Stackthestyles
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Spare me the AFC/DJ conundrum, this is hypothetical.
Well I grew up from the mindset that people are best at doing what they know.
aPUA's want to be the BEST at picking up women, because it's the competition of life. So they read and read and practice, and test, and ponder, and get better over time. Some are AFC's at heart, and kick themselves for how 'slowly' they are improving, regardless of the fact that theyARE improving
aDJ's I hazard to say practice to be better men. They know their role, and do what they think is best. Those that continue to read, are looking how to be their best, better and faster... could be a bad thing, but whatever, that's not whant I'm asking.
AFC's... I was once an AFC, and in many ways, I still am. I am was a complacent AFC as well. I did what I thought had to be done, because I thought it would make me a man. I listened to the bible, and I tried to break no sins, I could have gone places if I didn't say "screw that sh!t" at the age of fourteen to begin my life anew to start making friends. I've been steadily progressing since then... not much success on finding "great friends" I've made friends who I can mature with, who will change along side of me. I've made friends who are painful to be around, but I know that it is only a stressful pain, not damaging or toxic so I'll learn things from them slowly. I have friends I can look up to, but we don't REALLY connect, because our styles clash...
So, 14 years of AFCdom, 8 years of homogenizing(becoming like other people), and I found this site. Completely changed my perspectives on things. I get new feelings, think of new ideas, and am more upbeat now than I ever was about making more out of my life....
I'm still reeling in pain from my old life though. I still have old habits, I don't even realize them. People tell me these things, and last year, I denied them, now I realize they are true... this week only.
Does anybody have any clue what an AFC practices?
I am an AFC, can you say anything specifically about me?
(Don't tell me to get a life, I visit Sosuave in my spare time)
Well I grew up from the mindset that people are best at doing what they know.
aPUA's want to be the BEST at picking up women, because it's the competition of life. So they read and read and practice, and test, and ponder, and get better over time. Some are AFC's at heart, and kick themselves for how 'slowly' they are improving, regardless of the fact that theyARE improving
aDJ's I hazard to say practice to be better men. They know their role, and do what they think is best. Those that continue to read, are looking how to be their best, better and faster... could be a bad thing, but whatever, that's not whant I'm asking.
AFC's... I was once an AFC, and in many ways, I still am. I am was a complacent AFC as well. I did what I thought had to be done, because I thought it would make me a man. I listened to the bible, and I tried to break no sins, I could have gone places if I didn't say "screw that sh!t" at the age of fourteen to begin my life anew to start making friends. I've been steadily progressing since then... not much success on finding "great friends" I've made friends who I can mature with, who will change along side of me. I've made friends who are painful to be around, but I know that it is only a stressful pain, not damaging or toxic so I'll learn things from them slowly. I have friends I can look up to, but we don't REALLY connect, because our styles clash...
So, 14 years of AFCdom, 8 years of homogenizing(becoming like other people), and I found this site. Completely changed my perspectives on things. I get new feelings, think of new ideas, and am more upbeat now than I ever was about making more out of my life....
I'm still reeling in pain from my old life though. I still have old habits, I don't even realize them. People tell me these things, and last year, I denied them, now I realize they are true... this week only.
Does anybody have any clue what an AFC practices?
I am an AFC, can you say anything specifically about me?
(Don't tell me to get a life, I visit Sosuave in my spare time)