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What do you think a chick on Tinder means by saying "if you are a real gentleman we would get along"?

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Got this on my Tinder feed:

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Here's another pic. I think she's quite hot. :cool:

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Dudes. You're hot! I mean six pack. I mean wealthy. Plus demonstrating your wealthy all over.

It's a fake profile, there is a scam behind it.

How you know it's crap? When it's way over your head, too good to be true. Just picture yourself in your top shape, with professional doctored photos, messaging an average chick.
 
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SW15 said:
That was my first thought.



Agree.

@MatureDJ -- You are likely too short for her for a conventional relationship. She looks like she's in the 5'9"-6'1" range.
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Yes, she does look like she mogs the sheet out of me. :mad:
 
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MatureDJ said:
Yes, she does look like she mogs the sheet out of me. :mad:
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Height wise, she likely wouldn't find me at 5'10" all too appealing. I'd be fighting an uphill battle too.

I would need to win her over with some other elements of my looks, my money, my status, or my personality/charisma.

I'm not concerned about her specifically since I don't think I would ever encounter her in real life. She's not in my city. There are women similar to her in my city.
 
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Not sure why ya'll are assuming the worst intentions of her. I'm usually one to judge women and tear apart her horseshvt quickly, but I wouldn't necessarily say wanting a gentleman means she's a hoe who needs a sugar daddy. She looks pretty classy from those pics, no tats, and easily close to a 9, so off the bat I'm seeing no indication she's a walking contradiction.

Gentleman can just mean doing things like holding open doors, picking her up in your car, etc. I wouldn't mind doing those for a woman if she herself had class, submissiveness, and traditional femininity. But the odds of her actually holding those qualities is admittedly small.
 
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FlexpertHamilton said:
Not sure why ya'll are assuming the worst intentions of her. I'm usually one to judge women and tear apart her horseshvt quickly, but I wouldn't necessarily say wanting a gentleman means she's a hoe who needs a sugar daddy. She looks pretty classy from those pics, no tats, and easily close to a 9, so off the bat I'm seeing no indication she's a walking contradiction.

Gentleman can just mean doing things like holding open doors, picking her up in your car, etc. I wouldn't mind doing those for a woman if she herself had class, submissiveness, and traditional femininity. But the odds of her actually holding those qualities is admittedly small.
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Well, if it means anything, I clicked the heart button for her, so maybe we'll hookup, LOL.
 

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FlexpertHamilton said:
Not sure why ya'll are assuming the worst intentions of her. I'm usually one to judge women and tear apart her horseshvt quickly, but I wouldn't necessarily say wanting a gentleman means she's a hoe who needs a sugar daddy. She looks pretty classy from those pics, no tats, and easily close to a 9, so off the bat I'm seeing no indication she's a walking contradiction.

Gentleman can just mean doing things like holding open doors, picking her up in your car, etc. I wouldn't mind doing those for a woman if she herself had class, submissiveness, and traditional femininity. But the odds of her actually holding those qualities is admittedly small.
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“Gentleman” can mean different things in different contexts. On dating apps, it’s a dog whistle for “looking for someone to spend money on me”. Ditto when women say that they are looking for someone with “old fashioned values” or someone who is “generous” or that their “love language” is receiving gifts. Just because she looks classy and lacks tattoos doesn’t mean she can’t be a gold digger.
 
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