So I went out on a few dates with a girl about 2 years ago. She is late-30s now. We had great fun and had some great chemistry. On about our 4th date we were going to have sex but it was 5AM and we were exhausted and both fell asleep after a little foreplay. Next morning she had to go to work. She called me the next night and wanted to get together that night but I had another date and I couldn't. I didn't tell her this but she figured it out and called me a "liar."
So we texted back and forth for a couple more months, I told her about all the women I was screwing and she called me a womanizer but in a funny way. She still has nicknames for me, "Ladies Man," etc. One night she invited me to her friend's band's show and I went but I skipped out after 15 minutes to go screw another girl who had texted me.
So then about a year ago she found a long term boyfriend and has been taking him to visit her family in Canada, etc. He seems like a "keeper." However, every few months she emails me and suggests we get together, but I usually tell her I don't hang out with chicks unless I'm screwing them or I tell her we can hang but if a real date comes along I'm going to cancel on her. She never follows through and disappears for a few months until the cycle repeats.
So then I got this email today:
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Hey Pookie! So what's shaking? You still in [city]? Work? Women?
Fill me in, I'm terminally bored over here and taking a break.
Would it be weird if we shared a glass and caught up sometime, seeing as I'm involved now and all? Well, we don't have to actually share one, I'd let you have your own.
Mae
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I realize this isn't much to go on but any initial ideas as to what she wants? She's got a billion friends, I don't know why she wants to hang out with me.
I'm treating it as a "I'm bored with my Mr. Right and need some sexy excitement," but I'm not sure about that. Ideas? I responded back with a short msg saying basically, "Sure, love to get together. Let me know when you're free." In the past I'd usually put together some long diatribe about not hanging out with chicks I'm not screwing, but this time I treated it differently.
Thx
So we texted back and forth for a couple more months, I told her about all the women I was screwing and she called me a womanizer but in a funny way. She still has nicknames for me, "Ladies Man," etc. One night she invited me to her friend's band's show and I went but I skipped out after 15 minutes to go screw another girl who had texted me.
So then about a year ago she found a long term boyfriend and has been taking him to visit her family in Canada, etc. He seems like a "keeper." However, every few months she emails me and suggests we get together, but I usually tell her I don't hang out with chicks unless I'm screwing them or I tell her we can hang but if a real date comes along I'm going to cancel on her. She never follows through and disappears for a few months until the cycle repeats.
So then I got this email today:
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Hey Pookie! So what's shaking? You still in [city]? Work? Women?
Fill me in, I'm terminally bored over here and taking a break.
Would it be weird if we shared a glass and caught up sometime, seeing as I'm involved now and all? Well, we don't have to actually share one, I'd let you have your own.
Mae
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I realize this isn't much to go on but any initial ideas as to what she wants? She's got a billion friends, I don't know why she wants to hang out with me.
I'm treating it as a "I'm bored with my Mr. Right and need some sexy excitement," but I'm not sure about that. Ideas? I responded back with a short msg saying basically, "Sure, love to get together. Let me know when you're free." In the past I'd usually put together some long diatribe about not hanging out with chicks I'm not screwing, but this time I treated it differently.
Thx
