What Do You Tell Your Family?

[Vending Machine Veteran]

Dating outside of your race is viewed down upon by most races, because if you have a baby with the woman, you're changing your lineage. Your mother won't look like her grandaughter...

“I’m moving to a bigger city, doing cold approaches, making up for lost time, increasing my Laycount, and working on building up a rotation”

This is woman talk. Have you been watching Sex and the City, because you sound like a woman. Increasing your lay count? Lol

How about you increase your personal skills and confidence around women? You don't need to have sex with morally casual women to do that.

Having sex with morally casual women will actually hurt your chances at ever finding a quality wife.

I found the red pill at 17 and it changed me. For the better? Probably not.

In hindsight i should have mixed the blue and red pill.

If you wanna mix races? Good luck lol. I dated a sexy black chick once. The mean stares i got from black men and women lol

Every race looks down on race mixing.

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

It's been scientifically proven that the more people you fvck, the less likely you are to be in a successful relationship. That goes for men and women.

Why are you seeking this life, young buck?

I've lived it and I can tell you it ends up where the studies say.

Marry young if you can. Settle down and have kids early. Don't waste your time.

You can choose to not believe me, but you will regret it one day

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

Definitely be choosey about who you pick. Women are chameleons by nature.

She should agree with your thinking most of the time. If she doesn't, fvck her. You're young

Become a man. Figure out what's important to you and stand by it, no matter what. This may take some time. Doesn't matter. You figure out you.

Then you're ready to settle down. But know that any women you mess with before you figure yourself out will lessen your chances at being successful lol

It puts the game mode to Hard. Welcome to the life of a man. It's always on Hard.

If you wanna be a b1tch, you can back out now, play video games etc.

It would probably be a smart move lol

But if you want to partake in this life, you better get hard. And quick

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

When i say hard, i mean immune to a woman's bullsh1t.

She's gonna cry you a river. She might spit on you, hit you in the face, throw things at you lol

But you have to stand strong always. You have to be the rock.

After she's done emoting, you remind her that you're the masculine figure and that she needs to cool her britches


Welcome to the life, young buck

 

[Millard Fillmore]

People are gonna judge you no matter what you do, so it might as well be what you want. Personally I don't give a f*ck what other people say or think.

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

People are gonna judge you no matter what you do, so it might as well be what you want. Personally I don't give a f*ck what other people say or think.

Right!

This is the mindframe you need to have at all times.

As you get older and more experienced, you will have a reason behind your nihilism. It will stem from a life of stuggle, rather than being an inexperienced know-nothing

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

People are gonna judge you no matter what you do, so it might as well be what you want. Personally I don't give a f*ck what other people say or think.

 

[Murk]

I used to get this, I would just say I'm not ready, case closed. What more is there really to say?

Now they ask when am I having kids, "when the right girl comes along". They've literally loved all my ex gf's and girls I bring around the family, asking wen kids wen kids. Deep down I'm still waiting for that blow you away girl I can be happy with. Pull-out game too strong (or infertile).

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

"I'm surveying the field, looking for open receivers".

I just made that up.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

"Most people know to mind their business and not to ask questions. Become like most people."

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

I used to get this, I would just say I'm not ready, case closed. What more is there really to say?

Now they ask when am I having kids, "when the right girl comes along". They've literally loved all my ex gf's and girls I bring around the family, asking wen kids wen kids. Deep down I'm still waiting for that blow you away girl I can be happy with. Pull-out game too strong (or infertile).

All single men get this from women. It does start to wear on you over time.

They aren't wrong, though. It used to be a given that you would marry and have kids.

Progressivism has reached the point where everything that is old needs to be replaced, regardless if it worked or not

Marriage and kids works, but it's viewed as holding women back. Women need to get jobs and suffer what men do lol

Studies have shown that people aren't as happy as they were 50 years ago, or 75 years ago. Especially women. Women don't know what they want. They need to be told. Most men do too

 

[CornbreadFed]

I’m down, but where does one meet these Arab Latina and Indian women?

As for Nashville women: I’ve had some very motivating successes here and there, and I’m willing to put in the work, but I will agree that the effort I’ve put in has been massive. Nashville locals can truly be the absolute worst lol.

Donelson, Antioch, maybeeee Charlotte pike/Sylvsn park, and Berry Hill for the city parts. For suburbs, I’d stick with Rutherford county and Wilson. County. You are going to be grabbing needles and pulling teeth if you are gaming in the Gulch, Franklin, Belle Meade, Sumner County, 12th South, Green Hills.

TBH Broadway and Division street can be hit or miss, but they are your best options if you choose to go out . There’s some enclaves like plaza in Glencliff but they are enclaves haha.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Dating outside of your race is viewed down upon by most races, because if you have a baby with the woman, you're changing your lineage. Your mother won't look like her grandaughter...

“I’m moving to a bigger city, doing cold approaches, making up for lost time, increasing my Laycount, and working on building up a rotation”

This is woman talk. Have you been watching Sex and the City, because you sound like a woman. Increasing your lay count? Lol

How about you increase your personal skills and confidence around women? You don't need to have sex with morally casual women to do that.

Having sex with morally casual women will actually hurt your chances at ever finding a quality wife.

I found the red pill at 17 and it changed me. For the better? Probably not.

In hindsight i should have mixed the blue and red pill.

If you wanna mix races? Good luck lol. I dated a sexy black chick once. The mean stares i got from black men and women lol

Every race looks down on race mixing.

I think this is too far fetched. Racial mixing or cultural mixing isn’t some new recent phenomenon. I think it’s more so group thinking and convenience for the average person. Other people are either really ambiguous or extremely closed off which I think are outliers. Nashville, TN has a huge Good Ole White Boy narrarive that doesn’t promote racial mixing and to be in the “In Crowd”, dating a good ole boy or Jesus with a man bun is seen as the status for women there. Go somewhere else like Dallas or Los Angeles where money is a bigger status symbol then you are going to have a much easier time dating interracially. If you are choosing to interracially date then yes location does matter.

 

[Smok1nAce]

It's been scientifically proven that the more people you fvck, the less likely you are to be in a successful relationship. That goes for men and women.

Why are you seeking this life, young buck?

I've lived it and I can tell you it ends up where the studies say.

Marry young if you can. Settle down and have kids early. Don't waste your time.

You can choose to not believe me, but you will regret it one day

this.

I wish someone would have told me this at a younger age.

Once you hit 30, socials pressure become real. Unless your extremely rich, have higher status or a really engaging job. Being single is not what’s you might think.

If your a simple 9-5 er it becomes difficult to relate to those around you and it will isolate you even more.

I don’t regret staying single in my 20s but I comes with its trades offs.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

I've told everyone in my life since age 10 I will never be getting married or having children, and now at 30+ they finally believe me.

 

[SW15]

Go somewhere else like Dallas or Los Angeles where money is a bigger status symbol then you are going to have a much easier time dating interracially.

Money is meaningful in a superficial dating market and Dallas is rather superficial.

Even with Dallas being superficial, Dallas White women seem to prefer White men who are rather cookie cutter. They are looking for cookie cutter Chad who is 6'0"+ with lighter to medium brown hair, an athletic build and Golden Retriever type energy. White men who don't fit that mold have a more difficult time with White women in Dallas. Interrracial dating is more challenging too but I have known White women in Dallas that dated Black men.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Even with Dallas being superficial, Dallas White women seem to prefer White men who are rather cookie cutter. They are looking for cookie cutter Chad who is 6'0"+ with lighter to medium brown hair, an athletic build and Golden Retriever type energy. White men who don't fit that mold have a more difficult time with White women in Dallas. Interrracial dating is more challenging too but I have known White women in Dallas that dated Black men.

I think this type of white guy is always going to be at the top of food chain in any American dating scene. The difference between Nashville and Dallas is that there’s a placeholder for second or third place for a non white guy in Dallas where in Nashville there isn’t because most women are married by 25 or they just pick a barista looking manbun jesus or white guy referred to them from a sorority sister.

 

[nicksaiz65]

It's been scientifically proven that the more people you fvck, the less likely you are to be in a successful relationship. That goes for men and women.

Why are you seeking this life, young buck?

I've lived it and I can tell you it ends up where the studies say.

Marry young if you can. Settle down and have kids early. Don't waste your time.

You can choose to not believe me, but you will regret it one day

That’s very interesting.. but I thought the narrative on SS was to not get married?

 

[SW15]

That’s very interesting.. but I thought the narrative on SS was to not get married?

I do not believe that SoSuave as a whole has a narrative. The idea of a place like SoSuave is that many different viewpoints are shared.

As a whole, SoSuave forum participants tend to have either a more red pill or black pill perspective on romantic relationships. A blue pill ideology is generally frowned upon on this forum.

There isn't a consensus on marriage but a very large percentage of forum participants are anti-marriage, especially anti-marriage in the Western world.

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

That’s very interesting.. but I thought the narrative on SS was to not get married?

That's still my narrative, but that's me.

I found sosuave at a bad time, when there was a lot of negativity, and it shaped me.

I passed up on multiple keepers because of what I learned on sosuave.

In my old age venture back, i'm taking a new, more mature stance.