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What do you think this Tinder chick means by "looking for a man in finance"?
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I'm sure she will have no issues finding one of that's what she wants.
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This.
The girl who made the original video actually made it to poke fun at ridiculous dating standards. Unfortunately, I think it went over a lot of people's heads, as a lot of girls are stating this as their new "minimum", whether they're joking or not.
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Women's standards have increased in the last 20-25 years,
A larger percentage of women have experienced more abundance in the last 20-25 years. In the 2000s, women using dating websites were accustomed to getting their inboxes filled up. As dating websites became de-stigmatized around the early to mid 2000s, it became a common experience for women to have 100 or 200+ messages in their inboxes. A smaller percentage of women were using dating websites circa 2010 as compared to what happened later with swipe apps, but the women who used dating websites in the 2nd half of the 2000s/early 2010s experienced abundance and started raising their standards.
The standards on looks have gone up far faster than the standards on money. The standards on money have also gone up but Millennial and Gen Z women have been raised to have their own money and own careers. Because women can make their own money now, it takes a higher level of income/net worth to impress them. We had a thread in from Spring 2023-July 2024 about above average salary earners not impressing women with money anymore.
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By doing this, she's showing a level of immaturity. She's also taking a big risk that a lot of men won't get the joke and assume she's a gold digger. When women have such great abundance, they are willing to do things that might turn off men either from demonstrated immaturity or showing that they are gold diggers. They don't care.
Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.
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Sounds kinda hard actually...
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The man she is singing about mogs me by a foot, and BlueEyeMogs me as well.
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So what? 6'5", finance, trust fund, and blue eyes is rare. She picked an absurd example to mock the standards of Millennial/Gen Z women in the USA/Western nations. @BPH pointed this out above.
She has illustrated the real trend of women increasing their standards. I reached my adult height in 2000. During the decade of the 2000s, I don't remember women making as much of a fuss about height. My 5'10" height was passable to them, though even then it probably wasn't the most desirable. Once women started to get more abundance in the late 2000s/early 2010s, 6'0"+ started to become the standard for Millennial White women in the United States. I started getting rejected more frequently due to my sub 6'0" height. My 5'10" height is not that bad overall. It's much worse for @MatureDJ .
Working a high paying corporate finance job + having family money from a trust is appealing to women.
Overall, women care more about looks than money. @BPH is a great example of this. He's never done well on salary or net worth, but he has seduced nearly 100 women as a result of being 6'0"+ and having a near elite level physique.
TheGambino
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You don’t have to be so sarcastic just being straight to the point and clear like always
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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