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luber873

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What does she's "scared of pushing me away?" mean in non-female lingo? She caused a bunch of drama the other night, fought, discussed, and everything seems fine again. She mentioned this after talking about how dramatic she gets.
 

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She might suffer from anxiety. If so, I'd be patient but not supplicating. So if she demonstrates ****ty behavior like the other night, don't let it go - withdraw your attention a bit, don't contact her or initiate plans for a couple days, etc - but give her maybe a couple more strikes than the average girl.
 

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If it's about the chick that brought you here, best move on, she sounds like a drama queen.
 

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luber873 said:
What does she's "scared of pushing me away?" mean in non-female lingo? She caused a bunch of drama the other night, fought, discussed, and everything seems fine again. She mentioned this after talking about how dramatic she gets.
I'd translate that to she is DRAMA. She senses you don't care for it and worries that eventually you will have enough of her schitt and pull the rug out from under her.

NEWS FLASH BIATCH..........how about straightening up your act and you won't have to worry??? Ooops there I go thinking like a man. Rational logic is just too simple and a lot less dramatic.

Go ahead and define your expectations on how the relationship will operate. Set the bar high. IF she rises to the occasion, keep her. If not toss her to the side because she cares more about herself than she does you.
 
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