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what does she mean?

Tails

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lol. easy rambo. i just meant i was flirting in a C+F kinda way way. i didn't mean to say it was funny.
 

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I didn't read whole posts but as far as i see from the first and very last messages, she has all the strings and you are the cute boy that has a crush on her.

major major mistakes: first thing first why in gods name did you show up at that candy place.
From starters, you were the cute boy that had a crush on her, nothing dangerous, a cute ball of thread for the kitty(I dont know the english but you know what I am talking about kitty and thread)
then you post here and apparently someone wise tells you to shut the fyck up. So you do that, good job. but you gotta keep the goodwork.

later on, the kitty gets curious. That cute puppet aint plaing with her strings anymore. This is a good thing.. so she sends you an ultimatom that requires you to see her highnessat 4 next day.
You not only obey her higness like a loyal puppy,shaking his tail, but you also you show up an hour early.

here is another thing: YOU DONT OFFER YOUR NUMBER TO SOMEONE THAT DOES NOT GIVE YOU HIS/HER NUMBER.That should be crsytal clear.No ifs no buts..

The unfortunate thing is that you still think that you did not sound desperate. Read what you write bro and analyze! Try to see what happened from her eyes. Were you c +f as you mentioned or did you think that you were etc...

If you still want this gal, well, at whis point i would recommend yuo to totally ignore her and have your fun with othr gals... The only thing that might make her interested in you might be jealousy, although i suspect if it will work..

Good experience though and still a job well done.. It shows that you have the balls to confront a gal. You went up and talked to the gal and tried your best, believe me , that is 90% of the whole deal, the rest comes with practice. Shytloads of guys cannot overcome tat step

good luck and have a good day
 

Tails

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*new*,

thanks for the post...

first of all, why did i show up? because my bus stop is like 5 meters away from where she works. it's a small mini store that is inside the bus station. i couldn't possibly of ignored her could i? she was right there. so i thought, what the hell, i'll say hi... how can that be harmful? i don't do what girls tell me to do, trust me. i just wanted to say hi, big deal. i wasn't gonna be a stuck up person and just pretend she wasn't there. i was also early because school finished early today. if she wasn't there, i would of went home, i wouldn't of waited until after 4pm (that was the actual time she said she would be there) but she was there earlier.

second, about the giving my number out. you might be right, but why is it such a bad thing? if she wants she can call, i don't care. i'm not chasing no more. i'm looking into other girls now and she can call or not. she knows i am interested.
 

Tails

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UPDATE:

i'm always on MSN because i have friends on there that i chat with, and because this girl leaves messages for me sometimes. not so long ago she messaged me with this:

her: heya please dont take me not giving my number to you the wrong way i just dont really like giving my number out (especially to guys) so sorry if i offended you in anyway

me: no, that's fine. i understand :)

me: don't be sorry.

me: just pretend i'm female ;)

her: haha thats a bit hard to do lol

me: hey, im a little busy at the moment, damn homework. so we'll talk later or something alright?

her: okie i mite come on a bit later

me: cool. well i might talk to you then. take it easy :)

her: cyaa


and she went offline. so she just came online just to tell me that? what's the deal eh? if she didn't care about me why would she go online just to tell me that. hmmm!

i hope i didn't give her a cold shoulder just then. i think i may of done wrong with the "no, that's fine. i understand." maybe i should i said something like: "don't be sorry about that, just be sorry that you didn't give your number to the right guy ;) "

? lol.
 

AMF

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lol

Originally posted by Tails
me: mmm what's that smell? smells nice.
her: its just all the candy everywhere.
me: or maybe it's you:)
her: phew, safe. a teddy bear.
 

JSH

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alright, one rule that i treat as a rule is dont give anyone my number who wont give me theirs.
 

Tails

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why? i don't get it. it can't be harmful can it? anyway, i don't give a fuk anymore, i'm almost about nexting this girl. wasting my time. fuking with my head. WOMEN!
 
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