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Poor mental health. Doubt, worry, and insecurity. Yet I continue to put myself out there to date, go to school, and work. I think I deserve some credit
Insecure and worried about what?

I think we are in weird times, every girl overconfident and men worried
 

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Insecure and worried about what?

I think we are in weird times, every girl overconfident and men worried
Insecure and worried about how I come across, if things will work out, how to handle situations, things like that...
 

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And me not kissing her in the restaurant was weird to me. In retrospect, I would have done it. There was definitely sexual tension and I think that's what prompted her. And I fvcking dissipated it. WHY?!?!?
 

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OP, you really need to learn how to forgive yourself. So you messed up with the pda thing. So what? You’re allowed. Next time you’ll be a little more aware and will try something different.

Life is about trying things, learning from the results, and making corrections.

When a baby is learning to walk and it falls on its ass hundreds of times, does it sit around and wail, “Why isn’t this working? Why didn’t I do it right this time? What’s wrong with me?”

No, it just keeps on relentlessly trying till it happens.

Forgive yourself, dude. Success is built upon many so-called “failures”. A “failed”attempt at something does not make one a failure. It’s nothing more than feedback in order to adjust your next try.

It’s the guys who are too afraid to even try who have something to worry about.
 

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She called me today and said she wanted be friends. Yet she wanted to express affection in a restaurant two days ago. What is going on here?
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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She is not attracted to you. Get over it like all of us do. Not every woman is going to be attracted.

A lot of people try to help you here with advice and you have absolutely no appreciation for it.

I'm a moderator so I saw your answer to me that you deleted. Your biggest problem, like most guys who come here and complain relentlessly, is that you are so self-centered that you can't see beyond yourself and you can't have gratitude for those who have been giving you their time and advice.
 

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She is not attracted to you. Get over it like all of us do. Not every woman is going to be attracted.

A lot of people try to help you here with advice and you have absolutely no appreciation for it.

I'm a moderator so I saw your answer to me that you deleted. Your biggest problem, like most guys who come here and complain relentlessly, is that you are so self-centered that you can't see beyond yourself and you can't have gratitude for those who have been giving you their time and advice.
But she was attracted the other day?
 

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I just keep checking this site over and over to see if I have more replies cause I have no friends
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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