What does it mean when a girl tells you she just broke up with ex-fiance?

[gimmeyofonenumba]

I met a girl the other night and called her today, and talked a bit and set something up. At one point in the convo, she told me how she had just broke up with her ex-fiance, and later reffered to him as her fiance later on but corrected heself. I didnt bring up any convo about the dude, im just curious, what does a girl want you to understand when she says that? does that mean she wants to take things slow, another ltr? or does she want a quick fvck?

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

bump

 

[WesCottII]

When she says she broke up with her fiance, read that she's broke up with her fiance. Simple. Keep gaming as you would normally.

We'd go mad if we tried to analyse everything.

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

roger that. I just thought i remember reading some kinda game chicks play when they mentions previous relationships.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

When she says she broke up with her fiance, read that she's broke up with her fiance. Simple. Keep gaming as you would normally.

We'd go mad if we tried to analyse everything.

you have to pay attention as a seducer though. You cannot just follow your own gameplan come hell or highwater. Coming out of a relationship can mean nothing, but it can also allude to multiple things. Maybe she was the one who got cheated on or something and she feels insecure. Then as a seducer you make her feel secure. Maybe she was caged and controlled in her relationship... you offer her freedom now. Maybe the guy never committed full to her... then you offer her the illusion of commitment for the time being. etc etc.

The point is you cannot be an autonomous seducer. You would treat women the same if you know nothing about any of them, but once you have personal facts and beliefs, you'd be a fool to ignore them....

 

[WesCottII]

you have to pay attention as a seducer though. You cannot just follow your own gameplan come hell or highwater. Coming out of a relationship can mean nothing, but it can also allude to multiple things. Maybe she was the one who got cheated on or something and she feels insecure. Then as a seducer you make her feel secure. Maybe she was caged and controlled in her relationship... you offer her freedom now. Maybe the guy never committed full to her... then you offer her the illusion of commitment for the time being. etc etc.

The point is you cannot be an autonomous seducer. You would treat women the same if you know nothing about any of them, but once you have personal facts and beliefs, you'd be a fool to ignore them....

I see your point, but generally, my seductions DO follow a set pattern. I make her laugh, we have a brilliant time in each others company, and she wants to see me again if she wants more of the same.

I'm not interested in her history, I'm interested in the here and now, and I'd rather have a f*cking great time with her, rather than winkle information out of her (which I don't want to hear, nor care about), regarding her Ex, only to have her (perhaps) moan about all her problems with him.

Do I want to be her shoulder to cry on? Nah.

 

[drmeathead]

when chicks talk about there ex pretend they arent even speaking...

 

[lildevil]

when chicks talk about there ex pretend they arent even speaking...

But how do you go on to something else(topic) and don't make it seem try hard or seem like a normal conversation after that

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I met a girl the other night and called her today, and talked a bit and set something up. At one point in the convo, she told me how she had just broke up with her ex-fiance, and later reffered to him as her fiance later on but corrected heself....

:woo: "Danger Will Robinson, Danger!!!" :woo:

 

[drmeathead]

just start talking about anything else...it doesnt have to be a smooth transition. talk about whatever you feel like