What does it mean when she cries during sex?

[Glassguy]

She randomly breaks out into tears during sex and won't tell you why.

It means run as fast as possible or continue to fvck her as a plate and make sure the condoms are tight.

I experienced this with 2 different chicks. One I found out was married (afterwards). She said she had been fantasizing about fvcking me but felt guilty for some reason between her sucking my cvck and then riding me.

The other was madly in love with me and she ended up being a fvcking train wreck too. She is still out there searching for something that doesnt exist.

Run. Run. Run.

Smash and dash at best.

 

[dude99]

She randomly breaks out into tears during sex and won't tell you why.

Crazy. Bat S#!t crazy.

 

[ChangePages]

When I had sex with my ex and she cried it was weird the first time but now that we are apart it makes sense

She knew from the beginning we wouldn't last

Then ignoring red flags saying "You deserve better" ect. She only did this during the beginning but not in the end, she ended up with someone she wanted in the end

When girls cry don't take it as good news, it's not good even if the sex is good, my ex knew she was damaged with bpd and the way I treated her was wayyy different than any other guy she dated so when she cried she knew I would be another target. Deep sh*t but she made up in her mind I wasn't the one

 

[Glassguy]

Here is another option El Payaso:

Start pulling away and when she asks what is wrong (and we both know she will), tell her the crying is making you uncomfortable. See if she gives you an explanation and go from there.

If she doesnt, next her arse.

 

[The Duke]

El Payaso- how about elaborating on this relationship. We need to get inside of her head for an accurate Sosuave psychological evaluation. Your life might be in danger.

 

[sazc]

She tried to pull you into her frame, you should definitely next her. Is that better?

Here is another option El Payaso:

Start pulling away and when she asks what is wrong (and we both know she will), tell her the crying is making you uncomfortable. See if she gives you an explanation and go from there.

If she doesnt, next her arse.

This is definitely one way to handle the situation. The risk with this approach is, if you create emotional distance, she may take it as a sign that you don't care, and distance herself.
The approach you take should depend on what she means to you.

 

[Glassguy]

As men we try to avoid the women who have emotional messes.

This one is not making him wait around for the standard 3-6 months to see some of her issues. She is doing it right in front of him.

Of course pulling away is the only way to go. He has asked her whats up with the crying and she wont answer him. Fvcking abort!

 

[devilkingx2]

that you should use more lube

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Could you elaborate on both?

Positive: so happy you got the lay that you cry tears of joy
Negative: pepper spray hurts like a mofo

 

[devilkingx2]

real talk you should definitely figure out if it's positive or negative, that's all that really matters either way, her life story is just flavor text

if it's a good thing(overwhelmed with joy, love, orgasmed really hard, etc.), then you don't need to worry too much about the details

if it's a bad thing(PTSD from past abuse, guilt from cheating on you or cheating with you, some other screwed up mental issue, etc. )... that's a problem, you may need to worry about the details a bit here.

 

[sazc]

This true....Happy or sad, not a good sign that she's crying at you instead of using her big girl words ...

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

This true....Happy or sad, not a good sign that she's crying at you instead of using her big girl words ...

Which means he is having an emotional impact on her. That IS a good thing.

 

[Dr.Suave]

"It means run as fast as possible"

I agree with this. This particular plate sounds like bad news.

 

[sazc]

Which means he is having an emotional impact on her. That IS a good thing.

She's def unstable/emotional about something our she is trying to manipulate you into having a conversation. This is someone who doesnt know how to communicate well. It's difficult to be in any kind of a relationship with someone who doesnt know how to communicate.

 

[bigneil]

It means her as-shOle needs more Vaseline.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

She's def unstable/emotional about something our she is trying to manipulate you into having a conversation. This is someone who doesnt know how to communicate well. It's difficult to be in any kind of a relationship with someone who doesnt know how to communicate.

I see your point and of course it is true, but the fact is how many people actually communicate? Most don't because they feel like they'll either be judged no matter how open the other person is. That takes a long time, which most people don't have. Plus, if she's having sex with you she wouldn't want to risk losing you (not at that moment anyway) so she wouldn't tell you something that would make you repulsed by her.

 

[9Volt]

Perhaps she cried because she not only was petrified of clowns as a kid but also realized she was being fvcked by the clown from IT.

 

[El Payaso]

Perhaps she cried because she not only was petrified of clowns as a kid but also realized she was being fvcked by the clown from IT.

LOL. Thanks for the chuckle.

 

[Serenity]

As mentioned, could be good or could be bad. In either case the feeling is overwhelming.

To know which one it is just stop and wait. If she begs you to keep going or asks why you stopped as if you shouldn't have, you can be sure it's overwhelmingly good. If she seems apathetic, unresponsive or you're too much in doubt it's probably best not to continue.