What does gentle mean?

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After my self esteem was boosted by about 250%, I came to 'realize who I was' and became a lot more confident, outgoing, and talkative around people. I also enjoy the process of getting more female friends and using them as a leverage to know more girls. Although people frequently complement me about my good looks, I've never been in a relationship or been exactly successful with girls- comes to show how truly important don juan skills are.
I have a new question here. Several girls who know me better have told me that I need to be more gentle. "Girls like gentle guys," they say. Based on their impression, I'm the type of guy who can accidentally break anything I touch, including the female arm that I take when I get myself a dance partner. They say that I am 'macho', and believe that even if I try to be gentle, I'd still be unable to be that way.
I honestly have trouble comprehending this. I mean, people's told me this a while back and I think I'm changing myself into something a little more...careful, but... I don't know. I'm really confused here. Someone help me out?
 

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What I define as gentle is opening a door for a woman, pull out her cher when you out for diner, walking at the outside of a sidewalk, opening her car door, etc..

But I wouldn't change for what girls say, they only gonna turn you into a wuss..
 

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They say they want gentle guys, but who ends up in bed with them? ;)
What woman say, want, think and do are 4 different things.
 

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Gentle doesn't mean you are a pu$$y. It more runs the line of holding her properly, not moving too fast (smoothness), things like that.

Not the, I'll barely touch your hand and I'll hold you like I don't have any muscles gentle :crackup:
 

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Docs said:
Gentle doesn't mean you are a pu$$y. It more runs the line of holding her properly, not moving too fast (smoothness), things like that.

Not the, I'll barely touch your hand and I'll hold you like I don't have any muscles gentle :crackup:
seems like that's what theyre talking about? :confused:
i don't understand women anymore. just because someone has some extra pounds of muscle doesnt make him ungentle okay?? goddamnit, i feel like punching a wall... can they be any more vague?
 
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