What do you want to read on this forum?

[needimprovement250]

Who the fvck are you following that is poisoning your mind with this horse $hit?

It is literally impossible to be worse. If you have ZERO puzzy by now, the moment that you get the FIRST one, it literally became easier. Stop following the incels in this forum

It is totally possible to be worse, being an inexperienced guy in your 40’s is worse than being one in your 30’s and being one in your 20’s isn’t as bad as being one in your 30’s.

 

[needimprovement250]

The way to overcome this is by getting more experience and seeing failure not as something terrible but as your best teacher of you are willing to learn from it.

Yeah I do agree with that. I’ve been thinking for awhile now that I should work with a guy who can help adult men with no dating experience get out there for the first time and learn what they need to know from any success or failure. There are a few of these guys and they aren’t that expensive to hire them.

 

[BPH]

Let's try to keep this post on-topic.

Individual advice could be saved for individual threads and questions. The purpose of this post is to get answers from the members who may be less active or lurking, and what information they're hoping to find here.

 

[BadBoy89]

This forum has several active members, but this question is more for the newer, less experienced guys lurking around trying to improve with women and don't know where to start.

So what do you want to read?

New guys want to read how women think and what they are doing wrong.

All other guys want to read how bad and entitled women are.

 

[Solomon]

I remember a year or two ago mentioning field reports and members jumped down my throat for suggesting it
The forum has been reduced to incels complaining, lame LMS theory tropes that don't focus on the art of seduction i.e. gaming situation, how to game women with verbal skills, etc.

It be nice to get into the how to win part again instead of just all is gloom and doom for average guys when ultimately real game trumps all

 

[characternote]

It be nice to get into the how to win part again

hit the gym
hit on way more girls
make more money

 

[Mr Wright]

I feel like this forum needs more positivity from guys who have been there and done it.

At the moment it feels like an echo chamber about how awful women are and how they will all divorce grape you. I can safely say that the number of women I've encountered that are truly terrible people is really low. Women are generally sweet and nice providing you are the kind of guy they want. If you're not the kind of guy they want, it can weigh you down but this forum should be the place that teaches how to become that but it seems guys have given up and would just complain rather than do the work.

This place genuinely sucks your vibe and I remember why I left, it was literally because my mindset was getting too negative. I went away and had a cool life, popped back and just remembered why I left. It's verging on toxic here, I can't see how a guy would come on these forums and genuinely improve their situation. Where are the high quality posts on what to do with a certain sticking point? Where are the sticked posts on these top standalone posts that can help you improve your situation on a given topic. Imagine if there was a post with the top 10 beginner sticking points with post after post about what certain high level guys did to beat those things.

Something like (hastily put together)

1. Fear of approaching
2. Not sure what to say in a given situation
3. How to get into a good vibe
4. How to escalate physically
5. How to get a girl back to your place
6. How to bang well
7. How to keep a girl you like around
8. How to spin plates
9. How to attain a rock solid mindset
10. How to find a girl who lets you bang other girls

The Hall of Excellence is a starting point but it's off the main forum with no link to it and there's no structure to it, it's sporadic posts and still requires guys to piece it all together which is difficult if you're starting out. Then you go on the main forum and it's posts about how women are terrible which is low hanging fruit and easier to engage with because all the guys who are struggling can relate to it. Guys come here for answers and I don't think they're getting them.