced ppl here about situations like this...
 

SoylentGreen

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I have never encountered anything quite like this, but I'd guess he's:

(NOT in order of importance)
1. in there with her fam and friends
2. REALLY good in bed
3. shared something with her, like a meaningful secret, or knows one of hers
4. manipulated her mind; not unbelievable if he's known her since he was 14
5. got some quality her dad had, or that her dad lacked...
6. beats her and she secretly fears him
7. aware that she IS nuts.

I'd try to isolate her and then pour on the "Don Juan" STRONG. Get her into an intimate situation; kiss her, hold her hand, f#ck her, get her to open up to you. Run a pattern that you like to be friends with people that you can "tell anything to" etc.

I'm not a Master Don Juan by any means, but hopefully some of my ideas will give you a new outlook on the situation...
 
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