What do you think?

[BxPrince24]

Well yesterday I met one of my female friend's close friends. She's very hot and my female friend knows that I think her friend's hot, I'll call her C. So I was at a 2 day conference with her and the rest of my group in our division. So C was always hanging around this guy, I didn't know what their situation was.

Anyways I go up to her during the meeting and I introduced myself, asked her for her name, and her current stats in the company (Now that I think of it I could have thrown in some C&F in there). It was very loud with ppl cheering, etc... I kept making a lot of eye contact with her, smiled, and winked at her. I learned that she's into alot of the things I'm into, types of music, certain movies, etc... But she was still always hanging around that guy. The guy was very interested in my art work and we started talking, he already has a girlfriend and C knows, so they seem to be just good friends.

I didn't get to initiate a lot of kino with her, but I just decided to not give a damn about her. I went out, if I saw her I'd have a quick convo, then I'd go somewhere else. We were leaving today and we started talking about movies, etc... again. So I asked her for her number and she gave it to me.

Now she's not really the type of girl I'd go after (she's into that whole gangsta crap), but she's hot and we have a lot in common. My plans for the next time I see her are:

1. Get more kino/mental kino going on.
2. Start teasing her about something.
3. Learn more about her.

Is there anything else/different I should do?

 

[Ojete]

1. Get more kino/mental kino going on

mental kino?? wow i wasn\'t aware of that. So you make her feel that you are touching her without actually doing it?? isn\'t it easier to just actually TOUCH her??

Seriously, don\'t worry about it:

- RELAX.

- have fun

- Be confortable with yourself, don\'t think about \"having to impress her\" with mind kino tricks or somehing...

If you feel a positive vibe from her during the conversations you know what to do (usually called \"isolation\") . Don\'t worry if there are empty spaces in the interaction, it is normal. Just be there and enjoy. The important thing is that you have a good time.

 

[BxPrince24]

lol when I said mental kino, I meant getting her to feel the way you feel through eye contact. But yea, I can totally relax about it. I don't really care if she doesn't get with me, it would just be a plus if she did. I'll be seeing her saturday at our team meeting, i'm not gonna call her or anything, i'll just see her then.

 

[BxPrince24]

Well guys, I saw her this morning at our meeting. After the meeting we chilled, I went with her into foot locker and after that we took the train together. We talked about movies, I had her laughing her ass off, music, etc...

The thing is that when I'm with her, I don't remember things like teasing her, because we have so much in common that we both really get into the conversations. I did get some kino going though and when she reached her stop, she kissed me on the cheek.

I should be seeing her tomorrow night at another meeting. I'm thinking about asking her out. Should I? Or should I spend some more time warming up to her first? And what do you guys think about how today went?

 

[BxPrince24]

anyone??

 

[I'm Joe Dirt]

What does MAVEC stand for exactly as in the acronym. Why isnt it just MKINO? *newb question probably but I never see a lot of stuff defined here and have to rely on context clues, but in cases of acronyms this is useless*

 

[I'm Joe Dirt]

Whoa, okay, I got it. I found that thread like 45 seconds after I posted. Thanks though!

I think it'd be a good idea to have a sticky or something with all the acronyms/terms defined for the new people or those of us who are slow on Sunday mornings.

 

[BxPrince24]

Thx, so I'm ready to ask her out but I don't know if I should wait till I see her to do it or call her and ask her. Plus I had wanted to use that tip that I seen in the forums, that "So how long have you been single?" "I wasn't sure until now when you asked that" etc.... then ask her out.

If I do ask her out on the phone, I was thinking about doing something along the lines like: What are you doing friday? Ok, well don't set up anything because we're gonna go see Stealth and chill after that or I'm going to go see stealth on friday, you should come along.

What do you guys think?

 

[Morphiex]

use : What are you doing friday? Ok, well don't set up anything because we're gonna go see Stealth and chill after that then shell know its a date...

dont use : I'm going to go see stealth on friday, you should come along. its more a friend line....

 

[JJMcLure]

Like already said, you friend will have told this chick you like her. Chicks talk, especially about sh1t like that. Not a problem, as long as you didn't hold off making a move for months because that could look unconfident.

You have her number - she knows why you wanted it. And remember, her friend has already told her you like her (she would have sensed it anyway).

All you have to do is go ahead and go out with her. She is expecting you to make a move. Wait too long and you've blown it.

You don't need to delay with plans to get to know her better etc, that is what "dates" are for. Just go out (or stay in ), have fun and try to get physical (at whatever level).

And the fact you "forget" techniques when you're with her, that OK, dont force artificial techniques when you can build good rapport and the interaction feels natural.

If you will see her in the next few days and you know you will have a chance to get her alone, you can ask her out in person. Otherwise just pick up ther phone ASAP and ask her out. The longer you wait the more you build it up, get nervous etc.

Don't ask all that crap about are you single (unecessary, irrelevant and ensuing dialogue could end up being a stumbling block). Just set a time and place to do something together.

 

[BxPrince24]

Ok, so today was fun, it was her (C), her friend (the friend that I told I like C), me, and our friend E. So after the meeting we all chilled in manhattan. Me and C were shouting things at eachother in the street and busting on eachother. Here's one of the things that was said:

she was showin her friend her panties because her friend didnt believe she had on panties.

-So I was like I get a peep too right?
-C said "we're in manhattan, they're peep shows all ova the place"
-So I said "but they cost 25 cents, why should i pay when I can see it for free?"
-She said "Hell no, my **** is way more expensive than 25 cents!"
-So I said " I see what you mean" So I pulled out all the change in my pocket and said "Here, this should be enough"
I just had her laughing all day.

So I asked her out, but she said this is the weekend that she has to spend with her father (her parents are divorced and she goes every other weekend) So I said we can go when she gets back and she said definately so we're on for next week monday.

Now when we left, C and E left together because they take the same train and me and her friend left together cause we take the same train.

So me and her friend were together on the train and she told me that she want's a seat so I said "that's nice."

-she laughed then asked me to ask ppl to get up so we can sit.
-I said, "I'll ask them to get up so I can sit and you can stand up and watch" She laughed again.
-So I told her to wait 10 mins then I'll ask someone. I was listening to my music with my mp3 player but i had 1 earpiece out so I can hear what she's saying.
-After 10 minutes she asked me again, then I put the other earpiece in my ear and turned up my music, she looked at me shocked with a smile.
-Anyways we got the seats, then she rested her head on my shoulder for the rest of the ride home.

What do you guys think about the day? any tips/suggestions/comments?