What exactly is "catering" to women?

[Hollowpoints]

What exactly is "catering" to women?

Is being able to interact with women "catering" to them?

Is getting married to a woman "catering" to her?

Is ANY thing that isn't a total rejection of women "catering" to them?

Isn't complaining about women constantly catering to them because you can't stop talking about them rather than be a man who isn't effected by any little perceived "slight" from a woman?

 

[thatfeel]

Lol. The act of catering is basically giving up your own standards, values, and beliefs to appease the wishes and requests of another. It's not really exclusive to interactions with women bruh.

 

[Hollowpoints]

Lol. The act of catering is basically giving up your own standards, values, and beliefs to appease the wishes and requests of another. It's not really exclusive to interactions with women bruh.

Then why do men with so-called standards date BPD women and low quality cheaters? Why do men with value need to buy women drinks to try and get sex? Shouldn't their value speak for itself? And if their beliefs are that women are always at fault yet they still bother with them their beliefs are only as strong as their pandering and catering to the poosey.

 

[Hollowpoints]

They have to do all of that because it's society's rules. If a man doesn't get the tab for a drink, he's a "cheap a$$" and people will look at you funny. We don't have to do sh!t, we choose to.
Catering is being submissive to women in order to win their approval, changing your opinion, and believing every lie that comes out of her mouth. Just have a backbone and do you. That's the way to be a man.

I PM'ed you once, if by some chance you havn't seen it I suggest you look.

So in other words everyone else who isn't "awake to reality" is "catering to women" if they buy them drinks but those "awake to reality" aren't catering buying women drinks its just because they want to.

It couldn't possibly have anything to do with us being angry and feeling entitled to the woman the "blue piller" is talking to and buying her drinks. Nah.

Who believes everything everyone tells them all the time? Do we determine every woman is lying and we should believe nothing because we've "awakened"?

Being submissive to women is also complaining about them every chance we get like a perpetual victim then deluding ourselves and attempting to brainwash everyone around us to have a support group hell bent on trying to not only "punish" women but drag other men down with us pretending to be happy and going our own way.

 

[thatfeel]

Do you grasp at straws just to spite people?

 

[Hollowpoints]

Do you grasp at straws just to spite people?

That's what MGTOW's do. I'm not a MGTOW.

It seems everyone who claims they've "awoken" and are "in the know" love to generalize and project every negative on everything else around them, feel entitled to whatever they want yet don't want to do anything for it or else they're "catering". Then they say everyone else who "hasn't awoken" is "catering" yet when they do the same things other dudes do they claim it's "just because they want to". Maybe those who are "asleep" are also doing what they want to. Therefore one cannot do the same thing everyone else does then project everyone else is "catering" and delude themselves that they aren't only because they rant about it.

Hypocrisy and self delusion is rife among these "awoken" circles. If one cannot self-reflect on their own negatives and issues one will never be able to see them in others and will repeat their cycle of "victimhood".

 

[stevo]

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Mauser96 again.

 

[Hollowpoints]

It is when you own a catering business and are hired to serve food and drink at a women's function.

I thought you didn't go near drinks anymore.

 

[zinc4]

Example.....a girl you have recently been seeing wants you to stop drinking and demands it but you aren't ready NIR really want to, but succumb to please her.

 

[RangerMIke]

Simple.... but yourself first... her second. Catering to her means your needs take a back seat. Not only is that not fair to you, but women do not find this attractive in a man.

 

[Hollowpoints]

Simple.... but yourself first... her second. Catering to her means your needs take a back seat. Not only is that not fair to you, but women do not find this attractive in a man.

There is a balance needed in a relationship. 50/50. If you need someone to obey your every command while you put all your needs first you wont respect them. They will be nothing more than a hand puppet.

 

[Serenity]

Ultimate solution: can you have fun with a particular gir? Can this particular girl have fun with you as well? If both questions are yes, then it's a go. If one or both questions yields a no, then drop her immediately.

All other reasoning falls below this. Even if buying her a car is fun, doesn't matter if those two conditions are met. If for whatever reason it's not fun, her cheating, drama, money issues or whatever then conditions aren't met, if they cannot be restored and upheld, drop her.

 

[Between_The_Lines]

There is a balance needed in a relationship. 50/50. If you need someone to obey your every command while you put all your needs first you wont respect them. They will be nothing more than a hand puppet.

If the guy in the relationship has tight choreplay game in tandem with a smoldering dad bod, any power imbalance(s) become immaterial.