What do you think about the 3 attributes you must have to get laid?

[Poonani Maker]

Confidence, Abundance, and Escalation.

Do you have all of these, 2 of these, 1 of these, or none of these? Be honest.

I have Confidence (i.e. I can walk up to and talk to ANY girl), nothing scares me, because of all I've been through, as a man.

I have Abundance of women, but I can't ask 5 to 10 of those women to go with me to any one place at ANY time I want. Maybe one at a time will agree to go with me. Maybe. So I don't have abundance.

I don't exactly have escalation. But yeah, I do. I can sex up a girl, but I sometimes don't Make opportunities or realize opportunities IOIs before me to begin the sexing up. I drop the ball a lot on cues to move forward.

What do you lack? If you lack neither, are you getting laid, all the time?

 

[ALPHAROMEO]

busting AA

confidence ****y and funny never apologetic
prepared scripts always the same scripts like a comedian who knows his lines perfectly

AA
stop 10 PEOPLE ON THE STREET AND ASK THEM " i just been released from the loony bin which month is it ? do that for 10 days ( base on ALBERT ELLIS S shame attacking exercises GOOGLE ) and you ll get rid of 80 PER CENT of your AA

Then come back to me and i ll tel you which scrpts i always use

 

[oakraiderz2]

How are abundance and escalation attributes? I see what youre trying to do but youre a little off.

 

[Nutz]

Confidence, Abundance, and Escalation.

Do you have all of these, 2 of these, 1 of these, or none of these? Be honest.

I have Confidence (i.e. I can walk up to and talk to ANY girl), nothing scares me, because of all I've been through, as a man.

I have Abundance of women, but I can't ask 5 to 10 of those women to go with me to any one place at ANY time I want. Maybe one at a time will agree to go with me. Maybe. So I don't have abundance.

I don't exactly have escalation. But yeah, I do. I can sex up a girl, but I sometimes don't Make opportunities or realize opportunities IOIs before me to begin the sexing up. I drop the ball a lot on cues to move forward.

What do you lack? If you lack neither, are you getting laid, all the time?

Sounds like someone's been drinking from the wells of Sinn and/or AFC Adam.

Personally I'd say you need all 3 characteristics to get laid. I'll see if I can dig up the video on this very subject.

 

[Alphamale1821]

Unique persona which resonates through my confidence , humor and Body language and of course good looking and successful ^_^

 

[Poonani Maker]

Sounds like someone's been drinking from the wells of Sinn and/or AFC Adam.

Personally I'd say you need all 3 characteristics to get laid. I'll see if I can dig up the video on this very subject.

It's here: http://www.the21convention.com/2009/05/17/adam-lyons-2008-day-2-1-of-1/

And to oaklandraiders, an "attribute" is something you can add to yourself by training in it. Either of the 3 can be improved by working on it, just like you would a jumpshot or tackling in football.

You can train your escalation skills, your compliance skills (to get women to go with you WITH OTHER WOMEN), and your confidence (by doing stuff you've never done before, saying what the fvck, I'm doing it, fvck it, even if I might die).

 

[Sir_Turtle]

Looks, proper isolation, and charm.

that's all it takes to get a hoe's pants off.

 

[nismo-4]

Looks, proper isolation, and charm.

that's all it takes to get a hoe's pants off.

In most cases these days, it's looks, fame, and fortune.

 

[Connor99]

Be Yourself

That always helps


Girls can spot a fake a mile away

 

[Maxtro]

Be Yourself

That always helps


Girls can spot a fake a mile away

ROFL, be yourself? :crackup:

If that worked then this forum and the entire seduction community wouldn't exist.

I mostly agree with Poonani Maker. The key things in getting laid is having confidence and escalating. With confidence you take risks and feel better about yourself. Escalation is knowing, how and when to escalate and not being afraid to do it. It is strongly connected with confidence.

With strong confidence and good escalation skills almost anybody can get laid. Of course getting to that point is the hard part.

Having an abundance of women is a plus but not required. It may make things easier but it's completely possible to get laid if you only know one girl, as long as you have confidence and can escalate.

It's also important to recognize opportunities and capitalize on them. Luck happens when opportunity meets preparation.

 

[Nutz]

It's here: http://www.the21convention.com/2009/05/17/adam-lyons-2008-day-2-1-of-1/

And to oaklandraiders, an "attribute" is something you can add to yourself by training in it. Either of the 3 can be improved by working on it, just like you would a jumpshot or tackling in football.

You can train your escalation skills, your compliance skills (to get women to go with you WITH OTHER WOMEN), and your confidence (by doing stuff you've never done before, saying what the fvck, I'm doing it, fvck it, even if I might die).

Thanks! I forgot all about looking for that last night.

 

[nismo-4]

Be Yourself

That always helps


Girls can spot a fake a mile away

That's the gayest sh*t I ever heard!

If that actually worked then we'd all be having lots of sex and dating wouldn't be an issue!

 

[ChrizZ]

A wallet

A hooker

A penis

 

[daygameguy]

Abundance is the toughest to have.

 

[dbot]

That's the gayest sh*t I ever heard!

If that actually worked then we'd all be having lots of sex and dating wouldn't be an issue!

Right... I almost forgot that everyone here has the confidence to be their true, uninhibited selves in the presence of total strangers.

/sarcasm

 

[Nutz]

Abundance is the toughest to have.

Depends on the individual. When I was younger I had tons and tons of chick friends. I did not have the confidence or know-how to sexually escalate. Now I have those, but lost the abundance which is what I'm working on again.

 

[Alle_Gory]

Laid back
Welcoming
Sense of fun

****y is important but must be used properly.

 

[Daydream Engineer]

Confidence
Sociable
High Self Esteem

 

[Willis]

Big D!ck
Money
Looks

I Have None Of Those Things.......

 

[nismo-4]

Big D!ck

If you have one, it can't be shown until the bedroom. And that's if you get there with the girl

Money

Not all of us men are born rich. If you win the lottery, all the golddiggers come out to play! Most rich guys stay low key as a countermeasure to detract golddiggers. I would too and drive a Nissan Sentra!

Looks

If you're rich, you can just get plastic surgery. If not, you'll have to use what you were born with. You'd better have an appealing personality.

I Have None Of Those Things.......

Read between the lines and weep homie!